Hi! So I'm new to this site. Need some feedback from outsiders. My wedding is in the fall late Sept 2021 I am from chiacago. I would have loved to go away somewhere was what I really wanted for my bachlorette but was being considerate of everyone else because of money seems to always get brought up and I have many people having babies before this and I know it will be too much going on for everyone else. I put my wants aside and did what was best for the group. Now im having it local doing a bachlorette party downtown and only getting hotel booked for one night! My biggest thing I wanted to have incorporated in my wedding was a boat/beach morning till around brunch time. There are a few girls who have given me lots of positive feedback and ideas how to accomplish it and other ones who from the beginning saying no1 goes to Chicago, we should have it somewhere else, money, and saying they don't want to go on a boat and saying they don't want to stay at a hotel. Even the words saying I am asking for alot! To the point that everything I hear just puts everything down and no positive thing. Is it wrong that I don't want this type of mindset planning my bachlorette? I'm only getting married once so shouldn't I do what is the most important things that I want to do and not have to worry about other complaining to the bride. I talked to a few brides already and they said plan what I want to do and who it is important to be there will be there with a smile on their face. And so many people have already told me that a day and 1 night in the city seems like I'm really not asking for alot at all and compared to theirs mine seems way more chill. Need some advice on more outsiders. Has anyone had issues like this??