I have two sisters and one brother, and the three of us girls have always been really close. One of my sisters is younger and one is older (I'm in the middle). We are all very creative and have planned hundreds of events together... we're pretty much a dream team. In terms of weddings, the three of us recently planned our sister-in-law's bachelorette together, and it was very much a shared task. We all brought something to the table and it turned out amazing.
They (my sisters) have always talked about trading off for MOHs (each person would have a chance), but to be honest, I've always seen them both in the seat for my wedding. My plan is to ask them both to be my Maid*s of Honor, but what I'm wondering: would that cheapen their experience?
On one hand, I think it's a chance to take some of the stress off of going it alone. They both have high-powered jobs right now. One lives farther out of town and one life close by. They could divide and conquer, rather than everything falling on one of them. I was also thinking they would walk down the aisle together, since they are both badass, independent women in my life and my two right hands.
I just don't want it to feel like I couldn't decide so I went for both. That is not the vibe. I literally couldn't imagine a better duo and I rely on both of them for their different strengths when it comes to knowing me, knowing my fiance and helping me plan something...