Dear Prudence,
I rent half of a duplex and never had a problem with my neighbors until now. The kids next door run wild from sun up until sun down screaming their heads off. Half the time they sound like someone is murdering them. I can hear them in every room of my house. Worse, they love to torment my dogs. They will come over and bang on the sliding glass door to get them barking. I work nights. I am losing sleep over this. I have already confronted their mother and asked politely to keep her kids on her side and for them to leave my dogs alone. First, she denied it was her kids, so I showed her the video from my security system. Then she made the excuse that her kids were just “playing.” I told her that the kids need to play in their yard, not mine, and to stop trespassing. Or I would go to the landlord. She started to scream at me. At this, I went back inside. I really don’t want to escalate or be a problem, but I don’t see any other way out.
—Losing Sleep