Which is more preferable flower girl/ little bride, ring bearer/little groom

knottie7c04c097434ca327

Hello here, so my wedding is 142 days away and I have been wondering about either to just go with a flower girl and dress her up like a little bride because I think having two little kids would be too chaotic and hard to handle especially if they get fussy 😭 or if I have to get both? Getting a little bride and a flower girl would means I have to get a ring bearer and a little groom. That’s 4 children. I think it will be too much for me. What do you guys think? 

ILoveBeachMusic

Is having a little bride and groom a cultural thing? If not, I wouldn't do that since I've never seen it done in the US  where I live. I have seen pictures from an Italian wedding many years ago that had little brides and grooms but I'm not sure they do that any more. I would only have a flower girl and a ring bearer.

climbingsingle

knottie7c04c097434ca327 said:

Hello here, so my wedding is 142 days away and I have been wondering about either to just go with a flower girl and dress her up like a little bride because I think having two little kids would be too chaotic and hard to handle especially if they get fussy 😭 or if I have to get both? Getting a little bride and a flower girl would means I have to get a ring bearer and a little groom. That’s 4 children. I think it will be too much for me. What do you guys think? 

Truly never heard of a little bride or little groom before. 

You can do whatever you want. Have no kids. Have just a flower girl. Or just a ringer bearer. Your choice. 

I'll only be having a ring bearer at my wedding (my nephew). 

Jen4948

It's up to you, but I would not have a "little bride" or "little groom." Having a flower girl does not require you to have a ring bearer and vice versa. Even sides are not necessary.

knottiee6e7f7bacf69b60e

Mini brides and grooms are not a cultural thing. Having a miniature bride and groom suppose to symbolize the transformation of the bride and groom from children to adults. Most average thinking adults dreamed of or pictured their wedding day.  Some may think it’s weird but just because you haven’t heard the term doesn’t mean it’s weird.  The bottom line is; it’s your wedding, do what you want to do.  However, most wedding attendants are those who mean the most to the bride and groom.