Dear Prudence,
I met someone on a cruise last week and it’s been amazing. During the day we spent time with our friends and family, and then at night, it was just the two of us. We built a connection. Feelings were definitely involved. On the last day of the trip, I had a weird feeling that this might be the last time we talked. We both live in the same state. I gave him my number on the app that we used when we had no service. Since the trip, I haven’t heard from him. I don’t have his number and I can’t find him on social media. I have so many thoughts in my mind. I am confused because I did ask him if he was going to reach out, and he gave me a confident yes. I just want to know why he ghosted me when what we had was a special moment. Should I try to find him, or just keep it as a cruise fantasy?
—Cruise Fantasy