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Wedding Woes
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No Monday post yet?
We had some drab weather this weekend. But the rain held off enough for us to have a little bit of a bonfire Saturday night. It was my friends 45th. Sunday I was actually productive and removed more tops out of my jam packed closet I’ll never wear for whatever reason. I have 5 more on their way 
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Had a good spin class this morning. I'll be home for a while so hopefully I will get back into going 2-3 times a week. This weather is glorious. We have doors and windows open. The pup is loving the screened porch. He thinks the couch out there is his personal property LOL. I guess it probably is.
However, early evening yesterday my friend L hit me up because she was still OOT and asked if DH and I could get her son to school in the morning because her ex had to be at work early (something about a project). We were like, "Yeah, great. What time is your ex dropping him off in the morning?" She said 7. FFWD to 7pm last night, her ex is at my door with their son. We handled it like pros and were like, "OK, come on in, let's get you some food." Made up the futon for him and got him settled. But I immediately hit up L because I knew she had no idea he pulled this fuckery. She was pissed, but I was just like, "He's good. He's safe. We've got him, but I didn't think you knew he was here and that's not cool." L's son had never spent the night before and he's only 6, so I was up and down all night because I was worried he'd wake up scared and unsure of where he was. He slept just fine and was a total angel through all of it (he's usually a good kid, but he's 6 and it was a weird situation for all of us). But yeah...it's really BS on her ex's part, so I know she's going to have to call him out for this.
Never a dull moment. LOL
I'm tired, but SSDD otherwise. The weather is just outstanding today. I'm working from the couch and sitting next to the window enjoying the breeze. I see a nap in my future after work.
I had a dermatology appt today and got a few things removed - i should have worn looser pants though bc one is in a weird spot and keeps rubbing on my jeans.
I'm still bleeding after the pap last week and cannot get to Friday fast enough to get some answers on what is going on.
I need to finally change over my clothes now that it seems we're back to cooler weather.
Friday night Chiquita had her first soccer game. She took a ball kicked right to her stomach and everyone had to take a knee (a sign that someone is injured on the field). I sat slightly freaked out when she walked off the field but she rallied and was subbing by the end of the 1st half so I'm super proud of her. Some of the moms on the team are very aware of what we have gone though so it's not your standard, "kid needs to shake it off" thing.
We had Chiquito's birthday party Saturday at the arcade and when we got home I started to to tidy up the house. Sunday Chiquita had religious class starting at 8:30 so I dropped her off, came home to work out and then we headed to mass followed by the church picnic. After that DH and I split duties and he helped his parents move some furniture to their new house while I cleaned ours.
It's gross and raining but there's no soccer practice so I just got an hour back tonight.
I'm just glad FIL had left before all this because he would have made it weirder than it needed to be. LOL
But yeah, who the eff does that? I cannot believe he put L in the position of not knowing where her SIX-year-old kid was or whose care he was in. I'm sure he's gonna cry miscommunication, but like...it's a situation where you want to be the clearest on what's going on one would think. Ugh. Anyway. He sucks.
@levioosa that's amazing! Also, I"m with you that I'm currently overwhelmed with the quantity of camping stuff that's occupying the family room and I've tasked DH that we need to have major storage solutions. It's both in the way and unorganized and I'm frustrated by it while glad that we're a household people feel that they can call on for 'you guys have stuff'. We do! You can find our camp lantern in the kitchen next to the big cooler....and none of it belongs in the kitchen!!!
Anyway, the weather broke late last week and it's been mid-70s, sunny and no humidity all weekend. It's absolutely glorious. I bought a pair of boots and am so excited to wear them somewhere.
@levioosa, you go girl! I’d be a freaker-outer. If I even attempted it at all. Sorry it wasn’t the “vacation” you wanted.
We were front row.
M got flirted with mildly {jokingly} by them, so that was cute.
Night made 😭 Front row. Hilarious guys. Thank you forever Darcy and Jer 🥰 | Instagram
We slept in. BK and my mum went to build a bear and BK got one
If BK got rid of some stuffies {she ended up getting rid of 11!} then my mum would get her one.
Sunday I made candied bacon {don't be jealous. It's brown sugar on bacon - super easy to make}
We did cleaning then I had to get some stuff grocery pick up missed and took BK with me.
I took a nap while BK played and M played video games.
Super exciting lmao