Dear Prudence,
My boyfriend has constantly been reaching out to other girls the entirety of our relationship—I found this out because we used to have passwords to each other’s phones. The first time I caught him, I decided the interactions weren’t that worrisome. But recently he changed passwords. Even so, I found out he has been talking to an ex, telling her she’s beautiful and how he used to want to marry her. He also plans to meet her when they’re in the same city. I am so nervous about all of this, but he just blames me for having “invaded his privacy” on his phone. Is he right? What should I do?
—Anxious and Afraid