I have two sisters whose relationship with me is complicated. I talk to my older sister every so often each month. My younger sister lives with my folks and we talk with eachother when I visit. I'm going to be my older sisters maid of honor next november. I had already told them that they are both my maid of honors but I'm having second thoughts. My mom who is paying for most of the wedding wants my younger sister to be my maid of honor bc she is my sister who I grew up with. Compared to my older sister who is my half-sister. However my best friend who has been there for me to vent with seems to be the better choice. How do I tell my older sister that she is not going to be my maid of honor? But what if she is going to be mad at me and I'm not going to be invited to her wedding? I'm the kind of person who doesn't like to upset people. Please help me!