My MOH asked me a while ago about what I may want to do for my bachelorette party and I had said that I really wanted to do a pole dancing class. I heard from another bride-to-be friend and she said it was the most fun with all her girlfriends and I saw a groupon for it. My MOH told me that people would get sweaty and some people wouldn't enjoy it and maybe we should just do dinner and clubbing. I'd rather go to a bar and do something low key, then go to a bunch of clubs (which is what all my friends enjoy doing as most of them are single). I don't want to be pushy, and I appreciate that they'll be spending money and throwing me a bachelorette party to begin with. But it is my bachelorette party and I don't want to go clubbing all night. I want to do things that I enjoy, but I just don't know how to bring it up without feeling like a bridzilla or something. Do I even have a say or should I just shut up and enjoy what they plan??
Thanks for any advice/perspective!!!