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What's your WORST fear(s) about the BIG DAY?!

kelly1017kelly1017 member
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in New Jersey - South

I have 2 and the first one is: forgetting something important. Since our wedding is over an hour away I am SO AFRAID that I will forget something and I know that will really stress me out the closer we get.

My second fear is having my period for that day. I know it sounds silly but I want to be comfortable and not have to worry about that stuff. The last thing I want to think about is having to go to the bathroom to change my tampon, lol.

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Re: What's your WORST fear(s) about the BIG DAY?!

  • miguelhilary2010miguelhilary2010
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    edited December 2011
    Sweating profusely in the heat... not just me, but all of the BP.

    A vendor messing up, and me turning into bridezilla.

    People getting too drunk.
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  • kitten444kitten444 member
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    edited December 2011
    oh god -- i have already started to have nightmares about this !!!

    forgetting something at home that is needed for wedding...

    and the "boys" drinking too much at our sunday BRUNCH wedding....i mean honestly...who needs to get smashed at 11am?
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  • kitten444kitten444 member
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    edited December 2011
    OH - and no one having fun at the wedding...that is a big fear...
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  • lmparlettlmparlett member
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    edited December 2011
    kelly, talk to your doctor about worry #2... there's things they can do. : )

    1) weather... I know that my day will be beautiful no matter what, and I will be happy, but I worry about my guests being miserable if it rains or is too hot and humid!

    2) not feeling well... I have acid reflux pretty bad and am worried about an anxiety/nerve flair up that day..
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  • Musicheals71Musicheals71 member
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    edited December 2011
    My biggest worry is:  HOW THE HELL AM I GOING TO AFFORD ALL THOSE FINAL VENDOR PAYMENTS?!
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  • lmparlettlmparlett member
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    edited December 2011
    hahaha...

    yeah, Jodi... and that! ; )
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  • kartygrlkartygrl
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    edited December 2011
    What Jodi said! LOL
    Actually no, my biggest fear is any hint of a conversation about either set of parents wanting to stay at our house before the wedding - It was his parents' shore house for 20 years before he moved in, so it's still "theirs" in a way... Even though I thought I made it clear to everyone they CANNOT stay at our house! I don't need the stress of having to clean, too! :-)

    Second biggest is the payments.

    Third is that we are going to be well under our minimum guest count because of all the OOT guests.
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  • Musicheals71Musicheals71 member
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    edited December 2011
    Kartygrl:  long time, no see!  I see your wedding day is getting very close!
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  • Northstar1808Northstar1808 member
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    edited December 2011
    The weather, no one dancing, a vendor not showing up, FI getting hurt since his bach party is two days before I'm afraid he'll do something stupid while being drunk and he'll have a black eye or something for the wedding, and I'm afraid of people getting too drunk.
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  • danagigsdanagigs member
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    edited December 2011
    1) That the day goes so fast that I dont even remember even half of it :-( 

    2) That my arthritis kicks up and I wont be able to walk down the aisle or dance without a painful look on my face (ill just have to drink alot... which brings me back to #1 haha)

    3) My biggest fear of all:: that my sister starts with her drama and ruins mine and my fiance's big day. 
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  • rol769rol769 member
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    edited December 2011
    As someone who has been married for almost 7 months, I wanted to throw my 2 cents in.

    It's easier said than done, but don't stress all of that stuff.  Seriously.  The day will fly by SO QUICKLY, that you must enjoy yourself.  We were starting to make our way around the room to say hello to everyone at their tables, but at a certain point, I just stopped and said to myself to have fun because the night will be over before you know it.  Some of the things that were mentioned actually happened (mother nature, you're a cruel bitch! LOL) but you get past it.  I was stressed beyond belief because of the fact that my brother died 5 months before the wedding and he was suppposed to give me away, so my sister walked me down the aisle instead.  However, I was about ready to completely lose it as I was walking down the aisle, thinking of my brother, and I just stared at the ground telling myself not to start crying. I had people asking me at the cocktail hour why I looked so miserable.  Nuff said.

    All I can say is, have fun, enjoy your family and friends, and people will have fun.  Trust me.  My guests had a blast and there wasn't a song played where someone wasn't up on the dance floor.  Good luck to all of you, and just have a blast!  :)
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  • mp375mp375
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    edited December 2011
    1)  People not having fun and comparing our day to other family members that have recently gotten married
    2) hair/makeup disaster (even though the trial went amazing)
    3) not being able to relax enough to enjoy the day to the fullest
    4) not meeting our minimum guest requirement!!!
    5) and of course paying all the final payments!!!
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