So my fiance' is getting ready to deploy and will be home before our wedding, as of now. Without being too specific on here(with dates) I am just having problems as to when I should send them, he says I should wait until he gets the okay on the deployment dates. But as we all know nothing is certain in the military, just that nothing will be certain. We have out of state guests and it is during the holidays. Any military brides planning a holiday wedding that could give me some advice?