Do you think

SamiJoeB

To your Original Question...

If I recieved an invite to a VR (i'm assuming that since you are telling people, you'll be wording your invites to let the guests know it is a VR), That was across the country... I would send a gift, (this is also as a friend, not a family member) but probably wouldn't attend. If it were in the same town, I'd go. If it were my sister, I'd go regardless of distance or that fact that it's a VR. Thats just my opinion...

KendallR10

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_think-3?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:9ccb177b-ce55-41a9-b1ec-1c78bdc2edc4Post:c4d16e43-7108-45b7-998e-dd2682c146b4">Re: Do you think</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Do you think : we're? I'm seriously NOT trying to be a bitch here, so consider this a life lesson and not Sami being a bully.Like you said people spelling your name wrong is a pet peeve, people using bad grammar is mine. We're is implying we are, so knowing that your response makes no sense. "some of the things that we are said we are them bullying me", I think you mean "Some of the things that were said were them bullying me". End of that rant. Okay. Now for that comment. You were not be bullied, you were being talked to like an adult. <em><strong>Read up on cyberbullying and then if you can honestly say that you felt that you were being bullied, I will be the first to apoligize.</strong></em> Now for your original post, When you JOP, in my opinion, you are taking the risk that some of your guests will view your VR as less important and opt to not come. Thats just a chance that you have to take. I mean, I'm sure that if your family is not invited to your JOP, then they will still attend your VR. People realize that some people won't come to a VR, and IMHO, I think this is why so many couples try to lie about thier JOP.
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</div><div>I wrote an article on it for my school paper. I know what it is and yes I do feel bullied

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ggirl2001

It's not cyberbullying because none of us minors. it would fall under the title of cyber harassment: this is the definition:
Cyberharassment. Cyberharassment differs from cyberstalking in that it is generally defined as not involving a credible threat. Cyberharassment usually pertains to threatening or harassing email messages, instant messages, or to blog entries or websites dedicated solely to tormenting an individual. Some states approach cyberharrassment by including language addressing electronic communications in general harassment statutes, while others have created stand-alone cyberharassment statutes.

No one is trying to torment you. This is a public forum. It is not dedicated to harassing you. You post here, we disagree.

mob2689

Honestly, I feel bullied by moreless the same question you ask in most of your posts. The same subject over and over and tweeked each time like you are trying to convince us of what you are doing is right.  Like a PP stated something like: you keep beating this same subject to death. Go do what you want to do, we realy don't care.

We let you know our opinions because when you are the OP that is what you are asking for from us, but you keep bringing it up. As that one song is titled,"Let It Be". 

Maybe ask your mom or a close family member what she/they think. After all, their opinions should matter more to you. If you don''t like their opinions there are links on how to convince parents into things, not people on the internet. Search "how to convince your parents"

HTH
 

SamiJoeB

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_think-3?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:13Discussion:9ccb177b-ce55-41a9-b1ec-1c78bdc2edc4Post:f528fcb8-6fa1-41f1-bf8f-4b14338de749">Re: Do you think</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Do you think : I wrote an article on it for my school paper. I know what it is and yes I do feel bullied
Posted by KendallR10[/QUOTE]


Then I'm Sorry Kendall. I'm sorry that you are so immature that you can't handle being on a public forum and having to deal with opinons that differ from your own. I"m sorry that this is your first real life experience with adults. I'm sorry that you won't let anything go. And I'm sorry that you had a tacky ass idea that no one applauded you for. Do you feel better now? Stop being so sensitive, and Grow Up.