Kendall (and anyone else interested)

ggirl2001

I was thinking about posting this over here too DNB. (I just realized I call you DNB and sometimes Beachy, weird). That thread distracted me from working out. So I scratched that idea and am now drinking wine.

KendallR10

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_kendall-anyone-else-interested?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:e2022e26-b73f-4361-8d31-2dcc3337cd87Post:bbb46201-3d83-43ff-9811-77c0bdacaf2c">Re: Kendall (and anyone else interested)</a>:
[QUOTE]Maybe if Kendall had handled herself like you did Katelyn, she would get a break. YOU argued with all of us and refused to see our point of view. I don't know if you apologized because you wanted everyone to like you, or if You really did think about it and decide that there are point of views other than your own, and that women older and with more experience than you could be right. Most importantly, YOU put your big girl panties on and apologized. That is why everyone cut you a break. That is why I don't say anything every time you post something that I think shows your age, your naivety, or that I just plain disagree with. All that Kendall has done is continually made excuses for why she was justified in lying, talked about us on another board, acted like a child, kept bringing this ridiculous issue up and then finally apologized but only for being rude. Which she was. Am I rude? Yes. Am I harsh? Absolutely. Do I know what I'm talking about, YES. I have been in the military. Not just married to it. I have seen marriages fall apart faster than the bride could even get her name changed. I have seen first hand people go to a disciplinary review board for committing fraud by getting married for the benefits. I have seen them get put on restriction, have their pay docked, I've seen everything but then get processed out. I've seen children (18-19 year olds) get married, cheat on each other at the first hint of deployment, ruin cars, credit, homes, barracks rooms. I have seen it. Maybe Kendall didn't realize how wrong what she wanted to do was, Maybe she was being naive. I wish that I could give her the benefit of the doubt, but she has shown on this board, and on the other board that she doesn't deserve that. She thrives on the drama that she's creating, and if she doesn't you'd think she'd just stop. Does she have a right to post here, of course, as do I. Will I apologize to her because You think I should, No. I will apologize do her if/when I feel that I have crossed a line, which I haven't. She said, point blank she was getting married for the insurance. <strong>She belittled my service to my country by ASSUMING that I was using my GI Bill to pay for college, which FYI, I'm not, and by implying that I was somehow in the wrong for doing so.. I'm saving my GI Bill for my children, and going to school with money that my grandparents left me, and the money that I make by working</strong>. So don't play the poor poor pitiful working college student card with me, it wont get any sympathy from me. It is unfortunate that Kendall has these medical issues, but hey, So do I (not the same ones, but I have medical issues of my own), so do alot of people and they don't get married to screw the system. They find another way to figure out their problems. Kendall will get a break when she deserves one, and as far as I'm concerned, she doesn't.
Posted by SamiJoeB[/QUOTE]

<div>No offence but when I said that I was paying for college myself that wasn't directed at you. How was I to know if you we're using it or not. I was trying to make a point. Everyone is like "Get a job pay for it yourself." And I was trying to point out that it isn't as easy as everyone is trying to make it out to be. </div>

SamiJoeB

I felt the need to apoligize for Katelyn. I feel like she's this ridiculously annoying little sister that embarasses us all.

Plus.. I really liked those Snarky Brides. I've never heard the word TwatWaffle used so many times, or in such creative ways!!

I have got to remeber to use the little hour glass thingy... I forget because I usually only play with Military Brides and Nesties, that there is this whole world of other Knotties and Nesties. I forget that some of our embarassing posters can spread their ridiculousness, and give us all a bad rep. Now.. I have got to go get my oil changed!! I've been on here for going on 3 hours!!!