So, many of you know that my FMIL is wacko and hates me. Right?Well, I was volunteering on Saturday, like I usually do, and a woman walks up to me and says "I've been waiting to see you! How are you?" And it took like 3 seconds for me to connect that this was my FI's mom.I haven't seen her since Easter, and her coming to see me at PetSmart in my crazy yellow volunteer t-shirt on a Saturday was certainly unexpected.Well, she wanted to see my ring, and talk about cats (even though she has a dog), and tell me that she invites me over every Sunday but Josh never brings me (there have been several times I've left her house in tears, and I don't think he wanted to put me through it again), and that she really hopes to see me next week because she wants to get portabella mushrooms to grill for me and she is just so happy for Josh and I.My head asplode.Josh tells her every week that he's just too tired to make the 45 minute drive to her house. He is kinda lazy, but he's also afraid she won't play nice and I'll get my feelings hurt.I have recently been willing to go over, but he's still gun shy.Also a little tidbit-- when he called to tell his parents we were engaged, his dad congratulated him but his mom was taking a nap and couldn't be disturbed. She called him back two DAYS later, and when he told her the news, she got all offended and said "Well, I thought you were going to wait longer." She didn't congratulate him or say she was happy for him, even though she knew he bought the ring. It's not like it was out of the blue! She just started talking about how she expected him to take his time (5 years isn't long enough?) and that she was starting to get the flu (she magically gets sick when she's unhappy).He was pretty upset about that. I think he still is.But now, two weeks later, she's visiting me randomly and talking to me like we're best friends. It's weird. I mean, I admit, I am slow to anger but I do hold grudges. It's going to be hard for me to really believe she's 100% over everything suddenly.Some folks have said it's because now we're making things legal and we won't be living in sin. Even Josh said that. And I'm like..... but we're not married, just engaged! His mom seems to believe that it's "less of a sin" to live together when you're engaged than when you're not.What the crap ever. I give up. White flag. Crazy MIL, here I come.