My BF and I are having our one year anniversary. We have talked about marriage since about 3 months into our relationship, and are pretty much unofficially engaged. We want to get married in October of 2012. I know what dress I want, the engagement ring I want (its a pretty Tocari ring!!!), where we want it, my BM dresses, basically everything. I am just waiting for my ring!
My roommate just got engaged this summer to her BF after about 4.5 years of ebing together. My issue is that because she is engaged and I am not she thinks she is way better than me! She always tells me that its not smart to have my wedding planned out. But I say I know we will be together and I know what I want, so why wait? She also says that I shouldnt call my BF my hubby and his family my inlaws because thats a lie, but I do it because its easier than saying my BF's family or my BF. Am I right?
I basically think she is jealous of me... I lived with my BF this summer for a bit and she has never lived with her BF. She tells me it doesnt matter if you live together before marriage but I think it does. Her parents are just old school and won't let them live together. I can't imagine NOT living together before getting married. And I showed her my ring a couple times and she said its pretty but that I can find the same thing cheaper at a local jewler,But her BF just got her some .5 carat stone (.75 total( and I think she is kind of jealous because the one I am getting is a 1.5 Tocari 3-diamond engagement ring.
I don't even think she and her BF love eachother. I know they say they are busy with school and work, but they only see eachother like 2 times a week. But they live about 15 minutes apart! I go home every weekend to see my hubby (we live about 2 hours apart while I am in school).
LOL, well basically this has turned into a rant about my crazy roommate, but how can I tell this bia to back off?????? THANKS!
