Good Morning! This is the first time I've posted on this site, but I wanted to see if you girls could give me an unbiased opinion.
My BF and I have been dating almost 6 months and our relationship has moved very quickly (he told me he loved me after 3 weeks and met my parents after 4 weeks), but things are going great. We pretty much live together, his family loves me, my family loves him...blah blah blah. And where I know it may sound weird, we have already talked about marriage and want to get married.....but the question is when. I'm a very impatient person. BF has been engaged twice, but both girls cheated on him. He is older than I am, but everything works well. I realize that I still have a lot of growing up to do, but I know I want to marry him. I'm 22 but have always acted older than my age. I've graduate from college and have a good job, as well as he does.
Which brings me to my dilemma, I brought up how long he is going to make me wait to get engaged and he says "2 years and 10 months." I said "REALLY?? 2 years!" He responds with "2 years and 9 months." So it kinda sounds like he's joking, but I can't tell. I know he stayed engaged to one girl 7 years before they officially broke-up for good so it's not commitment issues. And BF is REALLY good at keeping secrets and loves to surprise me. (He once woke me up at 7am, told me to pack my bags, and 3 hours later we were in Ocracoke, NC!).
So my question is....do you think he's really going to make me wait 2 years or is he planning something sooner and just doesn't want me to suspect anything? Or do I just need to suck-it-up and be patient? (And no, this isn't MUD)