Let's talk about sex

LizzyTish88

Okay ladies I need some help. BF and I are skipping the celebrating on Valentine's day and going to Foxwoods next weekend. I am going to get a sexy nightgown and other fun things. I also want to make a slow jam playlist. Any ideas for music? Any songs/artist that get you in the mood? I am going to bring my iPod and play it in the background and any suggestions are appreciated!

Wrkn925

...Cause we never talk about sex.


Here's my suggestion:
 I heard somebody knockin' so I opened up the door
she wore a hat, shades and a trench coat, wasn't wearing that much more.
She said she knew my secrets but I didn't have a clue...

Not a slow jam, but one of my faves.

CASK85

Miles Davis -Kind of Blue. The whole album. Start to finish, it is super sexy. . . or at least I think so. 

mellimel19

I love having some sexy ambient chillout electronica for sexy time- check out Kruder and Dorfmeister for some slow sensual jams, they rank highly on my sex playlist. And yes, I DO have a sex playlist hahaha. There are also some Beastie Boys tunes (sorry I don't have my ipod with me to check which ones) that are slow and smooth, and unlike a lot of what you'd expect from the Beasties. Good luck on your sexy playlist!

bsidebella

James Morrison - "Better Man" <--- clicky for YouTube. It's not a video, just audio.

Sexy guy with a sexy voice singing a very sexy song. I'm sure I'll think of more. Music's my favorite

LizzyTish88

Thank you all! Great suggestions. I look forward to hearing some more!

calindi

Take a pole dancing or chair dancing class.  Seriously, the chair dancing class has been probably the best thing I've done for my relationship in a long time.  I feel sexier and more confident, and BF was absolutely shocked and impressed.  It added a whole new level to that aspect of our relationship.

bsidebella

I thought of more! www.youtube.com/watch?v=83UgrAzeCBI">
Green Day - Last Night on Earth <--- clicky

Coldplay - Fix You <--- clicky

EDIT: ew I don't know why the Green Day link isn't working, but it's right. So click that one LOL

LizzyTish88

Bside- That coldplay song is so good, but makes me cry. I have heard it before on So You Think You Can Dance(< clicky) and can't help but cry. I like the other songs as well, this playlist is coming together great.

coastiegrl25

1.nobody by keith sweat 
2.naked by marques houston
3.tshirt and panties by adina howard 
4.contagious by the isley brothers 
5.twisted by keith sweat
6.first time by young joc 
7.before i let you go by blackstreet 
8.turn off the lights by teddy pendergrass 
9.pussy control by prince 
10.kiss and say goodbye by the manhattans

LizzyTish88

Thanks Coastie!

SeaTea02

Maybe I am weird, we prefer classical lol 

bsidebella

Okay, cde, get out of my head, because the first time I ever heard that song was on "So You Think You Can Dance".

Just thought of another: "We Belong Together" by Gavin DeGraw <--- clicky

AudgiePodge

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_lets-talk-sex?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:5c7cea8f-024c-4f65-ab05-958d4fbd0cecPost:0daaaa3e-c5cd-4b93-aabc-afc9f98ef059">Re: Let's talk about sex</a>:
[QUOTE]Take a pole dancing or chair dancing class.  Seriously, the chair dancing class has been probably the best thing I've done for my relationship in a long time.  I feel sexier and more confident, and BF was absolutely shocked and impressed.  It added a whole new level to that aspect of our relationship.
Posted by calindi[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>Those are some awesome songs

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LizzyTish88

Oh how I love me some Gavin! And SYTYCD. I get a lot of good music from there. They introduced me to "If it Kills Me" by Jason Mraz (<click!) I don't know if it would be good for sexy time, but his voice is super sexy!

Sea- I don't think that it weird at all. Maybe I'll throw in a classical song and see how it goes.

cu97tiger

Prince - a song called 'Continental' ... no idea why, but it always works for me!

loves2shop4shoes

Is it weird that we don't ever listen to music as a prelude?

Btw...hehe...sex. 

SeaTea02

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_lets-talk-sex?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:5c7cea8f-024c-4f65-ab05-958d4fbd0cecPost:ca72ac5d-bdef-4e71-9250-c2ad71f6f4e3">Re: Let's talk about sex</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Let's talk about sex : Those are some awesome songs
Posted by AudgiePodge[/QUOTE]

<div>When are we going to get a "like" button on TK? </div>

SeaTea02

oh and "LET's TALK ABOUT SEX", BAY-BEE by salt n' peppa

there is a good song! 

LizzyTish88

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_lets-talk-sex?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:5c7cea8f-024c-4f65-ab05-958d4fbd0cecPost:650daaab-0392-4e6b-b9a4-1b455b10b7b6">Re: Let's talk about sex</a>:
[QUOTE]Is it weird that we don't ever listen to music as a prelude? Btw...hehe...sex. 
Posted by loves2shop4shoes[/QUOTE]

We don't either. But we are going away and will have a sweet little place to ourselves so I want to spice things up. This is also my attempt at being romantic.

LizzyTish88

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_lets-talk-sex?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:5c7cea8f-024c-4f65-ab05-958d4fbd0cecPost:eb358935-adea-4f97-916b-c21bfd937cf1">Re: Let's talk about sex</a>:
[QUOTE]oh and "LET's TALK ABOUT SEX", BAY-BEE by salt n' peppa there is a good song! 
Posted by SeaTea02[/QUOTE]

LOL. You know that is on my list!

calindi

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Let's talk about sex : Those are some awesome songs
Posted by AudgiePodge[/QUOTE]

Haha, whops!  Guess I read too quickly - I saw slinky nighty, and just figured she was asking for general ideas.

I do stand by the idea that chair dancing classes make the music SO much sexier.

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LizzyTish88

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_lets-talk-sex?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:5c7cea8f-024c-4f65-ab05-958d4fbd0cecPost:cac55b7e-fa59-4096-ba67-aa895a9616f1">Re: Let's talk about sex</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Let's talk about sex : Haha, whops!  Guess I read too quickly - I saw slinky nighty, and just figured she was asking for general ideas. I do stand by the idea that chair dancing classes make the music SO much sexier.
Posted by calindi[/QUOTE]

It is a good suggestion Cate. I just don't think that I will be able to fit it in before we go away, so I'll have to save that one for next time!

motoLyn

Change by the Deftones.  Yes I like it rough and edgy.  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WPpDyIJdasg

Make it Witchu by Queens of the Stone Age http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0wTxqHbJOzg Hommes has such a f* me voice.

PaigeMcC

...tv as background noise...?

loves2shop4shoes

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[QUOTE]...tv as background noise...?
Posted by PaigeMcC[/QUOTE]

<div>Paige FTW!</div>

SenoritaCupcake

What mood are you looking for? We have 2 play lists, one for Mandy Moore-style sexy fun times and one that’s more along the lines of Christina Aguilera.

 

SeaTea,

 

The first time BF and I made out, it was to Tchaikovsky. No lie.

LizzyTish88

I think I should start the list with THIS. Too much? (NSFW)

aah009

"Baby got back" is a good one;)

marleylikeair

You could take a tip from the movie "10" and put on Ravel's Bolero...never actually tried it to see if it's really the best sex music ever. (Okay, I think Bo Derek's line is actually that it's the "most descriptive sex music" or something.)

Are you going for more of a spice-it-up kind of deal, or more romantic?

I don't know how much help I can be, since we don't usually have music on. I asked BF and he said "Earth, Wind, and Fire. Barry White. Luther Vandross." He's no help, either. 

LizzyTish88

I think I am going more for romantic. Sexy would be good too though. My real plan is to make the list really long and tell BF we have to go at it until the list is over!