Vent about Sh!t Talking in Law School

bethsmiles

Your venue looks awesome!

PaigeMcC

Ohhh! Nice venue:)

desertsun

Wow. That is one amazing view! Great venue, Shoes! Thanks for sharing.

Goldlie11

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_vent-sht-talking-law-school?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:9d6d6665-204d-439c-b4a6-d317d2a483e9Post:491abca4-3fac-42c0-a5c6-b9265687ba67">Re: Vent about Sh!t Talking in Law School</a>:
[QUOTE]I do think I could've responded differently.  I was just so offended by the comment that it was the first thing that came out of my mouth. <strong> I'm was also offended by his nonsense claim that the comment was "borderline sexual harassment".  It was not.  I</strong> have unfortunately dealt with sexual harassment and sexual assault before and to say that my comment was sexual harassment was a serious stretch. As for the reception venue, here's a link. <a href="http://resources.elegala.com/venues/464-trustee-ballroom-at-boston-university" rel="nofollow">http://resources.elegala.com/venues/464-trustee-ballroom-at-boston-university</a> It's really gorgeous.  The balcony is perfect for cocktail hour.
Posted by loves2shop4shoes[/QUOTE]
I do think that this part was a bit much on his part.  I actually thought that I wrote that going to the dean seemed a bit much.  I guess that's what I get for Knotting while I'm exhausted.  <div>
</div><div>Anyway, what's done is done.  I hope that you do apologize and that the two of you can move on.  Maybe you can even be friends.</div><div>
</div><div>Now on to the venue.  It looks great.  I've visited BU and I really liked it there.  GL</div>

loves2shop4shoes

We haven't put down a deposit yet, but we're going to soon.  We have to find a church, which is apparently a lot more complicated than booking a venue.  We have friends that got married in the Trustee Ballroom and it was beautiful.  We loved the space and are really excited for it!

catemeg

There's a chapel at BU, isn't there?  I feel like that's where my Mom's cousin had her ceremony.  I was really young, but I remember it was all beautiful.

lmwilber

your hard work and brains got you into law school, not feminism! Guys like that are scared b/c they know that the old boys club is changing. Its his narrow minded problem, not yours.
That said, I would not have let him bate me into a 2 hour argument over it. He wanted to know he could get under your skin, and you let him. In his mind he just won. As for the other comments, don't worry about it. Chalk it up to nerves, jealousy, stress, whatever. The first semester of your first year ( just assuming from you post) is always the worst, once grades are out, people chill out pretty quick. Just keep your nose in the books, be nice to those around you and build up good karma!
Take it from a girl in her final semester, it does get better. Good Luck!!