So, just a little background. I'm graduating from college this year and will be enetering law school in Fall 2011. My boyfriend and I have seriously talked about getting married and know that we are it for each other. We talked about getting married in the summer of 2012. We are not officially engaged because we don't want a long engagement, a year at most. However, I have started to kind of plan the wedding, but like tentatively. Like, I've been getting a feel for the costs and have the wedding party's dresses picked out and all that. However, nothing is ordered and nothing is booked, and nothing is set in stone. I just figured I want to have mostly everything picked out because I know that my first year in law school will be extremely hectic and I seriously doubt that I'll have much spare time to be planning a wedding. So, essentially I'm tentatively planning the wedding and will set things in stone once I am officially engaged. My SO is okay with me doing this, and he agrees that I won't have much time, so it is a pretty smart thing to have things basically picked out and know the kind of styles and such that I want, guest list, venue, etc., but I wanted to know from you ladies if you think it's smart or just plain crazy. So, I would greatly appreciate any advice on if I should slow my roll or exactly how hectic planning and executing gets so that I am prepared for that amongst my first year classes and such. I do ask, however, that comments about my age and such and your views on the timing of our expected marriage be kept to yourself as we have thought about it and discussed it with each other and feel this is the best course of action for us. If you disagree, I respect that, but I ask that you not bring that up in this thread. Thank you all!!
AL