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SKP82

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_told-back-ney?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:aa6c3668-6ab8-4095-ab09-2a9b334d946cPost:fd925817-1b84-42b2-9227-5c779f7a03f5">Re: Told to go back to NEY</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Told to go back to NEY : oh em geez, GPB, way to totally blow things out of proportion. You are so very sad and juvenile. In Response to  Re: NWR My car : *snort* I particularly liked that part. You know, I tried to see things from that girl's perspective and be fair and honest with her. I've repeatedly defended her (to a certain extent) not only on NEY but off the board as well. And then <strong>for her to bad mouth the entire board to another board just pisses me off.  SHE is the one who posted here for over a year.</strong> Also, for her to go after someone else about name brands is ridiculous. The girl spends hundreds of dollars on Trish McEvoy products for her face.
Posted by desertsun[/QUOTE]

This!  Soooooo this.

alanna91

I also voice my opinion IRL more, sparkles.
I guess it's because I don't really "know" all of you. I'm not a reg yet and I've never met you in real life. I would never want to offend or hurt someone I didn't personally know.You never know what a person's situation truly is, only what you can gather from their posts.

As far as calindi's posts about that girl's car...da-yum. She's excited and wants to AW her new car! I would be the same way if I wasn't still driving around my thirteen year old Corolla (great car on the inside though, only 40k!!).
I don't think calindi had to take her down a notch like that, but apparently they have some past together.

FWIW, I've lurked and posted on MB before. They're all really friendly and welcoming, and it's a great little community. Even though I let them know I was NEY, they were still friendly towards me.

heyimbren

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_told-back-ney?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:aa6c3668-6ab8-4095-ab09-2a9b334d946cPost:57a09496-2c8e-4b14-8624-b95bf07d2e94">Re: Told to go back to NEY</a>:
[QUOTE]I think I'm pretty much the same. I might be slightly harsher here, just b/c people can't see my expressions. I've been told I have an expressive face. <strong>You girls haven't seen my "Are you fvcking kidding me right now?" face. :)
</strong>Posted by desertsun[/QUOTE]

Um, but I want to. Just not directed towards me ;)

To be honest, I'm not sure how I act IRL compared to the Interwebz. Actually, I'm probably nicer on the Internet than I am in real life because I can take the time to think through what I'm typing before I press "submit". I'm not sure I do that enough in real life lol.

Goldlie11

I don't think that it isf air to blame an entire board for a situation. I do think that the DB situation was blown out of proportion.  Not liking a certain store isn't that big of a deal.  

Desert, I hope you dom't hate me for my expensivemakeup.

oceana919

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_told-back-ney?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:aa6c3668-6ab8-4095-ab09-2a9b334d946cPost:fd925817-1b84-42b2-9227-5c779f7a03f5">Re: Told to go back to NEY</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Told to go back to NEY : oh em geez, GPB, way to totally blow things out of proportion. You are so very sad and juvenile. In Response to  Re: NWR My car : *snort* I particularly liked that part. You know, I tried to see things from that girl's perspective and be fair and honest with her. I've repeatedly defended her (to a certain extent) not only on NEY but off the board as well. And then for her to bad mouth the entire board to another board just pisses me off.  SHE is the one who posted here for over a year. Also, for her to go after someone else about name brands is ridiculous. The girl spends hundreds of dollars on Trish McEvoy products for her face.
Posted by desertsun[/QUOTE]

I'm sorry, but most of the *blowing things out of proportion* came from people not being able to handle honest opinions. With the exception of an occasional lurker-come-poster that goes apesh*t and goes off, no one on this board is truly mean. Seriously. People might be blunt, they might be snarky, but they are not deliberately mean.

Besides, pots meets kettle. She perpetuated, or at least fanned the flames, of half the drama around here anyways.

SeaTea02

Dude, Cate posted on MB when she was NEY. Shoot, she was planning her wedding and not telling her friends she was engaged. She wanted a pretty princess proposal. She is exactly what this board advocates against yet everyone blew sunshine up her ass during her SECOND bout of pre-planning... but I am thinking she never actually stopped. 

Don't let Cate drive you away for being NEY. She posts in a very condescending and belittling manner, but it is just her way of over compensating. 

oceana919

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_told-back-ney?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:aa6c3668-6ab8-4095-ab09-2a9b334d946cPost:599a81f5-e25b-4f73-ba16-eac634029c95">Re: Told to go back to NEY</a>:
[QUOTE]Dude, Cate posted on MB when she was NEY. Shoot, she was planning her wedding and not telling her friends she was engaged. She wanted a pretty princess proposal. She is exactly what this board advocates against yet everyone blew sunshine up her ass during her SECOND bout of pre-planning... but I am thinking she never actually stopped.  Don't let Cate drive you away for being NEY. She posts in a very condescending and belittling manner, <strong>but it is just her way of over compensating. </strong>
Posted by SeaTea02[/QUOTE]

I just snorted. Really loud. :)

...and not everyone blew sunshine and rainbows up her arse about pre-planning...I distinctly remember quite a few people pointing out the hypocrasy of the whole thing.

SeaTea02

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_told-back-ney?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:aa6c3668-6ab8-4095-ab09-2a9b334d946cPost:2a1afbf1-be99-49f4-be31-3521d8d05825">Re: Told to go back to NEY</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Told to go back to NEY : I just snorted. Really loud. :) ...and not everyone blew sunshine and rainbows up her arse about pre-planning...I distinctly remember quite a few people pointing out the hypocrasy of the whole thing.
Posted by oceana919[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>After the initial post about it no one seemed to care. That is true not everyone did because I know I didn't and many others didn't either. Most people though did indulged her, compliment her selections, etc. 

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oceana919

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_told-back-ney?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:aa6c3668-6ab8-4095-ab09-2a9b334d946cPost:afa465a5-48dd-4b7f-b531-e2b866e3bb3c">Re: Told to go back to NEY</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Told to go back to NEY : After the initial post about it no one seemed to care. That is true not everyone did because I know I didn't and many others didn't either. Most people though did indulged her, compliment her selections, etc. 
Posted by SeaTea02[/QUOTE]

Yeah, to be honest, I pretty much ignored the lot of it.

TheMutleys

We all know that I didn't blow sunshine up her arse when it came to pre-planning, nor did any of the OG. 

She was able to get away with a lot more once her past posts got erased on her old sn.  It was easy for her to say a lot of shiznit never happened. 

Then again, what do I know.  I'm just jealous that her parents are well off. 

And speaking from experience, she is going to get eaten alive by the other wives, once her FI is active and out of law school.  I'd love for her to post some of her dribble on any of the military boards that I used to frequent. 

ETA:  I think it is funny that she thinks that people would actually care enough to go to another board to lynch her.  I think that the majority of posters here are glad that she is gone and that they don't have to interact with her here.  Why would anyone go out of their way to deal with her is beyond me.  She has always had a distorted view of how much people cared about her. 

msjenna519

TheMutleys

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_told-back-ney?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:aa6c3668-6ab8-4095-ab09-2a9b334d946cPost:70a8e85b-4e56-4839-b67d-5b0c72837302">Re: Told to go back to NEY</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Told to go back to NEY : This. I agree 100%. She looks down on enlisted folks. I just hope her FI doesn't feel the same way. I'm an Army paralegal and attorney's depend on us a lot. He will not get away with that type of attitude.
Posted by msjenna519[/QUOTE]

Very much agreed.  She has also made many comments about how he won't be deployed that much.  I have a friend whose husband is an attorney in the Marines.  He is on deployment #4 in less than 8 years, and two of those were over 6 months. 

I was with an enlisted (now Mustang) Marine for 6-ish years, so I interacted with a LOT of wives of all different ranks. 

Thanks for your service!

desertsun

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_told-back-ney?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:aa6c3668-6ab8-4095-ab09-2a9b334d946cPost:8cf79fa1-bea0-485f-9c26-79e8d14c1400">Re: Told to go back to NEY</a>:
[QUOTE]I don't think that it isf air to blame an entire board for a situation. I do think that the DB situation was blown out of proportion.  Not liking a certain store isn't that big of a deal.   Desert, I hope you dom't hate me for my expensivemakeup. :)
Posted by Goldlie11[/QUOTE]

<div>Of course not! Because you're not at all a snob or a hypocrite about it. You have never once made me feel like you think you're better than me b/c I buy drugstore, and I have never heard you tell someone else they should be less concerned with brand names. You strike me as being very live and let live, and it's one of the things I like about you. <3</div><div>
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oceana919

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_told-back-ney?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:aa6c3668-6ab8-4095-ab09-2a9b334d946cPost:d678fe13-fedd-454f-9396-0341bec439ad">Re: Told to go back to NEY</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Told to go back to NEY : Very much agreed.  She has also made many comments about how he won't be deployed that much.  I have a friend whose husband is an attorney in the Marines.  He is on deployment #4 in less than 8 years, and two of those were over 6 months.  I was with an enlisted (now Mustang) Marine for 6-ish years, so I interacted with a LOT of wives of all different ranks.  <strong>Thanks for your service!</strong>
Posted by TheMutleys[/QUOTE]

Careful, Mutley...you go being nice to people and you'll ruin your street cred. :)

And yes, thank you for your service. :)

alanna91

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_told-back-ney?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:aa6c3668-6ab8-4095-ab09-2a9b334d946cPost:d678fe13-fedd-454f-9396-0341bec439ad">Re: Told to go back to NEY</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Told to go back to NEY : Very much agreed. <strong> She has also made many comments about how he won't be deployed that much</strong>.  I have a friend whose husband is an attorney in the Marines.  He is on deployment #4 in less than 8 years, and two of those were over 6 months.  I was with an enlisted (now Mustang) Marine for 6-ish years, so I interacted with a LOT of wives of all different ranks.  Thanks for your service!
Posted by TheMutleys[/QUOTE]

What? I know for the AF JAGs get deployed a lot, or atleast that's what I was told when I shadowed JAG officers last Summer. Her FI is an AF law student, right? I hope she's aware that it's very likely he'll get deployed.
Jenna, the paralegals at the base I was at definitely knew their stuff! It seemed that they were just as competent as the lawyers, they just didn't have a law degree.

Goldlie11

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_told-back-ney?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:aa6c3668-6ab8-4095-ab09-2a9b334d946cPost:d24996e3-46b9-4f5b-941c-89ad73cb7377">Re: Told to go back to NEY</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Told to go back to NEY : Of course not! Because you're not at all a snob or a hypocrite about it. You have never once made me feel like you think you're better than me b/c I buy drugstore, and I have never heard you tell someone else they should be less concerned with brand names. You strike me as being very live and let live, and it's one of the things I like about you. <3
Posted by desertsun[/QUOTE]
You are so sweet.  I don't think I'm a snob, but I am picky about certain things.  <div>
</div><div>I don't know the entire situation.  What I do know is that Cate's comments about DB were blown up.  And in my opinion they should not have been taken as an insult to Lynn or any other brides who got or will get their dress at DB.  </div>

MLekathLEEN

Oceana needs to stop with these amazing siggy pics. NEY is not the place for such warm fuzzies!

Seriously, you and DH look so in love in every picture you post.

oceana919

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_told-back-ney?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:aa6c3668-6ab8-4095-ab09-2a9b334d946cPost:ba0a59ee-b268-4498-8ce2-9a893e19d261">Re: Told to go back to NEY</a>:
[QUOTE]Oceana needs to stop with these amazing siggy pics. NEY is not the place for such warm fuzzies! Seriously, you and DH look so in love in every picture you post.
Posted by MLekathLEEN[/QUOTE]

LOL...thanks. I'll try to tone down my warmth and fuzziness and throw up some more uppity bitchiness. Hate to drag the board down with my puppies and rainbows. ;)

ps. I should have a married bio by the end of the week.

SeaTea02

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_told-back-ney?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:aa6c3668-6ab8-4095-ab09-2a9b334d946cPost:22a1cab8-d8ba-4aaf-9621-5ca1532bf0d9">Re: Told to go back to NEY</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Told to go back to NEY : You are so sweet.  I don't think I'm a snob, but I am picky about certain things.   I don't know the entire situation.  What I do know is that Cate's comments about DB were blown up.  And in my opinion they should not have been taken as an insult to Lynn or any other brides who got or will get their dress at DB.  
Posted by Goldlie11[/QUOTE]

<div>But people a lot of girl <u>were </u>offended, and Cate never really apologized (at least from what I remember). </div>

TheMutleys

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_told-back-ney?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:aa6c3668-6ab8-4095-ab09-2a9b334d946cPost:22a1cab8-d8ba-4aaf-9621-5ca1532bf0d9">Re: Told to go back to NEY</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Told to go back to NEY : I don't know the entire situation.  What I do know is that Cate's comments about DB were blown up.  And in my opinion they should not have been taken as an insult to Lynn or any other brides who got or will get their dress at DB.  
Posted by Goldlie11[/QUOTE]

I think that the blow up over DB was more a result of many previous comments and that being the last straw.  In and of itself, her DB comments could be brushed off or explained away.  However, they continued a pattern that started long before she began talking about her budget. 

oceana919

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_told-back-ney?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:aa6c3668-6ab8-4095-ab09-2a9b334d946cPost:3b1046c4-f762-4f22-8f47-d30590a410a4">Re: Told to go back to NEY</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Told to go back to NEY : I think that the blow up over DB was more a result of many previous comments and that being the last straw.  In and of itself, her DB comments could be brushed off or explained away.  However, they continued a pattern that started long before she began talking about her budget. 
Posted by TheMutleys[/QUOTE]

Seconding this.

Oh, and every time I see that pic of Mr. Man, I giggle out loud. :)

marleylikeair

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_told-back-ney?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:aa6c3668-6ab8-4095-ab09-2a9b334d946cPost:00702e40-e9a5-4461-852e-560b8353753f">Re: Told to go back to NEY</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Told to go back to NEY : But people a lot of girl were offended, and Cate never really apologized (at least from what I remember). 
Posted by SeaTea02[/QUOTE]

I believe she did come back and apologize.

msjenna519

MLekathLEEN

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_told-back-ney?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:aa6c3668-6ab8-4095-ab09-2a9b334d946cPost:b31f681a-05bf-450b-beda-14b49795d899">Re: Told to go back to NEY</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Told to go back to NEY : LOL...thanks. I'll try to tone down my warmth and fuzziness and throw up some more uppity bitchiness. Hate to drag the board down with my puppies and rainbows. ;) ps. I should have a married bio by the end of the week.
Posted by oceana919[/QUOTE]

YESSSSS!!!!

calindi

So glad to see most of you are still the same trash-talking immature nitwits that I was used to.  And so awesome to see this is how you spend your time, nearly 2 months after I chose to leave.

Good luck to you all... misery loves company, and I'm just sick of being around miserable people.

Those who stuck up for me - thank you, best wishes to you!  Please don't waste your time or energy arguing with people who have their heads stuck too far in the dirt to listen.

Allisonesq77

Oh my sweet Lord in heaven, what the f*&^ have I stumbled upon here? Like Towlie, "I have no idea what's going on..."

Mutleys, please tell me where you got that awesome emoticon!

AudgiePodge

Like a roach.

oceana919

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_told-back-ney?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:aa6c3668-6ab8-4095-ab09-2a9b334d946cPost:ab5a0324-8c9b-4a6b-9323-34fbad24e9e1">Re: Told to go back to NEY</a>:
[QUOTE]So glad to see most of you are still the same trash-talking immature nitwits that I was used to.  And so awesome to see this is how you spend your time, nearly 2 months after I chose to leave. Good luck to you all... misery loves company, and I'm just sick of being around miserable people. Those who stuck up for me - thank you, best wishes to you!  Please don't waste your time or energy arguing with people who have their heads stuck too far in the dirt to listen.
Posted by calindi[/QUOTE]

Pot, meet kettle. Not surprising to see after two months, you still jump down people's throats if they deign to disagree with you or post something you don't particularly care for. That high horse you're riding on probably needs a break.

And frankly, if this is misery, then I'll take it. Because all the girls that I've actually met from this board (including those you would likely consider "trash-talking immature nitwits") are gorgeous, hilarious, fantastic women. You should be so lucky to be able to say the same someday.

Bean dip, anyone?


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oceana919

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_told-back-ney?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:aa6c3668-6ab8-4095-ab09-2a9b334d946cPost:7215a561-7c69-46a6-b54b-3f9b0204aceb">Re: Told to go back to NEY</a>:
[QUOTE]Like a roach.
Posted by AudgiePodge[/QUOTE]

LOL...if the world is ever wiped out in a nuclear holocaust, all that will survive is Keith Richards, cockroaches, and NEY dramallamas?

SKP82

Glad you ladies caught that outburst as it's since been DD.

ETA: Nevermind.  I just missed it.

I wonder how someone could put up with us trash talking immature nitwits for so long and on such a regular basis?  I'm starting to wonder if the email to her FI was even real or just MUD to gain sympathy and then enable her to GBCNEY in a dramatic fashion.

I never had an opinion on Cate until now.  The thing that I always found odd was that soooo many people couldn't stand her and others really liked her.  To me, that is an indicator of someone I don't personally want to associate with.