I judge....

luvdncn90

-FB friends who ask me to PLEASE vote for their kid to win a photo contest. Uhm, I haven't talked to you in years and you ask me and the rest of your 400 FB friends, who I'm sure you don't talk to either, to vote for your kid? No, I think that's tacky.

-People who post pictures of their stomaches saying "I lost this much weight". It's really awesome that you're losing weight and feel great about yourself but I really don't care to see a picture of your naked stomache on my computer screen.

-People who come into restuarants and order the fattest thing on the menu but get a diet coke because "they're trying to lose weight". I'm sorry, there is nothing diet about diet soda.

-Girls who dumb themselves down to be more attractive to guys. You really don't know what a giraffe is? Really? I'm sorry I refuse to believe someone is that dumb.

-Women who plan before they're engaged, but it's ok they know they will get engaged soon, and they're planners. No, that's not ok, and no I will not justify your behavior by helping you pick out a cake. (One of my classmates has actually done this)

Yeah I'm in a judgy mood today.


What do you guy's judge?

Wrkn925

I drink diet coke with my BigMac.  Judge me, I don't care.

-I judge the place I went to put in an application today.  They put an ad in the paper Thursday.  I went Thursday evening, they closed 30 minutes before I got there. (I checked online, no office hours, and they said no phone calls.) I saw the office hours on the gate, so I went Friday.  They were closed for the holiday.  I didn't bother going Monday, because I figured they counted that as a holiday, too. I went today, and they told me the position had been filled. WTF???!!!!!!!! When?  How?  Eff you, you are NOT an EOE.

oceana919

No worries, I'm in super judgy mode today.

- I judge people who are nasty for the sake of being nasty. There's a wide difference between being snarky/sarcastic and flat-out rude.

- I judge brides that slam other brides that allowed their parents to finance part or all of their wedding. If a parent is willing to contribute and the child is respectful of and thankful for that contribution, then back the hell off.

- I judge people that let their kids scream their heads off in public places and ignore it like that's going to make it go away. I'm sorry, but I don't think I should have to listen to your demon spawn's banshee wail while I'm trying to pick out eggs.

- I judge people that let their kids run wild in public places. If your kid slams into my hip one more time because you're too busy chatting on your cell to tell them to quit climbing all over the register like a monkey, I may have to run him/her over with my cart.

- I judge people who are too lazy to put their cart in the designated spot in the parking lot, especially when it's two spots over.

- I judge people that turn other people's weddings into ammo for disagreements/fights that have nothing to do with that couple.

- I judge people that don't have the sense to use common courtesy. Please and thank you. Hold open the door for someone. Ask for something before you just take it. Treat people with respect. That sh*t is seriously lacking in my neck of the woods.

- I judge women (and men) who put their own personal standing/selfish needs ahead of the well-being of their family. Sarah Palin, I'm talking to you.

- I judge my FB friend who updated her FB status to read that she was "currently accepting donations for their overseas honeymoon." Same friend who said "don't be pissed if I don't invite you, we can't afford a big wedding". That wedding gift I was going to buy you - even though we weren't invited, and you didn't even send us a card when we actually did invite you to our wedding - is staying on your registry.

luvdncn90

Wrkn--Bahahah I don't judge you. I would however judge you if you claimed you were drinking Dt. soda to help you lose weight WHILE you were eating your big mac!

That place sounds like a real peach. How on earth did they fill that position if they weren't ever open??!

luvdncn90

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[QUOTE]No worries, I'm in super judgy mode today. - I judge people who are nasty for the sake of being nasty. There's a wide difference between being snarky/sarcastic and flat-out rude. - I<strong> judge brides that slam other brides that allowed their parents to finance part or all of their wedding. If a parent is willing to contribute and the child is respectful of and thankful for that contribution, then back the hell off. - I judge people that let their kids scream their heads off in public places and ignore it like that's going to make it go away. I'm sorry, but I don't think I should have to listen to your demon spawn's banshee wail while I'm trying to pick out eggs. - I judge people that let their kids run wild in public places. If your kid slams into my hip one more time because you're too busy chatting on your cell to tell them to quit climbing all over the register like a monkey, I may have to run him/her over with my cart</strong>. - I judge people who are too lazy to put their cart in the designated spot in the parking lot, especially when it's two spots over. - I judge people that turn other people's weddings into ammo for disagreements/fights that have nothing to do with that couple. - I judge people that don't have the sense to use common courtesy. Please and thank you. Hold open the door for someone. Ask for something before you just take it. Treat people with respect. That sh*t is seriously lacking in my neck of the woods. - I judge women (and men) who put their own personal standing/selfish needs ahead of the well-being of their family. Sarah Palin, I'm talking to you. - I judge my FB friend who updated her FB status to read that she was "currently accepting donations for their overseas honeymoon." Same friend who said "don't be pissed if I don't invite you, we can't afford a big wedding". That wedding gift I was going to buy you - even though we weren't invited, and you didn't even send us a card when we actually did invite you to our wedding - is staying on your registry.
Posted by oceana919[/QUOTE]

This.

I don't have a problem with parents contributing either! I do have a problem with brides who just expect their parents to contribute though.

And I hate children for all of those reasons you listed. They are the main reason I never want to have children. Kids who have responsible parents are cute, but I can't handle the whining and screaming and tantrums and all that stuff. I may go to hell for this statement but I really don't like kids.

Wrkn925

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[QUOTE]Wrkn--Bahahah I don't judge you. I would however judge you if you claimed you were drinking Dt. soda to help you lose weight WHILE you were eating your big mac! That place sounds like a real peach. How on earth did they fill that position if they weren't ever open??!
Posted by luvdncn90[/QUOTE]

I drink diet everything.  I switched years ago, and if I drink anything with real sugar in it, my stomach will cramp for hours. 


(My assumption) They put the position in the paper to keep up with the claim that they are an Equal Opportunity Employer. Someone in the office knew a friend and got them hired before they even posted the opening.

oceana919

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge.... : And I hate children for all of those reasons you listed. They are the main reason I never want to have children. Kids who have responsible parents are cute, but I can't handle the whining and screaming and tantrums and all that stuff. I may go to hell for this statement but I really don't like kids.
Posted by luvdncn90[/QUOTE]

I love kids. Especially ones that have been raised correctly and are properly parented. I just can't stand when parents let their kids turn into hellraisers and then proceed to blame it on everyone but themselves, and force others to have to endure it.

LizzyTish88

- I judge people who fight with their SO or family members on FB. I don't care if you are THE BEST WIFE EVA! I think it is extremely rude and no one wants to see your shenanigans. Also you should write on FB all about how you want to kill yourself because your life is SOO HARD, then get upset when someone tells your family about it because they are genuinely concerned about you, then you write the same bullshit the next day.

- I judge people who complain about how their life is miserable and everything sucks, but yet they seem to be doing nothing about it.

- I judge parents that let their 8 year old walk around the mall by herself with other 8 year olds, in a skimpy top and skin tight jeans wearing a purse that is bigger and more expensive than mine.

- I judge people who wear heals when they clearly can not walk in them and look like they are going to fall face first into the pavement.

oceana919

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[QUOTE]- I judge people who fight with their SO or family members on FB. I don't care if you are THE BEST WIFE EVA! I think it is extremely rude and no one wants to see your shenanigans. Also you should write on FB all about how you want to kill yourself because your life is SOO HARD, then get upset when someone tells your family about it because they are genuinely concerned about you, then you write the same bullshit the next day. - I judge people who complain about how their life is miserable and everything sucks, but yet they seem to be doing nothing about it. - I judge parents that let their 8 year old walk around the mall by herself with other 8 year olds, in a skimpy top and skin tight jeans wearing a purse that is bigger and more expensive than mine. - I judge people who wear heals when they clearly can not walk in them and look like they are going to fall face first into the pavement.
Posted by cdechristopher[/QUOTE]

Lol, I'm so glad I'm not the only one who judges people for letting their young daughters dress like hookers.

LizzyTish88

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge.... : Lol, I'm so glad I'm not the only one who judges people for letting their young daughters dress like hookers.
Posted by oceana919[/QUOTE]

It was bad enough when she walked by once, but they she strutted by again carrying a coffee. Both my friend and I had to do a double take. It was unreal.

tafft1

I judge the place that emailed me last week saying they wanted to meet with me and then played email tag over the next 3 days with no contact number and when I tracked a phone number down for them had no time to discuss the job with me but demanded I meet with them on Friday which I emailed I could and NEVER heard back. Don't lead people on with your BS.

I judge all the 19-23 year olds on another social networking site that are all pregnant and totally in "love" yet can't even communicate relationship issues with their baby daddys because they don't know how. *sigh*

I judge people who post their whole lives on FB then get mad when it blows up in their face. On that same note I also judge those "friends" who have time to update their status but not enough time to let me know they are okay after all the drama they are going through.

I judge people who always need me for something until they have a new boyfriend or girlfriend then disappear off the face of the earth until they leave them and come to me with their sob story..just stop already..i'm done.

I judge my apartment complex for allowing people to continually break lease standards and allow them to remain while people who follow the rules and pay their rent on time are often singled out.

skidevil89

I judge people who park in the handicap spot and get out of their car and the only thing that seems wrong with them is that they are obese. Park farther away, walk more, and leave that space for someone who is actually handicapped.

I judge my SO's boss who got engaged and got a really pretty ring, and then two months later when two other co-workers got engaged with bigger diamonds, she traded her's in and got an $11,000 diamond! Really are you that superficial that you couldn't just be happy with the already gorgeous ring your FI picked out for you?

AbigailMS

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[QUOTE]- I judge people who fight with their SO or family members on FB. I don't care if you are THE BEST WIFE EVA! I think it is extremely rude and no one wants to see your shenanigans. Also you should write on FB all about how you want to kill yourself because your life is SOO HARD, then get upset when someone tells your family about it because they are genuinely concerned about you, then you write the same bullshit the next day. - I judge people who complain about how their life is miserable and everything sucks, but yet they seem to be doing nothing about it. - I judge parents that let their 8 year old walk around the mall by herself with other 8 year olds, in a skimpy top and skin tight jeans wearing a purse that is bigger and more expensive than mine. - <strong>I judge people who wear heals when they clearly can not walk in them and look like they are going to fall face first into the pavement.</strong>
Posted by cdechristopher[/QUOTE]<div>
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</div><div>This is me occasionally. :) Judge away. lol</div><div>
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</div><div>*I judge people who are rude for no reason at all. The ones that come into the pharmacy and treat us like sh*t and think we're supposed to keep track of their meds for them and fill their lortab 27 days earlier than their 30 days supply runs out.</div><div>
</div><div>I also feel badly for the people who are behind them waiting patiently...with <strong>quiet children. </strong></div><div><strong>
</strong></div><div><strong>*<span style="font-weight:normal;" class="Apple-style-span">I judge people who call three times a day asking if their medicine is filled yet and what our hours are, then come in 2 minutes after we close and demand to be waited on. </span></strong></div><div><strong><span style="font-weight:normal;" class="Apple-style-span">
</span></strong></div><div><strong><span style="font-weight:normal;" class="Apple-style-span">*I judge people who don't have their drivers license when picking up percocet, then when you ask if anyone is with them they say no. Then you ask how they got here and they say they drove?</span></strong></div><div>
</div><div><strong>These are all usually the same person</strong></div><div>
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LizzyTish88

I judge my school. I have a hold on my account so that I am not going to be able to pick up my cap and gown, but yet when I call to get it straightened out, no one answers the phone and no one calls me back. It has been two days and four messages later and still no call or answer. I NEED MY CAP AND GOWN! Since I technically graduated in December I have waited long enough o walk across the damn stage and I won't be able to unless they call me back! I am beyond annoyed with them!

luvdncn90

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[QUOTE]I judge people who park in the handicap spot and get out of their car and the only thing that seems wrong with them is that they are obese. Park farther away, walk more, and leave that space for someone who is actually handicapped. I judge my SO's boss who got engaged and got a really pretty ring, and then two months later when two other co-workers got engaged with bigger diamonds, she traded her's in and got an $11,000 diamond! Really are you that superficial that you couldn't just be happy with the already gorgeous ring your FI picked out for you?
Posted by skidevil89[/QUOTE]


I literally watched this lady park in a handicap spot, she had no sticker and nothing on her license plate stating she was handicapped and walk into the store like it was nothing. I hate people like that.

peekaboo2011

Oceana - sweetarts up the nose.  Thank you.  But, I agree with all of the above.  This might start a debate, but my parents did it and I turned out fine and I plan on doing it to my children if they misbehave.  SPANK A CHILD.  SERIOUSLY.  

I judge you for staring at me when my shorts are a little too tight, but your fat but is hanging out.  I may have a bit of a muffin top, but my butt cheeks aren't hanging out.

I judge you for coming to class with your tits hanging out.  Put some clothes on, you aren't walking the streets, we're trying to learn.

I judge you for the phrase "I can't hang out with you because you're gluten free, and I feel guilty eating in front of you."  I'm a big girl.  My best friends, FI and half of my family are NOT gluten free.  What the hell is wrong with you?

peekaboo2011

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge.... : I literally watched this lady park in a handicap spot, she had no sticker and nothing on her license plate stating she was handicapped and walk into the store like it was nothing. I hate people like that.
Posted by luvdncn90[/QUOTE]

<div>I reported one of these the other day.  Those spaces are there for a reason.</div>

luvdncn90

-I judge people who post all over their friends walls calling them skanks, b!tches, saying eff this and eff that. The word b!tch is not a term of endearment, and cussing like a sailor doesn't make you look cool. It makes you look trashy.

-I judge kids with cell phones. You're five, you don't need a phone. Who are you going to text? Elmo?

-I judge people who have the most expensive clothes, shoes, purses, hair,etcetera and then complain they don't have any money. Well duh.

-I judge people who get all mad when someone wears white, champagne, to a wedding. I honestly don't think it's a big deal. Everyone knows you're the bride so who cares if someone is wearing a white shirt, skirt, or cocktail dress. Unless they're purposefully doing it to steal your attention it's not a huge deal.

DanieKA

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[QUOTE]No worries, I'm in super judgy mode today. - I judge people who are nasty for the sake of being nasty. There's a wide difference between being snarky/sarcastic and flat-out rude. - I judge brides that slam other brides that allowed their parents to finance part or all of their wedding. If a parent is willing to contribute and the child is respectful of and thankful for that contribution, then back the hell off. - I judge people that let their kids scream their heads off in public places and ignore it like that's going to make it go away. I'm sorry, but I don't think I should have to listen to your demon spawn's banshee wail while I'm trying to pick out eggs. - I judge people that let their kids run wild in public places. If your kid slams into my hip one more time because you're too busy chatting on your cell to tell them to quit climbing all over the register like a monkey, I may have to run him/her over with my cart. - I judge people who are too lazy to put their cart in the designated spot in the parking lot, especially when it's two spots over. - I judge people that turn other people's weddings into ammo for disagreements/fights that have nothing to do with that couple. - I judge people that don't have the sense to use common courtesy. Please and thank you. Hold open the door for someone. Ask for something before you just take it. Treat people with respect. That sh*t is seriously lacking in my neck of the woods. - I judge women (and men) who put their own personal standing/selfish needs ahead of the well-being of their family. Sarah Palin, I'm talking to you. - I judge my FB friend who updated her FB status to read that she was "currently accepting donations for their overseas honeymoon." Same friend who said "don't be pissed if I don't invite you, we can't afford a big wedding". That wedding gift I was going to buy you - even though we weren't invited, and you didn't even send us a card when we actually did invite you to our wedding - is staying on your registry.
Posted by oceana919[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>Slow clap!</div><div>
</div><div>I judge all of this.</div><div>
</div><div>And in the same vein as people parking in handicap, I also judge people who park in the expectant/new parent spot. Look, I don't care if you are a man, or woman, or grandparent, if you are toting that new little baby, park away! But if you are a dude in an obnoxious mercedes, a very slim young chick yapping on her cell phone, or anyone not visibly pregnant or with a new baby, I'm giving you an obvious eye roll and audible snort. LAZY!</div><div>
</div><div>And yes, I do mean visibly pregnant. It's one thing to be 38 weeks and miserable having to pick something up at the grocery store. It's another to be fine and 8 weeks along. Walking those 5 extra spots is good for the baby, get over it until you are showing! JUDGING!

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csousa1

I judge people that treat their animals like humans. Loving the crap out of your animal and spoiling them is one thing. Insisting that they sleep in bed at the discomfort of others sharing that bed, or making people stop an activity because it is too upsetting for their dog to watch (like indo boarding), is just freaking bizarre.

I judge people that need things repeated to them every day. The average mind needs something repeated 7 times before it knows the fact cold. I will give you that 7 gladly, but if you don't learn it after that I am becoming miraculously mute on the subject.

I judge people that let their children act like hellions. These children grow up to be the bullies that lead kids to commit suicide. My mother didn't let me get away with shiit when I was little. I turned out to be an awesome, well-rounded, level-headed human being. That is NOT a coincidence. Her quote, "There are enough a$$holes in the world, I am not going to be responsible for raising two more." 

I judge people that judge people. Myself included. It's human nature and there is nothing wrong with it once in a while, but being judgmental as a character trait is really just nasty and quite a waste of time.

luvdncn90

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[QUOTE]Oceana - sweetarts up the nose.  Thank you.  But, I agree with all of the above.  This might start a debate, but my parents did it and I turned out fine and I plan on doing it to my children if they misbehave.  SPANK A CHILD.  SERIOUSLY.   I judge you for staring at me when my shorts are a little too tight, but your fat but is hanging out.  I may have a bit of a muffin top, but my butt cheeks aren't hanging out. I judge you for coming to class with your tits hanging out.  Put some clothes on, you aren't walking the streets, we're trying to learn.<strong> I judge you for the phrase "I can't hang out with you because you're gluten free, and I feel guilty eating in front of you."  I'm a big girl.  My best friends, FI and half of my family are NOT gluten free.  What the hell is wrong with you?
</strong>Posted by peekaboo2011[/QUOTE]


Wow what a sh!tty friend. That would be like me telling M's dad I'm sorry I can't go out to eat with you or eat around you because you're diabetic and that makes ME feel guilty.


I'd like to tell your friend not everything is about HER.

csousa1

Oh and luvd, that stomach pic posting thing is just WEIRD. Right there with ya on that one.

ravenray

I sometimes look like I am going to fall when I walk in heels...but that is after I have been standing in them for 2 1/2 hours on wood....

I judge my "friend" who has more drama than anything else, puts it on facebook and shows up to church just to get drunk.  I really wish you wouldn't come back to CA, yes I know you made all the wrong life choices but I don't really care anymore I warned you and becuase you only care about yourself I don't care about you.  Man I am mean today!

I judge my film teacher.  I have a hard time believeing he has a PhD, he is such a moron.  You know if you actually taught the class then people might do the work.....

peekaboo2011

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge.... : Wow what a sh!tty friend. That would be like me telling M's dad I'm sorry I can't go out to eat with you or eat around you because you're diabetic and that makes ME feel guilty. I'd like to tell your friend not everything is about HER.
Posted by luvdncn90[/QUOTE]

<div>I wish it were just one.  Seriously, four of them last year.  And two were my roommates.  Who flat out said "we can't order pizza because you're here.  Can you leave?"</div><div>
</div><div>Needless to say, if one of them weren't actually a decent person when she's not with the others, she wouldn't be invited to my wedding either.  The others, I have cut out of my life completely.</div>

jemmini6

- I judge people who post "I love you" or "you're the best" every 5 minutes on their H's wall when they are probably sitting right freaking next to each other!  If you try so hard to make everyone think your relationship is perfect (in public), then it makes me think it's the opposite.

- I judge people who 'like' their own FB statuses...especially when it's about them.

- I judge people who are super judgy about other's weddings.  People have different tasts, different traditions, different budgets, etc. so it's not a one size fits all kind of deal.

Beads921

I judge people with dirty homes. Clutter isn't such a big deal (although I also judge hoarders), but physical grime, especially in the kitchen and bathroom is not OK. Also, there is no excuse for a failure to vacuum and at the very least sweep the floor occasionally.

I judge people who complain that they have no money, but then go out clubbing every weekend, shop regularly, always eat out, etc. Of course you have no money!

And on that note, I also judge people who complain that they have no money because they are at a low-paying, dead-end job. OK, so, go look for a better job. I do not judge a person if they are looking for something else and haven't found it yet. Only those who are doing nothing to improve their situation.

I judge people who don't pick up their dog's shat.

luvdncn90

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[QUOTE]- <strong>I judge people who post "I love you" or "you're the best" every 5 minutes on their H's wall when they are probably sitting right freaking next to each other!  If you try so hard to make everyone</strong> think your relationship is perfect (in public), then it makes me think it's the opposite. - I judge people who 'like' their own FB statuses...especially when it's about them. - I judge people who are super judgy about other's weddings.  People have different tasts, different traditions, different budgets, etc. so it's not a one size fits all kind of deal.
Posted by jemmini6[/QUOTE]


I'm guilty of posting sweet stuff on M's wall. But in my defense, we do live four hours away from each other and are always so busy that texting gets hard so sometimes it's easier just to leave him a cute message on his wall.

Hazel_B

- I judge people who stand right in front of elevator doors and make it impossible for people already on the elevator to exit.

- I judge people who work on the second floor, which needs a pass to access, who keep their foot in the elevator doors while they fish around for their pass. You knew you worked there, get organized or fish around for your pass in the lobby.

- I judge people who allow their children to run around crazily and unsupervised at church. I get that it takes a community to raise a child and that a church is a community, but it doesn't excuse the fact that you don't know where your kid is and assume others will parent your child. This is particularly important when anyone speaking to your child regarding their behaviour would be a huge problem.

I also agree with basically everything everyone else has said.

Man, I judge alot.

loves2shop4shoes

I judge compulsive hand raisers.  Seriously, if you have nothing of VALUE to contribute to classroom discussion, STFU.  I get it, you had a thought, we all did, but that doesn't mean the entire class needs to hear it.

People with superiority complexes. 

Men who feel like they can grab your arse because it happens to look nice in a pair of jeans.  I'm sorry, did I forget to wash off where it says "cheap whoree" on my forehead?

Doctors who feel the need to project their religious beliefs onto patients.  Sorry Dr. Y, I have premarital sex.  You're a gynecologist...you should get used to seeing this by now.

Women that wear a full face of makeup everyday, especially those that wear makeup to the gym.  Why are you trying so hard? 

People who have no problem dishing it out, but can't take it.

oceana919

This one might cause a little controversy, but I actually judge brides who say there is no circumstance whatsoever in where it's acceptable to remove a bridesmaid from your bridal party. True, there are very very few "acceptable" circumstances in which that is not an asshole thing to do, however...if your BM sleeps with your FI, threatens you with bodily harm, or does something so unfixable/unforgiveable that it permanently terminates your friendship, then I think that's a somewhat reasonable action. (and yes, I have experience with circumstance #3)

I judge people who judge people who suffer from mental illness. Come on, it's not like I wanted to be clinically depressed or have an anxiety disorder. And asking for help and getting treatment doesn't make me weak or helpless - it makes me smart.

I judge people who claim disability/handicap simply because they're obese and are too lazy to do anything about it. Eat healthy, get in shape, lose some weight, and I imagine a lot of the knee pain and back pain you're having will probably go away.

I judge people who are unwarrantedly rude to customer service people. Mistakes happen, and it's not always their fault. As long as it gets fixed and you get what you want/need, why be rude to them for something they probably can't control? They're there working all day long to take care of themselves and their families - would it really kill you to smile at them, say hello and thank you?

I judge customer service people (especially cashiers) that make it very clear that their last priority is the customer. If you are courteous with me, I'm happy to carry on a conversation with you and be courteous back.

I judge people with dirty homes. Clutter? Ok, that's everyday life. Dirt, grime, sludge, balls of dust and hair clumped in the corners....uuuuuuggggghhhh, it grosses me out and makes me seriously second-guess coming back to your house.

I judge people that don't take care of their animals. Pick up your poop, asshat - you're the reason my dog gets fleas every spring.

I judge people who take better care of their pets than their own children.

desertsun

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[QUOTE] -People who post pictures of their stomaches saying "I lost this much weight". It's really awesome that you're losing weight and feel great about yourself but I really don't care to see a picture of your naked stomache on my computer screen. -People who come into restuarants and order the fattest thing on the menu but get a diet coke because "they're trying to lose weight". I'm sorry, there is nothing diet about diet soda
Posted by luvdncn90[/QUOTE]

Wow, really? You can't just be happy that someone is working hard to be healthier? That they are doing something positive for themselves? You can find it unappealing and not enjoy it, but to JUDGE someone for taking progress pics to keep themselves motivated or to take pride in their hard earned accomplishments? That's fvcked up.

Also, why the hell would you care what someone else is eating or drinking? If someone wants to eat something a little more fatty, and save 300 calories by getting diet soda instead of regular, that is THEIR business. STFU.

I think you must have a problem with overweight people in general. Why is that? Maybe you need to take a look at yourself instead of being so goddamn judgmental.