Hi ladies, I am a lurker here, but i know i can get some good advice from you. Oldest daughter got married last year, hence, why i am on the knot.
This involves second daughter. She has had a relationship with a fellow for 4 years. They have lived together in his apartment for 3 years. He is a great deal older than her but has never been married and no children.
Last winter they had a big argument and she moved out for 3 weeks but went back with his urging. She alone, has just purchased a home which they have moved into together. They have discussed marriage and he recently said he was going to ask his mother for the grandmothers ring.
Last winter (before the break) I began to get suspicious of some of his stories (excuses) for his abscences.
This past week, they were at my home and he left his email open on my computer. I know it was wrong, but I couldn't help myself., I checked all his emails!
I found out that he is on a online dating service and wrote to someone thru that, that his old girlfriend emails him suggestive photos and he agreed to pick her up at the airport.
Now my problem is....Should I just mind my own business, tell my daughter what I know, or confront him?
She was recently diagnosed with HPV. He swore to her he has been faithful... I think not...
Thanks for any advice. It is on my mind constantly....