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Farewell Ladies...

At least for now. I wasn't going to post anything, but then I decided I felt like I needed to get it all out.

FI (or Ex FI) left yesterday morning. He's moving out while I'm in NY for my grandfather's memorial service (he passed in December, but was cremated so services were postponed until this week).

I'm everything you can imagine you'd be if you lost your best friend and the person you thought was your true love. It just ended up that he fell out of love with me and taking on an instant family with me and the girls was too much for him to handle. He's going to focus on his career now. And I get that. That's ok with me.

Of course I'm hurt, mad, sad, devastated, annoyed, confused, all of these emotions, but in the end I know it will all be ok. I will work it out. I think it's best for me to take some time off the boards until I can at least heal enough that I can hang around like Peek or Molly. Right now it's just way too hard for me.

I want to thank you all for your support and all of our fun times over the past few months. I will miss you. And if we're not already friends on FB, feel free to PM me.

I want to give special thanks to Irish and rdr for being so supportive and encouraging. I absolutely adore you ladies, so thank you.

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  • Oh Ollie.

    I'm so sorry.  *hugs*

    I think you're smart to give yourself some time.  But know when you're ready to come back that we'll welcome you fully.

    Much love.
  • Oh no Ollie!  *hugs* I love you and I am so sorry.  I do believe that everything works out for the best but I doubt it feels that way right now.  *hugs*  And  I will PM you right.  And you better come back once you feel better, I liked you a lot!
    "Love is not affectionate feeling, but a steady wish for the loved person's ultimate good as far as it can be obtained"-C.S. Lewis

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  • Oh Ollie, I'm so sorry.  If you need anything, let me know, alright?  I'll drive wherever. <3
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  • *HUGS* I'm so sorry Ollie. I totally understand not wanting to be on the boards right now.


  • I'm so sorry Ollie, if you ever need anything, you know we are always here for you!
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  • Ollie, you're the strongest woman I know.  I love you to pieces. 



  • Ollie I'm so sorry to hear about the news.  *Hugs* I hope that you find the strength and love to help you heal.  We're all here for you when you need us.  I hope you can come back.
  • I'm sorry Ollie.  We're all here for you <3
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  • Ollie, I'm so sorry.  You know everyone at NEY will be here for you if or when you decide to return.  Keep an eye on the girls and all will fall into place.
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  • I'm sorry, Ollie :(  I'll be thinking about you and hoping for the best for you. Please come back when you feel ready :)
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  • I'm so sorry, Ollie. I hope that you find the strength to keep your head up. We're all here for you. Hugs!!
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  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_farewell-ladies?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:c4c8406f-1270-4400-8573-43aeadd8bd17Post:92e425de-931e-4663-8c93-0dd51de6308e">Re: Farewell Ladies...</a>:
    [QUOTE]My heart hurts for you. I'm sorry, Ollie. :(  Ditto Elle. We're here when you're ready. Huge hugs to you. <3
    Posted by LivLeighton[/QUOTE]

    <div>All of this... Big hugs from AZ.</div>
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  • I'm so sorry, Ollie. You know where we all are when you are ready. You are an amazing woman, and you will make it through, stronger than ever. Hugs <3



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  • I'm so sorry to hear that Ollie! You're a strong woman, and I know you'll make it through. 

    Come back when you're ready! In the mean time, we'll all miss you.
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  • I'm so sorry to hear that Ollie.  We'll be here with open arms (and perhaps wine bottles) when you are ready to come back.

    WE LOVE YOU!  <3
  • Oh Ollie, Im sorry to hear this. I really hope when you feel ready that you do come back. Lots of hugs and Ill miss you!

     

  • I'm so sorry Ollie. Everything happens for a reason though, I really believe that. It will all work out for you. ::Hugs::
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  • I'm so sorry.  :(
  • Oh, Ollie. :( I'm so, so sorry.

    I've really enjoyed getting to know you, and I will miss your presence on the board.

    Wishing you all the best.

    ::HUGS:: and <3




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  • I am sad to hear this :o( We will be here with support when you are ready to come back to the boards.
  • Ollie I am so sorry to hear.  My hugs go out to you.  Please PM if you want to talk or need a friend.  I will always make time for you.

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  • Oh no!  I'm so sorry to hear this.  We will surely miss you but obviously understand your need for time away.  Please come back to us when you are ready.  Take care of you.


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  • ollie, you know i love and adore you more than words can express. I cannot express how strong and truly phenomenal I think you are. You and the girls will get through this and I am here if you need anything. A skype date is now required.
  • I'm so sorry you're going through this. Hugs and take all teh time you need to be with your girls and heal. 
  • My heart just sunk to my feet :( I'm so, so sorry Ollie. I will miss you a lot around here, but I will stalk you on FB too and check in on you. I know everything will be okay - I think I've told you before that your situation/relationship with your girls reminds me of my mom's with us, and she is the strongest woman I know. So, if you're anything like her, as I suspect you are, you will be just fine, and in less time than you think. So many big hugs - you're amazing <3
  • Oh Ollie, im so sorry to hear about all of this. I wish you the best in your time away and I wish I could've gotten to know you better on here. Lots of hugs and love.
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  • As you can see, we all love you. We'll miss you but always be here for you if you need anything, and we'll be here whenever you're ready to come back. You're an amazing person, a wonderful mom, and such a kind soul. I hate to see you go through anything like this, but I know if anyone can do it and come out stronger, you can. *hugs*
    -Ely

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  • Oh Ollie, I am so very sorry you're going through this. I think you are an amazingly strong woman, and I know you'll get through this. We'll miss you lots, and be sure to check back in whenever you're ready. I'll be thinking of you.
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  • This makes my heart break. I'm so sorry, Ollie. Thoughts going out and prayers going up for you. Please take care of yourself.
  • I'm so sorry you're going through this.  :(  *hugs*

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