Hi all! I have a question about my relationship. My boyfriend has been close with his sister since they were kids. We have been dating for about a year. In that year, I have tried to reach out to her by asking her to go shopping or to lunch, I attended her birthday party, got her a Xmas gift, etc. etc. I know she doesn't have to like me, but if I have been nice to her and tried to include her w/ things when we go out, and she's unresponsive, then tells my boyfriend that she doesn't want me around because she's jealous he pays attention to me and not her, does that seem unhealthy to anybody???
She has only had one boyfriend in her life-6 years off and on- and they broke up last year. My thinking is why is she jealous her brother finally has a girl he's happy with and serious about? It's not like I have not tried to befriend and include her, either.
Is there anything that I should do? Perhaps the best thing to do is just leave her alone? The problem is there is a beach trip planned in a couple weeks that I was planning on attending but now am having second thoughts....
I GET that family comes first, I do. But is there a line that has been crossed when his sister is trying to veto me out of the picture because she wants to hang out with him????