Ok, I'm seriously curious to hear from people on both ends of the spectrum, and I think that if people keep it non-judgemental, that we could actually have a really great conversation...
Is a wedding as special if the couple is sleeping/living together before the marriage? What does that mean about the "wedding night" that is supposed to be such a big deal if it's really not any different than any other night? (If you fall in this category, what did you do that night? Hang out with your friends? Do something extra special?) Do you wish that you had waited to sleep together?
For those that waited, did that put any extra pressure/stress on the "wedding night," knowing what you were supposed to do, and had never done before? Or was it just totally awesome? Are you glad you waited?
ok...maybe this is way too personal and nobody will write anything, :-) but I'm really just curious, also to hear people's other thoughts or rational for doing what they did.
(I'm not asking this cuz I'm questioning what I'm doing or anything, I really am just interested in getting into the mindset of different perspectives!)