An HONEST thought-provoking question: sleeping together before married?

trinalo

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[QUOTE]Well, crap.  DH and I didn't have sex at all on our wedding night or on our honeymoon (damn Hampton Inn beds are too freaking comfortable.)  Good thing we had PLENTY of meaningless sex prior to the wedding or I would have been disappointed.    Wedding night FAIL.
Posted by tidetravel[/QUOTE]

This is about what I was going to say. We partied with friends until very late and then passed out uncomfortably on our (slightly damp from the rain) tent. Our lack of sex and unfortunate sleeping arrangements - and the fact that we'd been bangin' away at each other for several years prior - did not make our wedding night any less special. The end.

marinabreeze

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[QUOTE]I'm not judging any non-Christians who make different choices - it's all about your beliefs and priorities. These are just the reasons we're waiting. :)
Posted by LadyArkham[/QUOTE]
Um, not all of us who had sex prior to marriage are non-Christians.  I'm a Christian and I didn't wait (although I have only slept with my FI).  I do know some Christians who didn't wait, as well as some who did.  Not all Christians see premarital sex the same way.  And not all non-Christians (or non-religious people in general) have premarital sex. 

barbie92

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: An HONEST thought-provoking question: sleeping together before married? : Um, not all of us who had sex prior to marriage are non-Christians.  I'm a Christian and I didn't wait (although I have only slept with my FI).  I do know some Christians who didn't wait, as well as some who did.  Not all Christians see premarital sex the same way.  And not all non-Christians (or non-religious people in general) have premarital sex. 
Posted by marinabreeze[/QUOTE]
I am going to agree with this. I am a Christian and my FI and I didn't wait and I am glad we didn't.