Crazy what can happen in a week. Since I'm anonymous and have rarely contributed to the forums I thought I would share my story. It's so unbelievable I woke up this morning thinking it was just all a bad dream but came to the realization that it indeed did happen when I saw my items packed up in moving boxes. My wedding day, which was set to happen in 2 weeks has now been cancelled. I've left my FH and lost a few best friends in the process .... but seriously, WHO does this happen too?!?! Stories like this belong on fake 'reality' TV shows! Not real life!!!!!
I want to thank those who contributed and did their best to give me information regarding my last post about the STD issue. Here's the story behind the post:
My FH & I had our bachelor/bachelorette parties on the same weekend. Me and my girls had a swanky hotel room and went to a popular bar nearby, FH and his guys got their own hotel room (different hotel than me) on basically the very end of the long strip of bars and went out the bars/clubs down their way. The plan was to all do our own thing (guys w guys, girls w girls) for the party night and the following morning My FH & I were treating everyone to a big brunch to thank our wedding party.
The night started out fantastic. My girls took me out to a delicious dinner, showered me with inappropriate gifts (adult toys, lingerie) and then fed me my weight in shots & mixed drinks. The last thing I remember was dancing on a bar. I woke up the next morning with a killer hangover in our hotel room with over half the girls missing. Since most of them are single, I had assumed they went home with guys to do a one night stand type deal and didn't think much of it.
Fastfoward to current day: I find out I have an STD and going to the doctors does nothing but reassure me that it is, in fact, an STD. My FH and I both are clean (we've been tested). So I had thought that I either got it from a friend sharing a drink OR my FH cheated. My MOH came over to talk and filled me in with some details ....
Party night: after partying and drinking around 11PM I had my fill and needed to be taken back to my hotel room for some much needed sleep. 2 of my girls carried me home and put me to bed. The rest of the girls weren't done partying so they continued to bar hop and ended up running into the guys. They all went to the strip club and the girls paid for my FH to go into "the red room" (aka special services). Following the stripclub, they all decided to continue drinking at the guy's hotel room since most of the bars were closing. Well, the guy's hotel room had a strip pole and my promiscuous friend thought it would be fun to play stripper. Somehow, her playing stripper resulted in group sex between 3 groomsmen, my FH and 4 of my bridesmaids. One of the groomsmen decided to videotape some of it on this cellphone which was sent out to one of his buddies, who forwarded it to his girlfriend who happened to be one of the friends who took me back to the hotel to go to bed.
FH and I had a very long discussion. He promised it wouldn't happen again. I left him. I'm sad, hurt and heartbroken but I've come to the realization that I'm happy he decided to be an idiot and cheat because he saved me from getting in a marraige where cheating might've happened. Thank goodness we don't have kids!
Thought you all would enjoy the story. Count your blessings every night and be happy the one you love isn't off screwing your friends (and possibly his friends too...)