ill natured women...

SarahPLiz

ditto betrothed.

Posters on the boards ask for our opinions, so we give them. No one asked you to keep us in check. In fact, that's the moderator's responsibility. I don't see a big orange bar over your avatar, so I don't think you qualify.

laurenclaire1386

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_ill-natured-women?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:14Discussion:3ae2b189-e9bc-4647-bbea-d3ead1891af9Post:0d9efa9a-943d-47f7-b9be-64d0552835b1">Re: ill natured women...</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: ill natured women... : Well it's clear to me that a lot of the people here don't seem to like or agree with my posts....so they should leave then?
Posted by qtxvixen[/QUOTE]
Not the way it works buddy. There are more people that think you're ridiculous for posting this than there are people that agree with you. The ones that think you're ridiculous aren't going to be told how to post and what to say. What do you think gives you the authority to chastize grown women about their behavior? That was a rhetorical question. And the answer is, nothing gives you that authority. People don't like to be told what do by other people who seem to have zero sense.

laurenclaire1386

Whoa, there was a DD I think.

qtxvixen

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_ill-natured-women?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:14Discussion:3ae2b189-e9bc-4647-bbea-d3ead1891af9Post:fd434ae0-0ce7-40ab-bb02-7ad0424e8ebc">Re: ill natured women...</a>:
[QUOTE]ditto betrothed. Posters on the boards ask for our opinions, so we give them. No one asked you to keep us in check. In fact, that's the moderator's responsibility. I don't see a big orange bar over your avatar, so I don't think you qualify.
Posted by SarahPLiz[/QUOTE]

I didn't ask anyone to put in a reply...People can post on boards to say what they want without people posting back..can't they? If you disagree with what I'm saying, than leave as betrothed had stated in her post..

BecW2be

Is SBY anything like BSC? Because I'm betting OP does see that a lot. Like every time she passes a mirror...  ... ...

You can't dictate how people respond. We aren't trying to dictate anything about you, but we will respond however we wish. If you don't like it, do please go away. But telling us how to post will get you nowhere.

aerinpegadrak

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_ill-natured-women?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:14Discussion:3ae2b189-e9bc-4647-bbea-d3ead1891af9Post:8f6e3a2f-bc66-4516-a6fe-1ee9f4b1afc2">Re: ill natured women...</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: ill natured women... : I didn't ask anyone to put in a reply...People can post on boards to say what they want without people posting back..can't they? If you disagree with what I'm saying, than leave as the girl above had stated in her post..
Posted by qtxvixen[/QUOTE]
You =/= the entire board.  People can dislike you and still enjoy the rest of the boards.  If you don't like anything about the boards, then nothing is forcing you to continue posting here.

I find your lack of logic disturbing.

laurenclaire1386

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_ill-natured-women?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:14Discussion:3ae2b189-e9bc-4647-bbea-d3ead1891af9Post:8f6e3a2f-bc66-4516-a6fe-1ee9f4b1afc2">Re: ill natured women...</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: ill natured women... : I didn't ask anyone to put in a reply...People can post on boards to say what they want <strong>without people posting back</strong>..can't they? If you disagree with what I'm saying, than leave as betrothed had stated in her post..
Posted by qtxvixen[/QUOTE]
What the eff? Seriously dude. You post a thread, and you have zero control over who responds how to it. Again, not how this works.

BecW2be

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_ill-natured-women?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:14Discussion:3ae2b189-e9bc-4647-bbea-d3ead1891af9Post:8f6e3a2f-bc66-4516-a6fe-1ee9f4b1afc2">Re: ill natured women...</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: ill natured women... : I didn't ask anyone to put in a reply...People can post on boards to say what they want without people posting back..can't they? If you disagree with what I'm saying, than leave as betrothed had stated in her post..
Posted by qtxvixen[/QUOTE]

Um, no. Actually, you can't post what you want and not have people posting back. You are confusing message boards with a blog. You'll need one of those if you just want to blabber on about what you think without input from others. Why on earth would you want to post a message on a message board without wanting anyone to post back?

qtxvixen

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_ill-natured-women?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:14Discussion:3ae2b189-e9bc-4647-bbea-d3ead1891af9Post:9f9c0c38-298f-4ce2-b849-2d0653fa0669">Re: ill natured women...</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: ill natured women... : You =/= the entire board.  People can dislike you and still enjoy the rest of the boards.  If you don't like anything about the boards, then nothing is forcing you to continue posting here. I find your lack of logic disturbing.
Posted by aerinpegadrak[/QUOTE]

I said nothing about not liking the boards...I said I don't like women who respond back with cruel and sarcastic statements to people who might need help..Please read the post carefully.

psichick

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_ill-natured-women?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:14Discussion:3ae2b189-e9bc-4647-bbea-d3ead1891af9Post:5e5faa9c-0668-4baa-a9b9-661bf40d76b3">Re: ill natured women...</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: ill natured women... : What the eff? Seriously dude. You post a thread, and you have zero control over who responds how to it. Again, not how this works.
Posted by laurenclaire1386[/QUOTE]

<div>she's apparently new to the internet. she also hasn't yet figured out that everyone isn't here to validate her and stroke her ego. </div>

laurenclaire1386

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_ill-natured-women?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:14Discussion:3ae2b189-e9bc-4647-bbea-d3ead1891af9Post:0ab40b40-85be-41db-a9a5-dae89542e5be">Re: ill natured women...</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: ill natured women... : I said nothing about not liking the boards...I said I don't like women who respond back with cruel and sarcastic statements to people who might need help..Please read the post carefully.
Posted by qtxvixen[/QUOTE]
And I don't like women who think they need to defend every single person who's ever gotten flamed. No one has reading comprehension problems. Also, this is not all that original a post. We've all seen it about 20 times. And it's never changed anything.

psichick

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_ill-natured-women?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:14Discussion:3ae2b189-e9bc-4647-bbea-d3ead1891af9Post:0ab40b40-85be-41db-a9a5-dae89542e5be">Re: ill natured women...</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: ill natured women... : I said nothing about not liking the boards...I said I don't like women who respond back with cruel and sarcastic statements to people who might need help..Please read the post carefully.
Posted by qtxvixen[/QUOTE]

<div>please show a thread where people were cruel to anyone here. sarcastic, yes. cruel, no. they are not the same thing. </div>

qtxvixen

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_ill-natured-women?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:14Discussion:3ae2b189-e9bc-4647-bbea-d3ead1891af9Post:72f8c9aa-2808-41ab-aee0-13b9f0ae3911">Re: ill natured women...</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: ill natured women... : Um, no. Actually, you can't post what you want and not have people posting back. You are confusing message boards with a blog. You'll need one of those if you just want to blabber on about what you think without input from others. Why on earth would you want to post a message on a message board without wanting anyone to post back?
Posted by BecW2be[/QUOTE]

Message Boards are not only for replies....Of course people can post up anything without people posting back..don't be so black and white...

laurenclaire1386

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_ill-natured-women?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:14Discussion:3ae2b189-e9bc-4647-bbea-d3ead1891af9Post:a228cbb3-8eda-4a23-9bed-89f2338bfa83">Re: ill natured women...</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: ill natured women... : Message Boards are not only for replies....Of course people can post up anything without people posting back..don't be so black and white...
Posted by qtxvixen[/QUOTE]
But the fact still remains that you have no control over it. Your elevator doesn't quite hit the top floor huh?

[Deleted User]

If we tell you that you are right, will you go away?

SarahPLiz

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_ill-natured-women?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:14Discussion:3ae2b189-e9bc-4647-bbea-d3ead1891af9Post:8f6e3a2f-bc66-4516-a6fe-1ee9f4b1afc2">Re: ill natured women...</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: ill natured women... : I didn't ask anyone to put in a reply...People can post on boards to say what they want without people posting back..can't they? If you disagree with what I'm saying, than leave as betrothed had stated in her post..
Posted by qtxvixen[/QUOTE]

Not really. That's why there is a reply capability. These are discussion forums. If you don't want your ideas discussed, then don't post them here.

 If you have something you want to say without any replies, then you need to ask the moderator to lock the topic. I doubt Heels would do it for this.

qtxvixen

When you make smug comments like that, that's what I mean...

[Deleted User]

Well, I'm late to my response, so....ditto Betrothed to your question about my point. Stop being the board police! First you didn't like the ladies over on WW, now you're mouthing off to those on Chit Chat. Which is kind of funny, considering how you told the WW girls to come over here in the first place.

kikibaby

If you want to biitch without hearing anyone else's opinion, get a fucking blog so we don't have to read it.

qtxvixen

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_ill-natured-women?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:14Discussion:3ae2b189-e9bc-4647-bbea-d3ead1891af9Post:72c08554-b636-4789-8c6d-5f3b1d652758">Re: ill natured women...</a>:
[QUOTE]If we tell you that you are right, will you go away?
Posted by cew515[/QUOTE]

Well you know, you can stop posting if you wanted to...but it seems you like to post back to what I have to say. You have the option to not post and to leave.

laurenclaire1386

No one's going anywhere and no one's going to be nice just because you said so. Get over it.

qtxvixen

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_ill-natured-women?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:14Discussion:3ae2b189-e9bc-4647-bbea-d3ead1891af9Post:78f58073-7ef5-4e63-9b8e-a03b9759c25e">Re: ill natured women...</a>:
[QUOTE]Well, I'm late to my response, so....ditto Betrothed to your question about my point. Stop being the board police! First you didn't like the ladies over on WW, now you're mouthing off to those on Chit Chat. Which is kind of funny, considering how you told the WW girls to come over here in the first place.
Posted by Seshat411[/QUOTE]

I'm mouthing off to those on Chit Chat? I was actually talking about the women in WW. Since that board is about wedding woes, my post has nothing to do with ww, so chit chat is where i'm posting. honestly, think before you post, and read carefully.

qtxvixen

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_ill-natured-women?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:14Discussion:3ae2b189-e9bc-4647-bbea-d3ead1891af9Post:36fe4577-31f1-40c7-9af2-6af74bc8779a">Re: ill natured women...</a>:
[QUOTE]No one's going anywhere and no one's going to be nice just because you said so. Get over it.
Posted by laurenclaire1386[/QUOTE]

I just basically said the samething as betrothed but it's coming back to me as "no one's going anywhere.." Umm yeah...honestly think before posting.

laurenclaire1386

You're way outnumbered here. Do you not get that? If you don't like the majority of what the posters on this board say, wouldn't it make more sense for YOU to leave, being one of the few and far between who can't stand us? We're not gonna change, so you're banging your head against a wall. But feel free. My afternoon's not real busy and we can argue this til the cows come home.

laurenclaire1386

And for the love of Christ, stop telling people to think before posting.

kikibaby

If people on Wedding Woes want to talk about kittens, and people on Etiquette want to talk about cheeseburgers, what's it to you?  Stop acting like the fucking board police, grow a pair and/or go away.

SarahPLiz

Message board = discussion forum. If you don't want replies, then you need to ask the Moderator (Heels) if she can lock the topic.

However, I don't see the point of posting something on a discussion board if you don't want it discussed. If you just want to vent, then do it on a blog, or write a letter but don't send it (seriously, that helps).

If you have a problem with people on WW, then post it on WW. Don't post on Chit Chat, thereby calling out the posters on Chit Chat, for something they were not apart of. Also, I didn't see anything in your post that indicated you were talking about people on WW. So how was anyone supposed to know?

If you really want someone to notice your vent, wait until Friday and call us all out in the FFF post on Etiquette. That's what it is for.

I suggest you lurk a little more until you get the feel of these boards.


ETA: Sorry I repeated myself. TK crapped out as I was posting and I didn't think it actually went through.

[Deleted User]

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_ill-natured-women?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:14Discussion:3ae2b189-e9bc-4647-bbea-d3ead1891af9Post:7308c605-387f-4457-837e-453244346a36">Re: ill natured women...</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: ill natured women... : I'm mouthing off to those on Chit Chat? I was actually talking about the women in WW. Since that board is about wedding woes, my post has nothing to do with ww, so chit chat is where i'm posting. honestly, think before you post, and read carefully.
Posted by qtxvixen[/QUOTE]

That's funny, I don't see any of the WW regs on this thread. You must have some kind of superpower to be arguing with people on another board while posting on Chit Chat. Did you forget you're on Chit Chat? Yes, you are mouthing off here.

Oh, and if you were talking about the women on WW, then clearly your post DOES have something to do with WW. Perhaps you should think before you post, no?

qtxvixen

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_ill-natured-women?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:14Discussion:3ae2b189-e9bc-4647-bbea-d3ead1891af9Post:e9dd0e5f-4888-4cda-95c6-02f2c683d839">Re: ill natured women...</a>:
[QUOTE]You're way outnumbered here. Do you not get that? If you don't like the majority of what the posters on this board say, wouldn't it make more sense for YOU to leave, being one of the few and far between who can't stand us? We're not gonna change, so you're banging your head against a wall. But feel free. My afternoon's not real busy and we can argue this til the cows come home.
Posted by laurenclaire1386[/QUOTE]

Omg. outnumbered? Really? Do you think I care if I'm outnumbered? I'm posting back to people's replies. Clearly you do have all the time in the world.

[Deleted User]

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_ill-natured-women?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:14Discussion:3ae2b189-e9bc-4647-bbea-d3ead1891af9Post:387367d2-c7c6-430c-94ec-8976b05ada67">Re: ill natured women...</a>:
[QUOTE]And for the love of Christ, stop telling people to think before posting.
Posted by laurenclaire1386[/QUOTE]

Yeah, that is seriously annoying. It's like she thinks that by telling someone to think before posting that what they say doesn't count.