HELP!!!!

tcline06

ok i need some serious advice!! My fiance and I are having some trouble planning our wedding..now mind u this is my first wedding and his second. I want a wedding where all my family and friends are there,which is alot, and he just wants a few people to attend an elopement!! I totally understand where he is coming from and he understands where Im coming from we just cant find a mutuaral in between!!!

Any suggestions!!!!????