My wedding right now is up to $15,000 dollars and so far I have paid for everything myself. No help from the my parents, my fiance's parents, or even my fiance! I understand that I make a lot more than my fiance but he hasn't even offered or tried to help with anything. I complained to him about it and he said all I have to do is tell him what I want. I talk to him everyday about what else we need. Transportation, a cake, a dress for our daughter...The least he could do is offer to take care of the small stuff right?? Why should I have to ask him to pay for something? Shouldn't he feel some type of way that I paid so much money and he didn't pitch in a dime? If I don't ask him to help out with anything would he just not care and let me pay for everything? Somebody please tell me, should I have to ask for his help or should he offer to help???