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amber mcpherson

you know what? dont judge someone just because they dont spell some words right i have adhd and i am dislexic,so yeah

achiduck

Oh goodness this is entertaining. 

OP- there are lots of knotties on this site who have learning disabilities and still spell out their words. Notice the spell check button? It's there for a reason. 

bridalmarch

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_help-54?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:14Discussion:7adc4458-ba01-4e38-beec-8ac7fb0dfc02Post:edc65b4d-a51c-4ad0-8eb9-56a603084aee">Re: help</a>:
[QUOTE]you know what? dont judge someone just because they dont spell some words right i have adhd and i am dislexic,so yeah
Posted by amber mcpherson[/QUOTE]

<div>I have ADD. I have been a professional editor, a professional blogger, and a textbook editor. Now I'm a freelance writer. </div><div>
</div><div>So...yeah.</div>

samantha24p

I'm dislexic, but still reread things before I post.

AshleyMerworth

Wow ok I agree with everyone saying that you should wait. I was married at 18 and that was a big mistake. I was married for 10 years. We were two kids who thought we really really loved each other. From the day we were married he cheated on me and would constantly look at porn. I stuck through it because I thought I still loved him. I have two children with him. I love my kids and do not regret having them they are my pride and joy. After he hit me I left him. I finally got my divorce finalized last month after a year being seperated.

So please think real hard before making a mistake. It will be harder to leave later on especially if you have kids I know I have been through it. And my kids are still having a hard time adjusting to the fact that we are no longer together.

I am extremely happy that I have finally found my soul mate and cant wait till the day we say ''Ido".

thejucheidea

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_help-54?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:14Discussion:7adc4458-ba01-4e38-beec-8ac7fb0dfc02Post:bdd2b9e1-faf2-4a8f-abb3-7cd2a066dc85">Re: help</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: help : yeah i am 18,and i have been when abusive guys more then once,and 4 of them forced themselves on me.
Posted by amber mcpherson[/QUOTE]

Damn girl, play the field much?

How old is your fiance? Have we determined this somewhere?

lovefuzzies

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_help-54?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:14Discussion:7adc4458-ba01-4e38-beec-8ac7fb0dfc02Post:edc65b4d-a51c-4ad0-8eb9-56a603084aee">Re: help</a>:
[QUOTE]you know what? dont judge someone just because they dont spell some words right i have adhd and i am dislexic,so yeah
Posted by amber mcpherson[/QUOTE]

<div>I call BS.  My son has ADHD and he spells just fine.  I have several friends with dyslexia and they may have had to work harder but they also spell just fine.  Two words for you: victim mentality.  Lose it, it won't do you any good in life.</div><div>
</div><div>And remember, please, that there are others out there who have had a harder life than you and haven't fallen prey to the poor me attitude.  Why don't you walk awhile in someone else's shoes and see how hard your life really is.  I don't mean to sound overly harsh but you're not presenting yourself as anything but immature.</div>

samantha24p

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_help-54?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:14Discussion:7adc4458-ba01-4e38-beec-8ac7fb0dfc02Post:dfa3db99-eaf6-45e1-b7f3-bb9e159530da">Re: help</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: help : I call BS.  My son has ADHD and he spells just fine.  I have several friends with dyslexia and they may have had to work harder but they also spell just fine.  Two words for you: victim mentality.  Lose it, it won't do you any good in life. And remember, please, that there are others out there who have had a harder life than you and haven't fallen prey to the poor me attitude.  Why don't you walk awhile in someone else's shoes and see how hard your life really is.  I don't mean to sound overly harsh but you're not presenting yourself as anything but immature.
Posted by lovefuzzies[/QUOTE]



Nicely put

button6004

OP, I have an honest question for you.  Why do you want to get married?  What about the act of marriage will make your relationship better? 

I think you like the idea of marriage but you dont understand what it really means.

lovefuzzies

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_help-54?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:14Discussion:7adc4458-ba01-4e38-beec-8ac7fb0dfc02Post:6d49c84c-3c8e-413d-bfbb-203a1c230a70">Re: help</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: help : Nicely put
Posted by samantha24p[/QUOTE]

<div>Thank you, after I re-read that I was afraid I did sound too harsh but it just ticks me off to no end when people act like that.</div>

pesematology

If this is not, in fact, a rainbow-haired treasure troll then it's almost certainly someone who desperately wants to feel in control of her life (by trying to achieve life milestones like marriage before she's ready) and/or has a frantic fear of being alone, unloved, or without protection and security.

When people tell you to experience the world and whatnot before you settle down, it's not soley to make sure you're not still too dumb. It's also to make sure you get some time to yourself before you start molding your life around yet another person's needs.

If, as you say, your whole life seems to have spent working for other people and not in pursuing your own bliss, then you need some time to spring back into your own shape before you can see whether that shape fits with someone else's.

samantha24p

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_help-54?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:14Discussion:7adc4458-ba01-4e38-beec-8ac7fb0dfc02Post:d1ee26fe-eabb-4704-9bae-1f7fb7c35d24">Re: help</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: help : Thank you, after I re-read that I was afraid I did sound too harsh but it just ticks me off to no end when people act like that.
Posted by lovefuzzies[/QUOTE]



No it wasn't too harsh, it was just right.