So Much to do and get ready for

shannel123

I'm a 23 yr. old lesbian who's getting married in a year what do I need to start doing as forth planning this wedding

AddieCake

Talk with your fiancee about the kind of wedding you want, set a budget, make a preliminary guest list, and find a venue that meets your number needs. Congrats and happy planning!

anastassiiat

All of what Addie said. Also if you haven't yet, set a date and check with the VIPs to make sure they can attend. Happy planning!

allychase

What does being a lesbian have to do with anything? That was worded strangely.

brittany634

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_so-much-to-do-and-get-ready-for?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:14Discussion:97de4eee-c9e4-4e04-8351-926add01ab97Post:a85469e3-bb42-491e-ab8a-69a1fe0dc500">Re:So Much to do and get ready for</a>:
[QUOTE]What does being a lesbian have to do with anything? That was worded strangely.
Posted by allychase[/QUOTE]

I was JUST thinking the same exact thing!

MoonlightSilver

She could have mentioned being a lesbian because there are different legal ramifications based upon where she lives. 

OP, there is a Gay Weddings board (clicky) that might be of more help to you. But your best bet is to start with a budget, and figure out which parts of the wedding are most important to the two of you (flowers, dress, DJ, food, etc). Then divide your budget according to what's most important and the prices in your area. Good luck!