grooms mother replaced by x's girlfriend

kimheartsscott

Holy fucking bananas, batman.

deepcovejackie

This board needs a mod.

mica178

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[QUOTE]This board needs a mod.
Posted by deepcovejackie[/QUOTE]

<div>I agree.</div>

NcsuPsych

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[QUOTE]This board needs a mod.
Posted by deepcovejackie[/QUOTE]

I seriously and strongly second this!

LOLways

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[QUOTE]...I  planned a <strong>Batcherlette</strong> party the same weekend at the same HOTEL as the wedding.  I  ignored all of the wedding party except my MOM who broke down in bitter tears..and joy at seeing me.
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<div>...All I want to know is do I get to have one of these after my Bachelorette party?</div><div>
</div><div>...Also, this means that two major TV shows will be cancelled and renamed...</div>

maggieandluke

If the names weren't in the post i would say this chick is trollin' i mean her account started yesterday? awkward much?

and OP you are one of the worst mothers I know, the one who doesn't get the hint to stay out of thier kids lives. you messed up somehow, move on, your children obviously have.

Viczaesar

Well that was...interesting.

AutumnFair

OP, like others have said you have some kind of problem be it with drugs, alcohol, or just mental. Seek help NOW or be prepared to get cut out of your son's life forever. Just because you crashed his wedding, and he was the bigger person to just let it slide I can guarantee he isn't going to let you be anywhere near his children in the future. 

I have 1st cousins who have disowned their own mother because of issues and behavioral problems which you are presenting. They moved thousands of miles of way just to be sure that their children would be safe from my cousin's mother (she is disowned aunt to me). Just because you gave birth to your children does NOT make you automatic good mother. I know plenty of people out their that are terrible mothers and will probably have the same strained if none existent relationship that you now have with your son. 

FYI, crashing your son's wedding was wrong and I am 100% sided with your son and his wife on why you were not invited. You are unstable person that needs some sort of help. I highly suggest you get it. 

FutureJilliannD

Good Lord. What a crazy. OP, you don't automatically have a right to be in your adult children's lives if you have done horrible things to them in the past. I'm guessing that is a safe bet here. And by the way, I say this as someone who has an excellent relationship with my mother.

lalaith50

If someone hadn't found actual people connected with this, I would be convinced that this was a big joke...cuz if so, it would be HILARIOUS!

OP- You are so adamant that it is your son and your family who needs help? What about YOU? Anyone who is convinced that it is "other people" who have the problem and that they themselves are fine, most definitely proves that *they* are the one in need of help. 

It's called "narcissistic personality disorder," which, unfortunately, by definition, the person with it will *never* be able to see that they have a problem. :-/

nrawlings26

i'm totally confused by this lady.. i thought she said she wasn't invited and that her son was mad at here

crlewis803

I need clarification: you say you weren't invited and kept in the dark and yet you say your son "scolded" you for being late? So how is it he was upset that you were late if you were never supposed to know about the wedding anyway?

You just don't make much sense....what is the real story? Were you invited or weren't you? By the way, if the older son assaulted you, that is between you and him and not the bride and groom.

You have a lot of nerve saying that someone should have been aborted...very unnecessary and uncalled for.

If this is real, I get that you are hurt but to be honest, if I had someone like you in my family and didn't want them at my wedding, I would have hired security to keep you out.

LSwauger

Her son knows... so does his mother in law: ME! 

It has been heartbreaking for him to put up with this woman as his mother, trying to deal with her emotional and psychological disturbances all his life.  He is a wonderful man, a wonderful husband to my daughter - despite all his mother has done to him and to his brothers... 

And as for the "assault" from the older brother:  I was there for that.  He was escorting her out of the reception, where she showed up disguised in a wig!!  She and was yelling and cursing.  Luckily only a couple of people noticed her and she made no impact on the festivities at all.

CONGRATULATIONS to the very happy couple!!!

Ignore this crazy woman - she cannot comprehend reality.

SarahPLiz

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[QUOTE]Her son knows... so does his mother in law: ME!  It has been heartbreaking for him to put up with this woman as his mother, trying to deal with her emotional and psychological disturbances all his life.  He is a wonderful man, a wonderful husband to my daughter - despite all his mother has done to him and to his brothers...  And as for the "assault" from the older brother:  I was there for that.  He was escorting her out of the reception, where she showed up disguised in a wig!!  She and was yelling and cursing.  Luckily only a couple of people noticed her and she made no impact on the festivities at all. CONGRATULATIONS to the very happy couple!!! <strong>Ignore this crazy woman - she cannot comprehend reality.</strong>
Posted by LSwauger[/QUOTE]

<div>I think we figured this out early on in the post. I'm sorry she had to disrupt your family event like that. </div>

crash2729

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[QUOTE]Her son knows... so does his mother in law: ME!  It has been heartbreaking for him to put up with this woman as his mother, trying to deal with her emotional and psychological disturbances all his life.  He is a wonderful man, a wonderful husband to my daughter - despite all his mother has done to him and to his brothers...  And as for the "assault" from the older brother:  I was there for that.  He was escorting her out of the reception, where she showed up disguised in a wig!!  She and was yelling and cursing.  Luckily only a couple of people noticed her and she made no impact on the festivities at all.<strong> CONGRATULATIONS to the very happy couple!!! </strong>Ignore this crazy woman - she cannot comprehend reality.
Posted by LSwauger[/QUOTE]

Yes! I hope that didn't put a damper on thier day!
I'm sorry this has been spread all over TK and that you guys are having to deal with this.

Audrey&Austin

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[QUOTE]Her son knows... so does his mother in law: ME!  It has been heartbreaking for him to put up with this woman as his mother, trying to deal with her emotional and psychological disturbances all his life.  He is a wonderful man, a wonderful husband to my daughter - despite all his mother has done to him and to his brothers...  And as for the "assault" from the older brother:  I was there for that.  He was escorting her out of the reception, where she showed up disguised in a wig!!  She and was yelling and cursing.  Luckily only a couple of people noticed her and she made no impact on the festivities at all. <strong>CONGRATULATIONS to the very happy couple!!!</strong> Ignore this crazy woman - she cannot comprehend reality.
Posted by LSwauger[/QUOTE]
I'm sorry that your family had to deal with this and is continually dealing with this issue, but congratulations to the happy couple!

8daysaweek

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[QUOTE] i am not a seasoned "BOARDER" like you all here but I will leave you with one thought.....remember who it was who brought you into this world and gave of her self keeping her own desires as low priority putting you first.      When you decide to exclude her from your special day...know that you have pretty much written her off and most likely any future relationship . KNOW that when you have children...You will have to PAY for a babysitter instead of dropping the kids off at MOM's .  Those holiday's will be empty without MOM to cook and no replacements , step moms can have that unconditional caring  and nurturing .  Just know that you  pretty much blew it and you will have to expain to the kids just what happened to GRAMMA and it wont make them see you in a favorable light. GOOD WISHES TO YOU ALL and I hope I have given you some INSIGHT ONE  HURT MOM
Posted by funnygirl2no[/QUOTE]

For the record, I gave birth. See, cute little thing in the siggy? Giving birth and giving life to a child does not give you automatic rights to anything and honestly, it's the easiest part of being a mother. Hell, Jenelle from Teen Mom and... well, you, both managed that part.
Plenty of women have been wonderful mothers to kids they didn't give birth to and plenty of birth moms have been terrible to their kids they did give birth to.

You need help. You made it clear to strangers on the internet why you weren't invited to your son's wedding in a few random posts. If your sons have been dealing with your entitled, manipulative attitude and heartless attacks for years, I don't blame him for cutting you off.

CRASHER1

 THis Mother in Law does not know the facts.  She has been told many things that are twisted .   The wedding wasn't really crashed , a MOTHER does NOT need an invite.
 the mother wasn't screaming until the oldest son twisted her arm and lifted her by the  shoulder. THe Mother ended up in urgent care getting xray's instead of dancing with her son.   GOd only knows what the ex has told her and my sons who are brainwashed but violence is NEVER an option and if this Mother n Law saw the incident than she saw a son violating his Mother by physically and emotionally hurting her.   This mother n Law has daughters ,..she doesnt KNOW what it is to be beat up , physically imcapacitated and disabled( i could not lift my arm for days)  she doesn't understand that continual abuse over many years creates CRAZINESS !
 The leader of this whole nightmare wedding scene was BIN LADEN , my ex husband who is a COACH and has COACHED this whole big Mess and now this GULLIBLE MOTHER N LAW who refuses to speak to me face to face has boght into it all.   For a TEACHER , she is NOT very SMART. !!

CRASHER1

YOu are the ONLY one here who DOES have a sense of HUMOR.   I am sending this scipt to the producers to make a soap opera.   Maybe make some money off of a sad situation. . MY MOM ended up in the hospitol , she was in critical care after this wedding.  THey tore her heart out , not inviting , me her daughter. I am thankful I got to see her though, they tried to take that from me, these are some very self centered people, whom I have never even met.....How can they even judge ME?  It was all propaganda, perhaps from a Son who wanted sympathy, and to forget his past and be looked at like he is some wonderful man who married this wonderful woman but it isnt like that.   The bride woriks with Autism but has 0 tolerance for anyone or situation out of her NORM.   Her sister has a different last name than Hers, hence they MUST not be a perfect family, her Mother is single, an old maid teacher, perhaps she isn't too happy with her life either.   I never met any of them and HOW can they know SO MUCH about me?   That shows they are extremely gullible and trusting the WRONG sources for their information.   My story was sad but true.  I did get assaulted by my oldest Son upon arrival at that reception, I did sustain injuries, and he will pay the price for that.....in hopes he gets help....this is a very abusive family, it has been going on for many years.  I ran for my life , and I should have taken my children with me and None of this would have happened.   So if ever there is abuse , use this story to make you choose the right thing to do... Get out fast , get help early.  No one benefits from this behavior and if their is some sort of cooccuring disorders than get help for the entire family....like alcoholism,,,it effects everyone !
I hope I have helped .  BTW all the adults, MOTHERS and Fathers backed me and told me to go to that wedding.....they all say it was Horribly wrong to do what they did, that dismal day of my Son's Wedding.  

CRASHER1

the batcherlerrette party was for my best friend, who i am a bridesmaid for in 21 days.  She is not only inviting me to her wedding but including me in it.   She thinks that much of me......she came with me to my Son's wedding to make sure they did not destroy me,,,my children....she KNOWS the history.      I look forward to her Wdding in 21 days.....THis will be a Happy Wedding, unllike My son's .    The sun will shine, and the dancing will be genuine rejoice.   She has God in her Heart , and unlike my own sons....has a SOUL.   BTW the batcherlette party was cancelled due to the inclemente weather....we had planned to lay around the pool with her bikini and bride veil and i had a hat that i had made that said Mother of Groom, with 2 lovebirds on it....truly cute but we never did get to do that, the weather and "climate" of the whole affair were not conducive to following thru as planned.

CRASHER1

This Mother In Law needs to truly understand the situation....ABUSE , physical or emotional is NEVER OK.   The SON who assaulted his MOM on his Brothers wedding day..has been turned over to Adult Protective Services.     He was arrested on a DUI in the recent past and was DRUNK at the wedding reception.   not a reason for this out of control behavior... THE MOTher in Law did NOT see the assault....she saw the SON pushing the MOM to the back patio where the assault occured with witnesses.  Maybe she can perjure herself in court and put her teaching job at jeopardy to protect her image.      The fact i tried to discuss the wedding with her in advance on facebook.  and  stated  I look forward to meeting YOU at the WEDDING and she BLOCKED ME....shows that SHE was pretty much in the driver seat . and I am betting that she paid for this wedding at least some of it and therefore was not going to relinquish her DAY IN THE LIMELIGHT ... noone was going to outshine HER....and i may have shown up with a wig , but it was HIGH FASHIION and it went with the ELLIE TAHARI  designer dress and I would have outshined her....if i had decided to stay.....My Mother was wondering where i was and her neice  and my friend who drove me down to San DIego just to see my son Married.    She knew the price i would pay ....and was there for that reason,, but my MOM has been hospitolized twice since this tragic wedding....and they should all be ashamed of their conduct.

CRASHER1

THis MOTHER of the BRIDE has no basis for her rude remarks...She doesnt Know the BROTHERS like I know the BROTHERS.  .  They are violent, abusive, dangerous, just like their father was.  That's why I left , I ran for my life.   The Oldest that assaulted me at the wedding is a bodybuilder and has bipolar disorder...He needs treatment...the principal of his school told me that . So instead of RUNNING away for safety to a battered woman's shelter , I should have let the police officer take him when he wanted to take him to Juvenile hall, I stopped him from hauling him in... I stopped the manager of a Taco Bell from calling the police when The Groom(Brandon) wrestled me in a parking lot to the ground...the manager saw it all , it was over a 15 dollar cd player I took from his Dad.. even though his Dad took 65 thousand dollars from me ( had me sign it away) from my half of marital estate.  I was told to work at his Divorce Lawyers office, as a receptionist. I was given papers to sign , to give My ex guardianship of my youngest son.  I was naive , trusting of a man who vowed to take care of me...financially .  He wiped me out and took my Home , Children, Money and ultimately my mind.  So if you girls are smart , and guys you willl protect yourselves from this exploitation.  Your beautiful weddings mean NOTHING when your DIVORCE will cost 10 times more.  So be wise, beware, and KNOW your spouse...THe LOVE will fade and the true colors come out.... IF theire is abuse, emotional, financial, etc. than take the kids and run before they are destroyed like mine were.   It is too late for me to fix the situaltion. THe ex is good at what he does....coaching people to follow his less than honorable ways.   His first wife attempted suicide...she was a psychiatric tech . So READ those RED FLAGS ..before your lives are totally destroyed like mine .
 I too was once in Love and my wedding was a religous ceremony with G-d as my witness.   IT was all just an act...my groom needed to have a Jewish Wife to have children with. His father was a deeply religious man...I served the purpose and was thrown out like trash..  My friend recently committed suicide because her husband (ex)was being coached by my husband(ex) He did the same thing to her.
July 27, 2010 this woman walked across the 210 freeway into oncoming traffic :refer to the LA TIMES NOW LOCAL NEWS GLENDALE CALIFORNIA look it up I speak only fact.  because the pain was just too great.... I will never let them bury me and give them that satisfaction.  I am a survivor and I have a life now after  a very bad marriage... Hopefully You  all were  more selective than I.
        As for the Hockey Mom who has my youngest Child.  She is following the master manipulator, Zac Bin Laden.  aka Saddam Hussein.   He gets ahold of people who are gullible and controllable, like children.  SHe isn't very brite.  She doesnt have class , either. to take someones opinion of someone and not find out for herself what the REAL story is but chooses to join forces with a very dominate evil man.  She most likely got wiped out too...in her divorce and latched on to my ex husband for security . He found her on Match . com where he was looking to get married...He needed a Mother for the child that he stole from ME. He said HOPING that you have FUN with my  SOn like I do and he used my son as Bait.  He caught a fish , and of course she has bought into hook line and sinker.
 
Good Luck