I would just like to say that just because you feel you can write what you want at these forums, that doesn't make it right. If you feel that it is OK to write what you want thinking that the person you are wrting about will only find it if they look for it and it is still OK because you don't use their real name, it is stil not OK. If your Mother in law asked you to please not write things about family members because it not only causes hard feelings for the person you are obviously trying to hurt, but it actually hurts members of your new husbands family, then why is it necessary to do it. And,, for the persons that purposely go looking to see if something has been written about you,just so you can be angry that things are written about you, which also causes problems within you new family, then why do you do it? And if you think that Mother In Laws don't have feeling because they are not REALLY a person, just a Mother In Law, Guess what. They are real people with real feelings. If you think your Mother In Law doesn't have feelings and doesn't deserve your respect and if you think your husbands deserve to be hurt, then I guess you should just keep on doing what you are doihg. I guess it is all about you afterall.