Thank you in advance for any advice you have on my issue.
I am Lutheran & my Fiance is Catholic. I moved from OH to NC almost 3 years ago, before I moved I was always at church. My church in OH is small, & I knew everyone there. It was great growing up in my church. My Fiance went to church as a child, and up until middle school. Now he & his Mom go on Christmas Eve, my parents are very active in their church. We've gone to church in NC a few times, usually to a Lutheran church that I really like. This week we're going to a Catholic church that he likes. We've haven't been to a Mass, but we have spoken with the lady in charge of weddings at the Catholic church. We would have to take the premarital classes. Which is ok, I'd like to have that done. Does it make me a Catholic by taking these classes? We were also told I could have a Lutheran Pastor come help with the wedding. Or with approval from the Bishop we could get married in the Lutheran church & it would be considered a Catholic wedding. I don't know if his Mom cares where we get married. But my Mom has made it clear I should get married in a Lutheran church, because I've gone to church more. I just don't know what to do. I'd personally like to get married in a Lutheran church, but I'd get married in a Catholic church for him. So I don't know what to do....