Everything!!
FI and I have decided to cancel everything we currently have planned/booked and get married on an island instead! We also plan to have a big party to celebrate with friends and family about a month or two after we get back. We hope to be able to keep the same date which will allow people time to save money to come with us if they wish to do so.
The wedding as we were planning it seemed to be taking on a life of it's own and I was starting to feel like it was about everyone but us. So we have talked about it for weeks now and decided that we needed to look at what is important to us, not what everyone else wants. At the end of the day, all that matters is my daughter and the man I love. We both spoke to our parents and they were surprisingly supportive and willing to fly to wherever we end up!
Thankfully we will be able to get most of our deposits back and we are hoping to be able to keep the dj and the cake for our party.
I am so super excited! I have been feeling like I am on cloud nine since we have made the decision to be true to who we are. Now...time to start planning all over!
