So, my FI mentioned going to pick out tuxes with one of his GM. I said, "And me." He said, "Who says you're invited?" (joking, I think). Those of you who are married, did you go to pick out tuxes with your FI? Am I being a bridezilla if I insist on coming (if he wasn't joking)?
Re: Tux shopping...with or without bride?
[QUOTE]What does FI want? We picked out H's suit together. He is terrbile at dressing himself and wanted help. Originally we had nominated our best dressed male friend to go with him, but he was too tied up with work and school, so H and I went together and picked out his suit. <strong>How would you feel if he insisted on coming with you to pick a dress?</strong>
Posted by Liatris2010[/QUOTE]
<div>Well, I don't think it's entirely the same thing, but I get your point. I think he would most likely be fine picking out his own tux, (and the GM tuxes). I suppose I'm a little bit of a control freak. Which is one reason I love TK message boards for helping to keep me in check lol. </div>
I would think you should just let your FI pick his own if that's what he wants.
I get where you are coming from with wanting to be involved but do you trust him? If so, you need to trust that he won't pick some crazy Dumb and Dumber orange/blue tux with matching top hat and cane. Just tell him the color scheme, if he doesn't already know, and show him the color your BMs are wearing.
Let him and his GM have some fun. Just like you did when you went dress shopping. Surprsingly there are some Grooms out there that don't want their FI to see them in their wedding day attire before the big day as well.
You may want to discuss level of formality before he goes. I was in a tea-length dress and H wore a tux; we would have been more evenly matched had he chosen a suit, but that wasn't something I was concerned with.
My fiance and all of his groomsmen went to pick out tuxes in England, before he moved to California. I don't think they would have picked something that matched the wedding scheme at all, but I sent his mother along to regulate. Boom.
March siggy:THE DRESS
I did, however, go with my son (my best man) to buy his tuxedo. Since I was paying for his tux and he'd only rented prom tuxedos in the past, I felt he needed the bride's input for such a significant purchase. He'll have that tux for the next decade, at least.