A bridal salon called me and I asked a few questions. Although they have gowns that come in my size, there is no way in hell I will ever fit the sample size. Basically, the woman told me that I could hold the dresses up to me and image what it would look like. That doesn't sound like the greatest solution. Was anyone else in this situation? If so, what did you do?
Re: What if you don't fit the sample size?
I would call around and find out if any bridal salons do have your size. In addition, maybe a mega store like david's bridal would be helpful in trying on different shapes and silhouettes to see what style you like best, that way it isn't as difficult to imagine if you go somewhere else and they don't have your size in the dress you like.
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I only went to DB and AA. Both carry samples in multiple sizes including plus sizes. Even if you don't intend to purchase there, you may want to go to one of those stores to try on dresses. Get an idea of what necklines and silhouettes work well with your shape before going to the other bridal salon.
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I know there is a salon that carries only plus sizes in my area. You might try searching around for one around you. I think it would even be worth a drive.
I tried on everything from a 14 to a 22 and those all fit. Nuts, but true. I second that AA carries all sizes. I was looking for AA dresses and those were the salons I went to. Those shops that AA dresses in all size plus they had several other desginers in sizes 16 and up. The dress I bought was too big at 3 stores, all 3 had it in a 24, 26 & 28.... I ordered and 18, which now has to be taken in 2 inches! YAY!!!