Ok so one of our Groomsman (my fiancee's friend) I personally have not heard from since before we got engaged. Now we've been able to keep up and talk to all the other groomsman, but this one doesn't respond to our emails, phone calls, FB posts, etc. Right before my fiancee and I went to pick out the tuxes we had emailed him to make sure he was still going to attend, and to make sure he could be there for everything (rehearsal, rehearsal dinner, etc). And he said "Yea yea sure no problem." So we went and we picked out the tuxes and sent out an email to all the groomsman saying how much it was going to cost, and how much the deposit would cost. Everyone was supposed to be fitted by August 22nd, and here it is August 27th and he's the only one not fitted. We've tried to call him, email him, everything and he's dodging us. Now in the email I stated that if anyone couldn't pay the deposit we would take care of it, but we needed that money back before the wedding and that they would need to take care of the cost of the tux. Well today I got an email from a family friend (my fiancee's side) and she said that she talked to him and said you know you should really call them and let them know what's going on. They haven't heard from you. And he was like "well I can't pay the deposit right now" and she was like "well from what I understand they offered to pay for it as long as you paid them back before the wedding and that you could take care of the cost of the tux." And he just shrugged and walked away. Now at this point my fiancee is pissed. And both of us are about ready to kick him out of the wedding. Only because we're afraid he's not going to be able to pay for the tux in full, and he's going to bail last minute like he's been known to do in the past. Our wedding is October, but we need to order groomsman gifts which are going to take about 6 weeks to come in. Should we kick him out, or suck it up?