So most of us ladies have had that dream vision in our minds our entire lives of what our dress is going to look like, right? Mine was always the big, HUGE Cinderella dress. There was no way I would ever wear anything but that kind of dress. Ever.
Only problem is, I have tried on a good handful of those dresses and none of them really excite me. What I have been excited about (though I haven't tried any on yet...) are styles completely different than what I would have ever imaged wearing on my wedding day.
What shouldn't be a big dillemma is really tearing me up inside. I feel like if I don't get the dress I have dreamed about my entire life, I will end up regretting it. Has anyone experienced something like this? I don't want to get the "dress of the minute." I want to get the "dress of the lifetime."
And I know it's not all about the dress. But technically it is the part us girls have dreamed of since we were tiny. Would I be making an impulse decision to choose something that is my style 'now' rather than something I have wanted my whole life? It shouldn't be this hard!
Re: Going against the "dream" dress??
Bottom line is this try everything on. Look at every style. You might be surprised to find you like something you thought was absolutely not what you had thought you wanted. I tried 5 dresses total I'm 100% certain this is my dress. I've looked at other gowns since online or in catalogs that come in for weddings. It reaffirms my decision I find something wrong with everyone of these other dresses that I just dont like. I look at my dress and again just instant peace and happiness. I realise now it wasnt that I didnt like those things I was against it was that I hadn't seen them done in a way that I liked. So keep your mind open you maybe surprised in a good way.
[QUOTE]Little girls like princess dresses because they're poofy and over the top. Real women realize they're a PITA and not all that flattering. And realize too that many women do look back decades later at their wedding dress and wonder what they were thinking. Pick what you feel beautiful in now and don't worry about it being timeless because most things just aren't.
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<div>This. I always thought I'd get the poofy ballgown, too. 18 year old me most likely would have. 27 year old me has a more sophisticated style. I wouldn't overthink it, a lot of girls end up wearing a dress that is totally different from what they <em>thought </em>they wanted, often even what they <em>thought </em>they hated!</div><div>
</div><div>FWIW, my gown was more of a fit & flare/dropped waist - I had the more sophisticated look I wanted with a tight fitting gown, but I also had a bit of the "poof" I always imagined. Might a style to ask to try on.</div>
Try taking a step back from lifetime dreams and find a dress that makes you feel gorgeous, beautiful and excited. Guess what? It doesn't even have to be a traditional bridal dress. Give yourself a break.
The dress I ended up buying once I tried gowns on and saw what was flattering on me wasn't what I originally anticipated. So look at all your options and go with what you feel good in, whether it's Cinderella style or not.
In Response to Re:Going against the :[QUOTE]I've had the exact same struggle!!! nbsp;Every gown I pick out and the vision I have in my head in lace!!! nbsp;When I see me as a bride I see all over lace with a long lace veil. nbsp;BUT...after trying on 40 lace dresses I just didn't find it. nbsp;The hard part was there were 3 or 4 lace gowns that I liked and my friends and family felt were beautiful....but there was something just not right.nbsp;THEN...A consultant pulled a Satin gown with straps and everyone immediately forgot about all the lace gowns. nbsp;It was NOTHING that I pictured or wanted honestly....but I felt beautiful. nbsp;I've struggled with it for a while but ended up ordering the satin gown. nbsp;About a week after ordering it I came across an article about how to choose a weddig gown. nbsp;The paragraph that hit home for me said...pic the gown that makes YOU feel beautiful....not the GOWN that you think is beautiful. nbsp;Ultimately it about you IN the gown not the gown as you stand there and look at it on a hanger...or model. nbsp;Have fun with the process and take your time if you have the luxury of time. Posted by tmshipp[/QUOTE]
I have had a similar fillings. I always dreamed about very sparkling and a huge dress and guess what? - my wedding dress was very very simple and without sparkles
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BUT, I don't regret, because it fitted me most most than any other dresses, so choose the dress with how it fits you and believe, when you will see your wedding photos with a perfectly-fitted dress your doubts will be lost forever
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