My guy best friend, Jesse, was dating a guy for three years. I became friends with the guy and we are still very close even though they broke up they had a very amicable breakup and stayed friends for awhile afterward). My friend now has a new boyfriend that seems very controlling to me, but I don't get involved with that.
I am inviting Jesse's ex to my wedding because I want him at my celebration. I asked jesse if this was ok first and he said yes, it was fine. A month later, he calls me and tells me that he thinks I'm being "crappy" by inviing his ex and that if his new boyfriend sees the ex, he'll punch him. I told him that, though I'm sorry there might be some discomfort, I am still inviting the ex because we've become very good friends (A better friend than Jesse at times!). Jesse has not talked to me for two months. I'm still planning on inviting them all to the wedding (with a warning that if anyone causes a problem that person will be asked to leave).
I'm feeling defeated. Opinions?