Any of you girls have a fiance who is soooo laid back that it makes me want to scream? I love my guy dearly and he's taught me how to relax when I needed it but really, I'd like for him to start actually having an opinion about stuff rather than just saying, "Yeah, I'm cool with that." He's def involved but... not really inputting anything into the wedding that he would like to see. He is genuinely cool with anything I say. He's a photographer and I would have liked him to come up with some way of incorporating that into the reception but again, he is just cool with whatever. He is def not lazy but I'm thinking... is this what grooms say when they just don't want to or care to be a part of the planning?
This may be a blessing in disguise? I just feel alone in the planning and I want to be able to walk into our reception and feel like it's a representation of us, rather than just me.
What are some insightful words I could say to him that may turn him around without getting his back up?