Ok so ladies I need someone to tell me if Im just being a little brat or if my point is valid. I go to a large church in the town I grew up in. Its a brand new church and its beautiful, very modern and has very nuetral colors that would work with the colors we want to use. I've been attnedind this church for 6 years. Well i really want to be married there by my pastor. Its close to most of my and FI friends and family. Most people would only have to drive 30 minutes., FI however, wants to get married in the church he grew up in. Its a nice church don't get me wrong. but its been around for 100 years. The carpeting in the building is red. Like bright red. FI hasn't been there in 5 years. he doesn't even attend church. Not to mention the fact that the church would be over an hour drive for almost everyone we know. I'm stuck here... FI and i both really avoid the topic but we need to make a decision. My pastor said hes been getting more emails and calls about weddings at the church next spring and that I need to go ahead and book my date. UGH!