can we talk about

marriedfilingjointly

future-mrs?

Has anyone spoken to her?

It appears that she is back to posting regularly everywhere but here, and word on the streets is someone tried to post something on her local asking about the scandal and she deleted it. 

(note--this is my non-witch hunt outfit.  I don't even have a torch.  Just askin.)

Nebb

I think it was mentioned on the last 2 pages of FFF (but the posts are from saturday), and it was just briefly touched on in the unpopular opinions on page 8 or so??

She said in some post on saturday (on her local or club board? dont remember) that she took some time off to think about things but shes back!

reddy123

I thought she cut all ties... but she's still mod of the Kansas board...?

Anysunrise

Well, you already covered everything I know. I saw the posts on her month board before they were deleted, but that's all I have.

marriedfilingjointly

Anysunrise, what did they say?

I saw the Unpopular Opinions thread, and how because some of us were anti-witch hunt, that we must either be a co-conspirator, BFFs with Mrs, stoopid, or a mixed-breed puppy kicker, plus they had moved on to other topics, so I left it alone.

MarriedInAFever

Not to be THAT girl, but what happened? I was getting married and stuff and missed it.

LesPaul

She posted something on her month board about laying low for a while, but didn't elaborate when someone specifically asked her about the site-that-shall-not-be-named.

reddy123

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_can-talk-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:7d7fe192-01da-4761-af89-bce8a32404baPost:e9990dc5-2201-4253-b0c0-89f582c3f63f">Re: can we talk about</a>:
[QUOTE]Not to be THAT girl, but what happened? I was getting married and stuff and missed it.
Posted by MarriedInAFever[/QUOTE]

<div>Read the last FFF when you have a lot of time, supposedly future_mrs is the creator of that one site.</div>

marriedfilingjointly

MILF, remember the KPS callout site?  Some people traced the IP number on emails from the KPS Callout creator.  The IP showed up as some small town in Kansas.  I guess future-mrs (the Kansas mod) is the only E/SB reg from that town, so a lot of people think it was her.  Some posts were made about it Friday, specifically one paging her, but she ignored it.  Hang on and I'll link the relevant posts. 

reddy123

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_can-talk-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:7d7fe192-01da-4761-af89-bce8a32404baPost:32558868-c51c-4952-a0e2-5be0a8ba141a">Re: can we talk about</a>:
[QUOTE]She posted something on her month board about <strong>laying low for a while</strong>, but didn't elaborate when someone specifically asked her about the site-that-shall-not-be-named.
Posted by LesPaul[/QUOTE]

<div>Yeah, that's totally not going to work.</div>

kd.joseph

I got nothing. This was all news to me when it went down. And I didnt know much about Mrs. I thought she was nice when we would talk that was about it.

This is just too much drama for me, I'm too old....lol.

Night_Sprite

Is it worthwhile to read the whole FFF?  I read about 5 pages.

laladypoet

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_can-talk-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:7d7fe192-01da-4761-af89-bce8a32404baPost:36133602-f923-4182-8e00-d201f6043385">Re: can we talk about</a>:
[QUOTE]Anysunrise, what did they say? I saw the Unpopular Opinions thread, and how because some of us were anti-witch hunt, that <strong>we must either be a co-conspirator, BFFs with Mrs, stoopid, or a mixed-breed puppy kicker,</strong> plus they had moved on to other topics, so I left it alone.
Posted by marriedfilingjointly[/QUOTE]

I honestly didn't see anyone say that. I saw people say it was weird, me included, but I didn't see any speculation.

laladypoet

oh, so she did say it wasn't her. I didn't see that.

marriedfilingjointly

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_can-talk-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:7d7fe192-01da-4761-af89-bce8a32404baPost:a7a9c634-de39-4cb4-bae8-f05eb20708a7">Re: can we talk about</a>:
[QUOTE]oh, so she did say it wasn't her. I didn't see that.
Posted by laladypoet[/QUOTE]


I still don't see it, help?

Nebb

If there is nothing to admit to and she didnt do anything why cant that be said to the audience who actually cares to know? Why say it THERE instead of here or E. That makes no sense.

It just seems like avoidance

AllAboutTheBenjamin

Schnikies

Nebb

Im going to need a link so I can see the whole thread anysunrise.

kd.joseph

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_can-talk-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:7d7fe192-01da-4761-af89-bce8a32404baPost:0a6a4c78-41cc-44cc-9aac-1fc4970cc1b4">Re: can we talk about</a>:
[QUOTE]If there is nothing to admit to and she didnt do anything why cant that be said to the audience who actually cares to know? Why say it THERE instead of here or E. That makes no sense. It just seems like avoidance
Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]

Well it just seems to me that she is protected there, as she pointed out by the last statement. And I'm not sure she could defend herself. I think everyone has their own opinions and have made up their minds.......one way or the other.

Anysunrise

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_can-talk-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:7d7fe192-01da-4761-af89-bce8a32404baPost:c0add3d1-1fe8-401a-99dc-fcb050af5f32">Re: can we talk about</a>:
[QUOTE]Im going to need a link so I can see the whole thread anysunrise.
Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]

<a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_october-2011-weddings_sunshine-rainbows">http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_october-2011-weddings_sunshine-rainbows</a>

There's the one with the first post and where she deleted ThePink and Amoro's posts, I don't know where the second one came from, or if it was from the same thread and later deleted or what. It was posted on the second last page of FFF.

[Deleted User]

I think KA told her to stay out of it, because she (KA) didn't want the drama being spread to other boards and she knew it would be pointless to respond. She (future) deleted her FB friends and whatnot because she was afraid of people trying to get her personal information in light of the posts against her. That I can understand, I wouldn't want people to have access to my personal info whether I was guilty or not if they were already blaming me.  

amalama

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[QUOTE]If there is nothing to admit to and she didnt do anything why cant that be said to the audience who actually cares to know? Why say it THERE instead of here or E. That makes no sense. It just seems like avoidance
Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]

As a complete outsider to this whole mess since I haven't been around, and just based on what I have read about it the past few days, if it was me I might do the same. If I was close to anyone here I would probably discuss it with them privately but coming to the whole angry board, even if she plans on just saying "It wasn't me" and then dropping it, isn't going to do anything but start an argument. There's nothing she can say that will make the people who have decided it was her change their minds, and if she's not close with anyone else what's really the point? Just my two cents.

Blueyed228

Im a little peeved that a bunch of us went to bat for her and she left us a bit high and dry.  I thought she would have at least come back to SB since the majority of us said the proof was a bit to circumstantial to be throwing out accusations.

Not that she owes us an explanation, but this would have been the place to come to to claim her innocence, well at least that is my take on it.  If she had just said "Hey guys, I didnt do it, thanks for the support." I would have felt better about it.

laladypoet

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: can we talk about : I still don't see it, help?
Posted by marriedfilingjointly[/QUOTE]
apparently on the Kansas board, someone posted it above.

laladypoet

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_can-talk-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:7d7fe192-01da-4761-af89-bce8a32404baPost:a2be8ed4-d246-4015-8c6f-ef36b8480897">Re: can we talk about</a>:
[QUOTE]Im a little peeved that a bunch of us went to bat for her and she left us a bit high and dry.  I thought she would have at least come back to SB since the majority of us said the proof was a bit to circumstantial to be throwing out accusations. Not that she owes us an explanation, but this would have been the place to come to to claim her innocence, well at least that is my take on it.  If she had just said "Hey guys, I didnt do it, thanks for the support." I would have felt better about it.
Posted by Blueyed228[/QUOTE]
exactly.

marriedfilingjointly

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_can-talk-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:7d7fe192-01da-4761-af89-bce8a32404baPost:9b2bd099-0b7e-49b4-920d-c372279da4c6">Re: can we talk about</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: can we talk about : apparently on the Kansas board, someone posted it above.
Posted by laladypoet[/QUOTE]


See, I just read that as "I didn't do anything <em>wrong</em>," as in, I may have created the board but I still don't think it was wrong.  Maybe.

Ditto, Blue.  Plus I'm just nosy. 

Nebb

IMO her saying she did nothing wrong does not immediately mean she wasnt behind the callouts. Whoever started them thought her purpose was completely justified to teach everyone a lesson, so you can only assume that the creator wouldnt think they did anything wrong.

kd.joseph

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: can we talk about : See, I just read that as "I didn't do anything wrong ," as in, I may have created the board but I still don't think it was wrong.  Maybe. 
Posted by marriedfilingjointly[/QUOTE]

Yeah I went back and reread when you said that. And I see what you're saying.

laladypoet

wait, as someone pointed out on E, she didn't say she didn't do it. she just said she didn't do anything to apologize for. hm.

laladypoet

day late, dollar short = me.

dandan83

I know this is a stretch, but it was said it was created to teach everyone a lesson, maybe the lesson wasn't that you're all mean bitches, but that you can't really take everyone at face value here? That's kinda what I've gotten from thie experience.