i am hearbroken!

bonnbonn4

my fi left me and is calling off are wedding!  i am so devestated i dont even know what to do with myself.  he say that he doesnt love me anymore and he is not sure if he ever has!  and now i am left to pick up the peices!

katiewhompus

I want to be nice...I really do...but really?

allisong23

I am so sorry!

It might not be what you want to hear now, but it is better that it happened now than if it happened after the wedding. Sorry that you are going through it at all though.

allisong23

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[QUOTE]I want to be nice...I really do...but really?
Posted by katiewhompus[/QUOTE]

Eh, why not?

526SadieSadie

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[QUOTE]I want to be nice...I really do...but really?
Posted by katiewhompus[/QUOTE]

yeah, I'm rowing that boat with you Katie.
OP, if this is for real, I'm sorry but honestly be glad that it happened now and not after you've been married and you have to get divorced.  You may have just dodged a bullet there.

kd.joseph

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: i am hearbroken! : Eh, why not?
Posted by allisong23[/QUOTE]

She's a troll!

katiewhompus

This was the poster who was insisting that her fi get a tan because he was clammy and pasty among a variety of other things. I can't believe she's a real person and not an AE.

allisong23

Oh wait, I just read your post about your ring. It is a good thing you aren't getting married. You both have a lot of growing up to do.

anna.oskar

i am SO sorry!

Do you have family and friends you can talk this out with?  I hate to say it, but at least it happened now and not 2 years from now right before your wedding.   Horrible, either way, but far less to manage than if you had heavily cemented plans.

What happened?

allisong23

What pieces do you have to pick up? Did he leave broken dishes in his wake?

Nebb

Im not surprised.

deepcovejackie

Hai, weren't you the one that was beyone pissed that her parents wouldn't up the budget for your spayshul day?  Andplusalso, the one that was complaining about a small ring?

If I'm wrong, I'm sorry to hear of your breakup.  If I'm right, then off you go.

Edited for language.

MarriedInAFever

Happy negative three months, Jackie!

(I love when the tickets hit exact months)

bonnbonn4

um... okay hello!?  i just got dumped i dont deserve to be treated so bitchy

MarriedInAFever

Tell us your story, Bonn. What led to the breakup?

deepcovejackie

Thanks MIAF, time's flying!  Didn't notice that on my ticker until you mentioned it.

OP--you're being ignored.

katiewhompus

Heels? Is that you?

Starmusica

yea I call troll... glad we are all in agreement.

anna.oskar

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[QUOTE]um... okay hello!?  i just got dumped i dont deserve to be treated so bitchy
Posted by bonnbonn4[/QUOTE]


Nice.  I try to be considerate and nice and get called bitchy.  That'll teach me to talk to strangers.

bonnbonn4

he just woke up today and iguess decided that he cant go through with the wedding and made me give him his ring back and everything.  and that he was thinking about this for a while but thought it was just cold feet.  so maybe i am a little high mantenance but i do love him!  and this SUCKS

GreenPepperBurger

Yay.

bonnbonn4

i wasnt talking about you anna osker just other people are mean to me.

pirategal03

GreenPepper, what is going on in your sig pic?

vegasgroom

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[QUOTE]my fi left me and is calling off are wedding!  i am so devestated i dont even know what to do with myself.  he say that he doesnt love me anymore and he is not sure if he ever has!  and now i am left to pick up the peices!
Posted by bonnbonn4[/QUOTE]

Do you have to give both rings back or just the daily-use one?

GreenPepperBurger

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[QUOTE]GreenPepper, what is going on in your sig pic?
Posted by pirategal03[/QUOTE]

It's our picture from senior prom. BF clearly did not want to go.

MarriedInAFever

Well, Bonn, now's not the time to sulk. Now's the time to go on the prowl. I found the perfect resource for you... http://sugardaddie.com/

bonnbonn4

what?  uh i only had one ring

PetraStonegirl

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[QUOTE]he just woke up today and iguess decided that he cant go through with the wedding and made me give him his ring back and everything.  and that he was thinking about this for a while but thought it was just cold feet.  so maybe i am a little high mantenance but i do love him!  and this SUCKS
Posted by bonnbonn4[/QUOTE]

<div>I'm sorry it sucks. Now, have a cry out, pull up your big girl pants, and grow up. I don't think you're a troll, but I do think that you are a shallow, spoiled, entitled little girl who needs to learn what the really real world thinks of people who act the way you've been acting on these discussion boards.</div><div>
</div><div>Good luck.</div>

ricksang

Well, don't sit around being sad. Time to go out and find a new one! There has got to be someone tanner out there.

anna.oskar

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[QUOTE]i wasnt talking about you anna osker just other people are mean to me.
Posted by bonnbonn4[/QUOTE]

Alright.  Well, what do you need from us? 

Tell me about the relationship. 
Were there warning signs that you ignored at the time as meaningless?
 How long were you together dating/engaged. 
How far were you in wedding planning?
Do you like cake? Favorites? (actually a legit question since you can tell a lot about people based on their cake preferences)   ;)

pirategal03

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: i am hearbroken! : It's our picture from senior prom. BF clearly did not want to go.
Posted by GreenPepperBurger[/QUOTE]

Hmm. OK.