AYG

Stackeye210

Andplusalso, there are ways to respectfully do things. 

Maybe coming back and saying, "hey guys, been a long couple months but I've been doing x, y and z and things are going really well lately I just needed a little break".  Instead of "HI" and hoping people figure out who you are.  It's the second time she returned like that.  Same exact fashion. 

chelseamb11

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-32?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:c6f1135c-8516-4a51-a6fb-6c25d38dd4fbPost:63dabf98-0fc6-4d90-ba04-a8b1509ac74f">Re: AYG</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG : ...she didn't go visit him today on her vacation day.
Posted by Steph+J[/QUOTE]

Oh FFS I was asked to wait until tonight.  And using my argument against me? Come on.  Theres a big difference between me asking Blue if she was having an appointment today and you purposefully trying to be an ass/judge me about if I've visited my grandfather enough.

chelseamb11

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-32?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:c6f1135c-8516-4a51-a6fb-6c25d38dd4fbPost:8f7e4b54-46b0-43c8-a14c-021268136058">Re: AYG</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG : You must have really great legs with all that backpedaling you do.
Posted by EaglesBride2012[/QUOTE]

How the eff am I backpedaling?  Sorry that I didn't feel the need to explain the entire situation and how it was panning out until everyone started jumping down my throat for not visiting him today and still taking my day off.

cheeseandrice

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-32?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:c6f1135c-8516-4a51-a6fb-6c25d38dd4fbPost:16c7199b-a195-4026-8d11-2c455ea0c686">Re: AYG</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG : Oh FFS I was asked to wait until tonight.  And using my argument against me? Come on.  Theres a big difference between me asking Blue if she was having an appointment today and you purposefully trying to be an ass/judge me about if I've visited my grandfather enough.
Posted by chelseamb11[/QUOTE]
<div>
</div><div>There is? I thought anything you put out on the internet was fair game to bring up repeatedly. Can you please explain the rules to me again? I must not be able to understand through your incoherence. </div><div>
</div><div>Honestly, I don't care what you do with your vacation days. But someone asked why you shouldn't take today off to spend with him. I was just pointing out that you didn't take today off to spend with him.</div><div>
</div><div>And, seriously guys. Of course teachers should get vacation days. wtf. That's stupid to say otherwise.</div>

acaponi87

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-32?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:c6f1135c-8516-4a51-a6fb-6c25d38dd4fbPost:193d846f-5ad0-47a8-b7b4-275d16cd781b">Re: AYG</a>:
[QUOTE]Teachers get vacation days? Isn't that called "summer"?
Posted by allisong23[/QUOTE]

Last year I got 2 personal days during the school year.  I only used 1 and that was when my sister graduated from college since the ceremony was on a Friday. When my grandpa died I was able to use 3 sick days as bereavement which was nice.

LP11509

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-32?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:c6f1135c-8516-4a51-a6fb-6c25d38dd4fbPost:1e4e3d8e-8d3a-4f79-834a-a9170c9a0513">Re: AYG</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG : As a teacher, yes, I had a certain number of paid days off each year to account for sick , vacation, whatever.  A dude at my school hadn't taken one day off in 29 years.  His 30th year of 'teaching' consisted of him collecting a paycheck and never setting foot in the school.  He used every single PTO in his final year.
Posted by jcbsjr[/QUOTE]

<div>Nice for him!  Learn something everyday, for some reason I thought most teachers only got sick time during the school year, not vacation time too. </div>

LP11509

Steph, I absolutely think teachers SHOULD get vacation time.  I just didn't think that most DID for some reason.  Stupid assumption on my part. 

RupertPenny

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-32?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:c6f1135c-8516-4a51-a6fb-6c25d38dd4fbPost:b969a78b-5273-474e-b943-cda7f8632f95">Re: AYG</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG : How the eff am I backpedaling? <strong> Sorry that I didn't feel the need to explain the entire situation and how it was panning out </strong>until everyone started jumping down my throat for not visiting him today and still taking my day off.
Posted by chelseamb11[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>Good lord you are dense. 

</div><div>The bolded is exactly why people shouldn't be nosy. </div>

chelseamb11

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-32?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:c6f1135c-8516-4a51-a6fb-6c25d38dd4fbPost:22330762-92f7-40dd-bda5-e46135b849b7">Re: AYG</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG : I just don't understand why you wouldn't save the frigging vacation day to use when he passes away in the very near future.  But you're almost done with the school year anyway, so why would you do that? 
Posted by EaglesBride2012[/QUOTE]

He's thankfully doing a lot better though now that he's gotten fluids/medicines switched around (that were causing him to be so weak).  Both he and the doctors are confident he still has some time left, so I felt okay to take the day off.  Not to mention, like I said before, I didn't realize until yesterday after school that I was entitled to a day off for his funeral whether I have it saved up or not.  So it didn't matter if I took the day off today.

chelseamb11

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-32?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:c6f1135c-8516-4a51-a6fb-6c25d38dd4fbPost:00a5d263-b225-4306-b4de-4f5c763970a9">Re: AYG</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG : Good lord you are dense.  <strong>The bolded is exactly why people shouldn't be nosy. </strong>
Posted by RupertPenny[/QUOTE]

Yep. Lesson learned.  When in dobut, read past threads, don't bring it up in a new one.  Don't bring anything questionable up unless that person has brought it up first even if I'm doing it out of care and not nosyness.. Like I said before, my apologies to Blue if asking about her potential appointment later today was hurtful to her.

Nebb

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-32?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:c6f1135c-8516-4a51-a6fb-6c25d38dd4fbPost:8f7e4b54-46b0-43c8-a14c-021268136058">Re: AYG</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG : You must have really great legs with all that backpedaling you do.
Posted by EaglesBride2012[/QUOTE]
lol zing!

cheeseandrice

GUYS. E and SB are hanging out in an AYG. We have to be able to come up with something else to talk about. I'm sick of talking about Chels and Ciara.

Also, I'm crabby and everyone at work is incredibly stupid today, so I'm totally in the mood to fight. fair warning.

Rosie109

I am just glad AATB has calmed down a bit and isn't going off of the deep end about Ciara any more. Although it was fun to read.

AllAboutTheBenjamin

Rosie when have you ever known me to calm down?

chelseamb11

If Soon2bD is a real person, I flame the shiiit out of her for moving her wedding date without getting the go ahead from her FI first.  Granted she is 16, so there's that too...

AllAboutTheBenjamin

...Soon2B is 16?  Fuckinglife.

Rosie109

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-32?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:c6f1135c-8516-4a51-a6fb-6c25d38dd4fbPost:ea6c4f1f-1359-4569-a53b-93b4b178b695">Re: AYG</a>:
[QUOTE]Rosie when have you ever known me to calm down?
Posted by AllAboutTheBenjamin[/QUOTE]

NEVER its just so damn much fun to watch

AbbeyS2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-32?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:c6f1135c-8516-4a51-a6fb-6c25d38dd4fbPost:1e4e3d8e-8d3a-4f79-834a-a9170c9a0513">Re: AYG</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG : As a teacher, yes, I had a certain number of paid days off each year to account for sick , vacation, whatever.  A dude at my school hadn't taken one day off in 29 years.  His 30th year of 'teaching' consisted of him collecting a paycheck and never setting foot in the school.  He used every single PTO in his final year.
Posted by jcbsjr[/QUOTE]

That was one smart teacher.

calixtine

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-32?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:c6f1135c-8516-4a51-a6fb-6c25d38dd4fbPost:facf62f9-3061-4c48-8764-6f6c99e749e0">Re: AYG</a>:
[QUOTE]If Soon2bD is a real person, I flame the shiiit out of her for moving her wedding date without getting the go ahead from her FI first.  Granted she is 16, so there's that too...
Posted by chelseamb11[/QUOTE]

Really, 16?  Or is that an exaggeration?  If that is not an exaggeration then I'm not sure if that makes her attitude more or less annoying.

chelseamb11

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-32?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:c6f1135c-8516-4a51-a6fb-6c25d38dd4fbPost:244abe18-4a55-4153-a6bc-4933d25786f9">Re: AYG</a>:
[QUOTE]...Soon2B is 16?  Fuckinglife.
Posted by AllAboutTheBenjamin[/QUOTE]

Pretty sure.  People were referencing it.  I never saw her say it, but I also don't read everything she writes because it's littered with text speak.

Wasn't she the one that said she had a learning disability and that's why she has a hard time typing?

AllAboutTheBenjamin

Seriously though that bruno chick in the Diddy thread is a fruggin idiot.  I don't think she would know what bias was if she was smacked in her shiiit with it.

calixtine

Ok, I have a G of sorts to A.  Is clinking glasses to get the bride and groom to make out really a thing?  I just read a post on E where the B and G were asking people to donate to a charity and ring a bell instead of clinking glasses and the B and G would kiss for each donation.  I find this....disturbing either way.  I'm not expected to perfom a make out session with H every time a guest demands it am I?  That reaches a little into p0rn territory in my opinion.

chelseamb11

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-32?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:c6f1135c-8516-4a51-a6fb-6c25d38dd4fbPost:57f8cb2a-b595-4efc-baa7-db02f29da193">Re: AYG</a>:
[QUOTE]Seriously though that bruno chick in the Diddy thread is a fruggin idiot.  I don't think she would know what bias was if she was smacked in her shiiit with it.
Posted by AllAboutTheBenjamin[/QUOTE]

Whoa I thought that thread had died so I didn't go back into it after page 2 ish.  Bruno sounds like a winner.

AllAboutTheBenjamin

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-32?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:c6f1135c-8516-4a51-a6fb-6c25d38dd4fbPost:166b6e69-0a4d-4f70-8862-0a64917b897d">Re: AYG</a>:
[QUOTE]Ok, I have a G of sorts to A.  Is clinking glasses to get the bride and groom to make out really a thing?  I just read a post on E where the B and G were asking people to donate to a charity and ring a bell instead of clinking glasses and the B and G would kiss for each donation.  I find this....disturbing either way.  I'm not expected to perfom a make out session with H every time a guest demands it am I?  That reaches a little into p0rn territory in my opinion.
Posted by calixtine[/QUOTE]


You've never been to a wedding where that's happened?  Yeah it's a thing!  It's pretty dumb, but it's fun sometimes.  We didn't have many glasses at our reception - yay plastic cups, lol - that donate to a charity thing is pretty stupid though.  FFS.

Smash Adams

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-32?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:c6f1135c-8516-4a51-a6fb-6c25d38dd4fbPost:166b6e69-0a4d-4f70-8862-0a64917b897d">Re: AYG</a>:
[QUOTE]Ok, I have a G of sorts to A.  Is clinking glasses to get the bride and groom to make out really a thing?  I just read a post on E where the B and G were asking people to donate to a charity and ring a bell instead of clinking glasses and the B and G would kiss for each donation.  I find this....disturbing either way.  I'm not expected to perfom a make out session with H every time a guest demands it am I?  That reaches a little into p0rn territory in my opinion.
Posted by calixtine[/QUOTE]
Doing it wrong

Nebb

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-32?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:c6f1135c-8516-4a51-a6fb-6c25d38dd4fbPost:166b6e69-0a4d-4f70-8862-0a64917b897d">Re: AYG</a>:
[QUOTE]Ok, I have a G of sorts to A.  Is clinking glasses to get the bride and groom to make out really a thing?  I just read a post on E where the B and G were asking people to donate to a charity and ring a bell instead of clinking glasses and the B and G would kiss for each donation.  I find this....disturbing either way.  I'm not expected to perfom a make out session with H every time a guest demands it am I?  That reaches a little into p0rn territory in my opinion.
Posted by calixtine[/QUOTE]
a kiss is hardly a makeout session. Youre going to strain yourself.

kd.joseph

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-32?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:c6f1135c-8516-4a51-a6fb-6c25d38dd4fbPost:166b6e69-0a4d-4f70-8862-0a64917b897d">Re: AYG</a>:
[QUOTE]Ok, I have a G of sorts to A. <strong> Is clinking glasses to get the bride and groom to make out really a thing?</strong>  I just read a post on E where the B and G were asking people to donate to a charity and ring a bell instead of clinking glasses and the B and G would kiss for each donation.  I find this....disturbing either way.  I'm not expected to perfom a make out session with H every time a guest demands it am I?  That reaches a little into p0rn territory in my opinion.
Posted by calixtine[/QUOTE]

Yes, it's a tradition. Where it stems from I have no idea. I only heard of it recently.

Not my thing either, I can imagine some idiot over using this one.

LP11509

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-32?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:c6f1135c-8516-4a51-a6fb-6c25d38dd4fbPost:166b6e69-0a4d-4f70-8862-0a64917b897d">Re: AYG</a>:
[QUOTE]Ok, I have a G of sorts to A.  Is clinking glasses to get the bride and groom to make out really a thing?  I just read a post on E where the B and G were asking people to donate to a charity and ring a bell instead of clinking glasses and the B and G would kiss for each donation.  I find this....disturbing either way.  I'm not expected to perfom a make out session with H every time a guest demands it am I?  That reaches a little into p0rn territory in my opinion.
Posted by calixtine[/QUOTE]

<div>You don't full on make out.  H and I just did a quick kiss each time.  I promise it is nowhere near porn territory. </div>

chelseamb11

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-32?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:c6f1135c-8516-4a51-a6fb-6c25d38dd4fbPost:166b6e69-0a4d-4f70-8862-0a64917b897d">Re: AYG</a>:
[QUOTE]Ok, I have a G of sorts to A.  Is clinking glasses to get the bride and groom to make out really a thing?  I just read a post on E where the B and G were asking people to donate to a charity and ring a bell instead of clinking glasses and the B and G would kiss for each donation.  I find this....disturbing either way.  I'm not expected to perfom a make out session with H every time a guest demands it am I?  That reaches a little into p0rn territory in my opinion.
Posted by calixtine[/QUOTE]

I'm guessing it's a regional thing?  I'm not sure though
It's very common here.  I've never been to a wedding where people don't clink.  Some people have fun with it though and do a "copycat" thing (we'll do what you do), others will require you to answer a trivia question about the B&G before they'll kiss.  I'd hardly call it porn however.  It's not usually a makeout session.  Often it's just a sweet peck.  Depends on the B&G though I guess.

Smash Adams

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-32?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:c6f1135c-8516-4a51-a6fb-6c25d38dd4fbPost:78cf9471-0412-4f9f-bd06-a4a160579cae">Re: AYG</a>:
[QUOTE]I am trying to come up with another flame, but I don't play over here so I don't really have one.  <strong>In FFF I'm a biiitch if I flame people for being too cheerful.</strong> 
Posted by EaglesBride2012[/QUOTE]
Not so in AYG