S/O of...well, a lot of things. Knot Confessions.

LessThanZero

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ofwell-lot-of-things-knot-confessions?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:e656cc3d-47fe-4e7f-9319-03af823fa24cPost:ddde2476-a8b3-4bb4-9adc-53f0ca30a0a4">Re: S/O of...well, a lot of things. Knot Confessions.</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: S/O of...well, a lot of things. Knot Confessions. : Then why make the "drama" your sig?
Posted by MeaghanandMichael[/QUOTE]

I think it was because someone commented on how neutral she is. And Switzerland remains neutral in World affairs. So it was just kind of funny showing Any hugging Switzerland. She wasn't part of any drama, unless I'm missing something. I think Birdie made it for her.

betrothed123

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: S/O of...well, a lot of things. Knot Confessions. : I think it was because someone commented on how neautral she is. And Switzerland remains neutral in World affairs. So it was just kind of funny showing Any hugging Switzerland. She wasn't part of any drama, unless I'm missing something. I think Birdie made it for her.
Posted by LessThanZero[/QUOTE]
I think what Meg is getting at is that the Switzerland thing is a constant reminder that there is a divide, which just perpetuates the whole board war thing.  So when Any added it to her sig she perpetuated a drama she didn't even understand because she wans't involved with it to begin with.

Please correct me if I'm wrong, Meg.

LessThanZero

I also don't have an AE because I couldn't keep up with one nor do I have any desire to do so. No MUD/crushes/secret hate for anyone here either.

beatlesgirl25

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ofwell-lot-of-things-knot-confessions?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:e656cc3d-47fe-4e7f-9319-03af823fa24cPost:9eed210c-a62a-4720-ab69-bd1b7bc1680b">Re: S/O of...well, a lot of things. Knot Confessions.</a>:
[QUOTE]My only TK confession is that when I first started lurking on the int'l boards I thought that people reacted to typical posts (my BMs aren't doing enough/I refuse to have any kids at my reception and want to write it on the invite/my parents won't pay/I can't afford cash bar/etc) much too strongly and typically I found them to be mean (and this made me lurk for a long time).   Now, having been here over a year, I can understand why regs react they do. I find that I have to actually try to sound nice and explain why they can't do it/have to do it/etc...rather than just write: get over yourself. I will also confess that even though I have been here a year I STILL don't care if someone calls it a wedding when it should be a vow renewal. I kinda understand why they want their 'moment' and I don't care, even if I don't know that they were already married, it wouldn't bother me.  Edited for a spelling error that made my point very difficult to understand...sigh.
Posted by number55[/QUOTE]

I was reading this with a smile on my face, because I was here back when you first started posting on SB, and I remember you being an exception to the "why is everyone here so meeeeaan?!" posters, because you stood your ground but respectfully argued with us about why it's unnecessary to be so harsh about things. I think it's not something easily explained or understood through anything but personal experiernce. So I just think it's neat how you've come around and can see and relate to the other POV now, and write about it here. :)

MeaghanandMichael

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ofwell-lot-of-things-knot-confessions?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:e656cc3d-47fe-4e7f-9319-03af823fa24cPost:76eb428e-72e1-4588-ad58-91a48a456396">Re: S/O of...well, a lot of things. Knot Confessions.</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: S/O of...well, a lot of things. Knot Confessions. : I think it was because someone commented on how neutral she is. And Switzerland remains neutral in World affairs. So it was just kind of funny showing Any hugging Switzerland. <strong>She wasn't part of any drama</strong>, unless I'm missing something. I think Birdie made it for her.
Posted by LessThanZero[/QUOTE]


...and this is my point. I feel like I am not making sense at all here though, so don't mind me.

Blueyed228

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ofwell-lot-of-things-knot-confessions?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:e656cc3d-47fe-4e7f-9319-03af823fa24cPost:f03f27e3-054b-4068-812c-17b550187620">Re: S/O of...well, a lot of things. Knot Confessions.</a>:
[QUOTE]Ok, this is not nearly as exciting as I thought it might be. 
Posted by J&K10910[/QUOTE]

Maybe people are saving the good stuff for AYG tomorrow?  I just cant imagine anyone on this board (regs) being AE's./Trolls, or making up MUD.

number55

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ofwell-lot-of-things-knot-confessions?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:e656cc3d-47fe-4e7f-9319-03af823fa24cPost:8c24e078-2ced-4a6a-b486-d12f7fec6bf4">Re: S/O of...well, a lot of things. Knot Confessions.</a>:
[QUOTE]Number, I don't care what they call it either so long as they are honest with their guests. I wouldn't like being lied to. I also don't really care about having a party back home after a DW. My uncle is doing this and I can't wait, it's going to be a kick-ass AHR and everyone is excited. Multiple people have even offered to host it.
Posted by Seshat411[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>Yeah, I mean, I would rather be told the truth too but when so many people have strong opinions on the matter I can see why people keep it to themselves. I would like to think that most of my friends would be honest though. We attended a 2nd wedding for a friend of DHs last May, they had been married overseas in Sri Lanka a year prior but hadn't had the Catholic church wedding (he's Catholic, she Buddist) so they had a full on wedding here in Canada. I didn't care that they had been husband and wife for a year or that it was technically their 2nd wedding. I also laughed when we got their Christmas card today and there was a thank-you card slipped in to it. I wonder if we got it (8 months after the wedding) because they had received ours earlier this month!).  </div><div>
</div><div>As for AHR, I don't care about them per se. We do know someone however who is having an AHR after a DW and chose a hall that has a 150 person minimum. Supposedly they wanted a DW because they have such small families...well now they are inviting friends of siblings and friends of friends to meet the 150 minimum and I give that a side eye. I know they want a rocking party, I just think it is weird to invite people you only know in passing to your wedding (unless it is because your parents want them there, which is not the case here, they just need to fill seats).

</div>

ricksang

Bhahaha CS, you'd have to be on hell of a troll to surprise people over there.

You have

1. I pee in my husband's hands
2. I use a family cloth
3. Christmas is only for Christians

And that isn't even the craziest of the crazy.

MeaghanandMichael

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ofwell-lot-of-things-knot-confessions?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:e656cc3d-47fe-4e7f-9319-03af823fa24cPost:00def18c-fd2f-4753-98e5-50b531e91813">Re: S/O of...well, a lot of things. Knot Confessions.</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: S/O of...well, a lot of things. Knot Confessions. : I think what Meg is getting at is that the Switzerland thing is a constant reminder that there is a divide, which just perpetuates the whole board war thing.  So when Any added it to her sig she perpetuated a drama she didn't even understand because she wans't involved with it to begin with. Please correct me if I'm wrong, Meg.
Posted by betrothed123[/QUOTE]

ok, thank you for detangling my brain

LessThanZero

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ofwell-lot-of-things-knot-confessions?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:e656cc3d-47fe-4e7f-9319-03af823fa24cPost:00def18c-fd2f-4753-98e5-50b531e91813">Re: S/O of...well, a lot of things. Knot Confessions.</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: S/O of...well, a lot of things. Knot Confessions. : I think what Meg is getting at is that the Switzerland thing is a constant reminder that there is a divide, which just perpetuates the whole board war thing.  So when Any added it to her sig she perpetuated a drama she didn't even understand because she wans't involved with it to begin with. Please correct me if I'm wrong, Meg.
Posted by betrothed123[/QUOTE]

I guess so. That makes sense. I guess I just didn't read into it that way.

SarahPLiz

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ofwell-lot-of-things-knot-confessions?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:e656cc3d-47fe-4e7f-9319-03af823fa24cPost:5ce3b335-0ff0-4bd9-bd7a-95c126925aac">Re: S/O of...well, a lot of things. Knot Confessions.</a>:
[QUOTE]I confess that whenever I'm super bored, I thought about making an AE strictly for The Nest and The Bump just to stir some shiit but I don't think you need an AE to start anything over there. Most of them are crazy enough.
Posted by Champagne Supernova[/QUOTE]

<div>I confess that even though I have posted on my local TN and TB, I want to make a new SN for each of them so I can't be followed from one place to another. I see WAY too many people on all 3</div>

beatlesgirl25

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ofwell-lot-of-things-knot-confessions?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:e656cc3d-47fe-4e7f-9319-03af823fa24cPost:00def18c-fd2f-4753-98e5-50b531e91813">Re: S/O of...well, a lot of things. Knot Confessions.</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: S/O of...well, a lot of things. Knot Confessions. : I think what Meg is getting at is that the Switzerland thing is a constant reminder that there is a divide, which just perpetuates the whole board war thing.  So when Any added it to her sig she perpetuated a drama she didn't even understand because she wans't involved with it to begin with. Please correct me if I'm wrong, Meg.
Posted by betrothed123[/QUOTE]

Yes, and "Switzerland" has been used specifially as terminology in the boardwar discussions in the past. I've used it myself. I think that, in general most people are over it, but it comes back sometimes.

LessThanZero

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ofwell-lot-of-things-knot-confessions?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:e656cc3d-47fe-4e7f-9319-03af823fa24cPost:a3bbdcec-e044-4ef8-a2b3-f90b72f24164">Re: S/O of...well, a lot of things. Knot Confessions.</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: S/O of...well, a lot of things. Knot Confessions. : ...and this is my point. I feel like I am not making sense at all here though, so don't mind me.
Posted by MeaghanandMichael[/QUOTE]

Sorry, I should clarify - I mean, it wasn't as if when that sig came about she was a part of anything dramatic in that thread. I'm pretty sure by that point FFF had leveled out into just being fun banter between everyone.

I don't know. I think I'm just going to STFU now.   : )

Blueyed228

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ofwell-lot-of-things-knot-confessions?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:e656cc3d-47fe-4e7f-9319-03af823fa24cPost:00def18c-fd2f-4753-98e5-50b531e91813">Re: S/O of...well, a lot of things. Knot Confessions.</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: S/O of...well, a lot of things. Knot Confessions. : I think what Meg is getting at is that the Switzerland thing is a constant reminder that there is a divide, which just perpetuates the whole board war thing.  So when Any added it to her sig she perpetuated a drama she didn't even understand because she wans't involved with it to begin with. Please correct me if I'm wrong, Meg.
Posted by betrothed123[/QUOTE]

That makes sense.  I just dont think ANY thought it would cause drama.  I dont think any of the "newer" posters realize how salty people still are over the split or realize how bad it got.  Im sure if she sees that it bothers people, she will change it. 

MeaghanandMichael

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ofwell-lot-of-things-knot-confessions?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:e656cc3d-47fe-4e7f-9319-03af823fa24cPost:d9054e70-c003-49f5-9512-e321b8f951f0">Re: S/O of...well, a lot of things. Knot Confessions.</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: S/O of...well, a lot of things. Knot Confessions. : I guess so. That makes sense. I guess I just didn't read into it that way.
Posted by LessThanZero[/QUOTE]

haha yeah, I'll take over drawn analysis of a mundane topic for 800 Alex

LessThanZero

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ofwell-lot-of-things-knot-confessions?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:e656cc3d-47fe-4e7f-9319-03af823fa24cPost:c1df2ea0-c4ec-41a4-99d9-d25bcbf3788c">Re: S/O of...well, a lot of things. Knot Confessions.</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: S/O of...well, a lot of things. Knot Confessions. : haha yeah, I'll take over drawn analysis of a mundane topic for 800 Alex
Posted by MeaghanandMichael[/QUOTE]

Ha. It's the Daily Double!

Nah, I wasn't around for any of that boardward stuff so for me it's a completely different perspective I guess. It makes sense from your point of view to wondr about it. I just didn't even think of it that way.

J&K10910

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: S/O of...well, a lot of things. Knot Confessions. : Maybe people are saving the good stuff for AYG tomorrow?  I<strong> just cant imagine anyone on this board (regs) being AE's./Trolls, or making up MUD.</strong>
Posted by Blueyed228[/QUOTE]

Really?  Why not?  I've had AEs before.  Not here, but in the past. 

number55

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ofwell-lot-of-things-knot-confessions?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:e656cc3d-47fe-4e7f-9319-03af823fa24cPost:2e023f51-352e-40d2-b8a6-36a81db3b49d">Re: S/O of...well, a lot of things. Knot Confessions.</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: S/O of...well, a lot of things. Knot Confessions. : I was reading this with a smile on my face, because I was here back when you first started posting on SB, and I remember you being an exception to the "why is everyone here so meeeeaan?!" posters, because you stood your ground but respectfully argued with us about why it's unnecessary to be so harsh about things. I think it's not something easily explained or understood through anything but personal experiernce. So I just think it's neat how you've come around and can see and relate to the other POV now, and write about it here. :)
Posted by beatlesgirl25[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>Yeah, and I would still stand my ground and say that in some cases the reactions seemed a little fierce but honestly, since then, I think people have begun replying differently to initial posts...now if the OP still clings to whatever they first came in with and can't see the other side, then I can see how it can get ugly...</div><div>
</div><div>Even without that though, I think what I really learned is that part of why regs react so strongly is because if you lurk a bit you MUST know that what you are posting on may not be reacted to well. Last week on E I had to be really careful writing a response to some chick who wanted to 'dismiss' her BM...really? How can you not read every other post on WP and not realize that you are NOT going to get the answer you want. I think that after a year what I really learned is that those OPs never learned to lurk and they pay the price and run away crying about how mean TK is. 

</div>

raynes

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ofwell-lot-of-things-knot-confessions?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:e656cc3d-47fe-4e7f-9319-03af823fa24cPost:2f29fa94-3d1c-4700-91d6-394ce1429085">Re: S/O of...well, a lot of things. Knot Confessions.</a>:
[QUOTE]It's meant to be cryptic b/c if I admit it, then I won't be able to do it anymore! Sarah- yes follow me but I fart when I walk, okay?
Posted by ricksang[/QUOTE]

Aw, come one, we won't tattle on you!

I don't have any confessions.  I barely post enough as me.

ricksang

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: S/O of...well, a lot of things. Knot Confessions. : Wait, they don't have "I love watching my husband while he poops yet"? Disclaimer: NO, I don't watch my husband while he poops. Clear?
Posted by Champagne Supernova[/QUOTE]

Actually one poster said she wanted to sit in her H's lap and pee between his legs while he poops. I guess to each their own? Maybe she was kidding? It was in the same pee confession thread.

MeaghanandMichael

Can Blamecanada or Brian Fellows come out to play?

::troll signal::

Blueyed228

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ofwell-lot-of-things-knot-confessions?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:e656cc3d-47fe-4e7f-9319-03af823fa24cPost:0117c880-2f92-4672-992f-0fac9b4b47d5">Re: S/O of...well, a lot of things. Knot Confessions.</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: S/O of...well, a lot of things. Knot Confessions. : Really?  Why not?  I've had AEs before.  Not here, but in the past. 
Posted by J&K10910[/QUOTE]

Just because we seem to get enough real crazies and newbie drama on here. 

Anysunrise

My sig is totally a joke. I said I loved everyone, Fish called me Switzerland, and since we were laughing at this one chick for using her "Photoshop skills for evil", I laughed and was like "Quick, someone use their powers for evil and PS my head onto Switzerland!" and Birdie provided. That's so all that is. It wasn't really a boardwar thing, but if it bothers anyone, I can change it back. I don't really care.

MeaghanandMichael

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ofwell-lot-of-things-knot-confessions?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:e656cc3d-47fe-4e7f-9319-03af823fa24cPost:3ce31343-48f4-4d27-a23d-37078f866e9c">Re: S/O of...well, a lot of things. Knot Confessions.</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: S/O of...well, a lot of things. Knot Confessions. : Just because we seem to get enough real crazies and newbie drama on here. 
Posted by Blueyed228[/QUOTE]

and how exactly do you not think this could be me? or any of us?

number55

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ofwell-lot-of-things-knot-confessions?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:e656cc3d-47fe-4e7f-9319-03af823fa24cPost:bf19ee60-3c8f-44cb-86cc-b182ee627a82">Re: S/O of...well, a lot of things. Knot Confessions.</a>:
[QUOTE]Can Blamecanada or Brian Fellows come out to play? ::troll signal::
Posted by MeaghanandMichael[/QUOTE]

<div>NO! Blame Canada just pissed me off. </div>

Blueyed228

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ofwell-lot-of-things-knot-confessions?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:e656cc3d-47fe-4e7f-9319-03af823fa24cPost:68256e0b-fed1-4589-ac53-1ce79e6d55b1">Re: S/O of...well, a lot of things. Knot Confessions.</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: S/O of...well, a lot of things. Knot Confessions. : and how exactly do you not think this could be me? or any of us?
Posted by MeaghanandMichael[/QUOTE]

Well I hope no one on here is TamponMarie.

But BlameCanada and DidALittleJig are possiblities.  Now you are ALL suspect.......

[Deleted User]

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ofwell-lot-of-things-knot-confessions?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:e656cc3d-47fe-4e7f-9319-03af823fa24cPost:e02fbfba-9d43-423f-bfa3-4e4c6d7e6c90">Re: S/O of...well, a lot of things. Knot Confessions.</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: S/O of...well, a lot of things. Knot Confessions. : Actually one poster said she wanted to sit in her H's lap and pee between his legs while he poops. I guess to each their own? Maybe she was kidding? It was in the same pee confession thread.
Posted by ricksang[/QUOTE]

I asked H if I could do that while he was in the bathroom and he said, "Um, hell no," then I heard him lock the door.

OK, I admit, when I read something totally insane like that on TK, I usually go and say it to H just for the reaction. It's a lot of fun, and he probably thinks I'm crazy.

ricksang

LOL Ses, I do the same. I will be like "Say I asked you...." and his response is usually "Um, no"

MVJP10

I have no MUD or anything like that, sadly my real drama is enough. lol

I'll jump on the Celles train, she says a lot of things I agree with. Pretty much most people here are cool. I like SB because of the lack of sugarcoating things. As far as dislikes don't have many but I don't get the hype around kiki she kind of just strikes me as a tool based on her posts but everyone's gotta do their own thing.

J&K10910

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ofwell-lot-of-things-knot-confessions?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:e656cc3d-47fe-4e7f-9319-03af823fa24cPost:adc423a5-e47b-4945-a9fa-4bb90a1bd245">Re: S/O of...well, a lot of things. Knot Confessions.</a>:
[QUOTE]I have no MUD or anything like that, sadly my real drama is enough. lol I'll jump on the Celles train, she says a lot of things I agree with. Pretty much most people here are cool. I like SB because of the lack of sugarcoating things. <strong>As far as dislikes don't have many but I don't get the hype around kiki she kind of just strikes me as a tool based on her posts but everyone's gotta do their own thing.</strong>
Posted by MVJP10[/QUOTE]

If you're going to dislike someone, you should probably at least do it on a board they post on.  Just saying.