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That's me banging my head against the keyboard. And screaming. And being sad.

Read on for a lengthy vent/knottie vibe request/whatever.

As I posted a couple days ago, my poor little brother is in the hospital. He's 15 and a healthy kid. Early Monday morning, he complained that his left side was hurting. So my parents took him to immediate care and they did an x-ray and told him HIS LUNG PARTIALLY COLLAPSED. Spontaneously. He was checked into the hospital and put on oxygen. Then when that didn't work, he had a chest tube inserted. The tube has been in since Monday.

Since the tube has been inserted, he's had some bad days. He's been nauseated, not eating, etc. Yesterday he had an x-ray done and the doctor noted that the lung has not experienced ANY change. It is not reacting to the chest tube at all. The doc's recommendation? That the chest tube be removed today or tomorrow and he be sent home. Sometime (not sure when) after he is sent home, his lung will fully collapse. And he will know it, because it is unpleasant. Then he should go immediately to the hospital, where an emergency surgery will be performed.

He's a super star student and loves school, which just started. He'll miss at least one month of school. He can't do practically anything, just wait for the lung to collapse. Oh, and I'm getting married next Saturday. So. There's that.

I just extremely shitty. He's my baby brother and I hate that he feels so bad. And he really, really does. On a selfish note, I'm also preparing for the possibility of canceling or postponing the wedding. And it just all sucks.

I would appreciate any cheering up tips for my brother, prayers, knottie vibes, whatever.
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  • ummm holy shiit MIAF. I am SOSOSO sorry to hear this. What a horrible thing to have happen :( I am sending tons and vibes and prayers!
  • Oh no, MILF :(  I'm so sorry.  How insanely awful!  There's seriously nothing they can do but wait for the lung to collapse?  They have no idea why it just did that?  Gah!

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  • WOW, MIAF! I am sending you prayers, vibes, and good thoughts. I wish I could fix this for you. That' really sucks. 
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  • I'm so sorry MIAF!

    Thoughts and prayers are with you guys.
  • Aww, T & P for your brother.  How can a lung spontaneously collapse in an otherwise healthy person?  How does that happen?  We're sending Knottie vibes your way.
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  • It really is awful. Since his lung isn't inflating (for lack of a better word) from the chest tube, surgery is necessary. But surgery is only possible once it is fully collapsed.

    Absolutely no reason for the partial collapse. Apparently these things randomly happen among healthy people, especially tall and thin boys they say.
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  • :-( I am sending you vibes.

    Is there a way that the school can send him a tutor and his assignments so he can keep up with his schoolwork?

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  • Wow, that just sucks. I'm sorry for you, and your little brother. But I don't understand why they're just waiting for the lung to collapse. Why can't they do anything now? Waiting seems dangerous.

    I hope he gets/feels better soon!
  • Oh I'm really sorry that this is happening, it sounds scary.  : (

    I don't understand how they just send him home so he can wait for it to happen??

    I really hope this all works out for you.
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  • ((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))))

    I am praying for you and your brother's full recovery!!
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  • That's just a sucky situation all around.  I hope he feels better soon.  Can the doctors not collapse the lung themselves? 

    That would be so horrible to have to go home and wait for it to collapse, and then go to the hospital for surgery.  I would be a wreck sitting around thinking "will it happen now?  Or now?  How about now?  NOW??????"

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  • Thanks for all the thoughts, guys.

    It really doesn't make a lot of sense. But apparently that's the deal. Hopefully the lung will collapse soon...? I guess that would be the best option since he's already in the hospital.

    Zip, I'm going to pick up his school assignments today. Hopefully he'll feel like working on it.

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  • T and P coming your way...

    I have really bad asthma did they have him see a pulmonologist?  Some PFT (Pulmonary Function Tests) can get a better read on how well he is using his lungs and such - plus they can help excercise the lungs but that MIGHT help....just throwing some other ideas your way

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  • What a frustrating situation. I hope they've told him how to keep as comfortable as possible while he waits.
    Will be thinking good thoughts.
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  • Aw man, that blows majorly.  I'm really sorry to hear about this.  I'll keep your little bro in my thoughts.
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  • Awww. MIAF, I'm so sorry!  What a scary and sad thing to be going through.  Did you talk to your brother about the wedding?  Did he have any input on what you should do?

    Thoughts to you and your family.  Keep us updated on how he's doing. 
  • Well, since he likes school, hopefully it will keep him occupied if he feels up to it.

    Can they not, like, medically induce it to collapse so that they can do the surgery? Why does it have to be collapsed completely? I'm not a doctor, so I have no idea what the deal is.
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  • Oh no, poor kid. Sending good thoughts and I'm sorry that you are going through this.

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  • So sorry, MIAF. T&P&vibes comin atcha.  <3
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  • I'll ask about the forced collapse today. That seems reasonable. But I'm not a doctor either, so I don't know.

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    Steph, we're just taking it one day at a time and going forward with the original wedding plan for now. I don't want to put anymore pressure on him.
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  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_bvujsdnvkdsnlvkndskjbvkjcshnefkcnew?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:ea59ed0c-2fb0-48fc-853c-5416c486ec1dPost:40dadd98-e5e3-4546-9439-7bc9bd1c73ab">BVUJSDNVKDSNLVKNDSKJBVKJCSHNEFKCNEW!</a>:
    [QUOTE]That's me banging my head against the keyboard. And screaming. And being sad. Read on for a lengthy vent/knottie vibe request/whatever. As I posted a couple days ago, my poor little brother is in the hospital. He's 15 and a healthy kid. Early Monday morning, he complained that his left side was hurting. So my parents took him to immediate care and they did an x-ray and told him HIS LUNG PARTIALLY COLLAPSED. Spontaneously. He was checked into the hospital and put on oxygen. Then when that didn't work, he had a chest tube inserted. The tube has been in since Monday. Since the tube has been inserted, he's had some bad days. He's been nauseated, not eating, etc. Yesterday he had an x-ray done and the doctor noted that the lung has not experienced ANY change. It is not reacting to the chest tube at all. The doc's recommendation? That the chest tube be removed today or tomorrow and he be sent home. Sometime (not sure when) after he is sent home, his lung will fully collapse. And he will know it, because it is unpleasant. Then he should go immediately to the hospital, where an emergency surgery will be performed. He's a super star student and loves school, which just started. He'll miss at least one month of school. He can't do practically anything, just wait for the lung to collapse. Oh, and I'm getting married next Saturday. So. There's that. I just extremely shitty. He's my baby brother and I hate that he feels so bad. And he really, really does. On a selfish note, I'm also preparing for the possibility of canceling or postponing the wedding. And it just all sucks. I would appreciate any cheering up tips for my brother, prayers, knottie vibes, whatever.
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    Good grief! I missed the OP, but I hope he gets better soon!!  Vibes to baby bro!!!
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  • That's Charmin! And that's what I buy. I was hoping I wouldn't have to make another trip to the store.

     But seriously, I really hope everything works out for your family. I can't imagine how stressed you and your family are. There's something much more intimidating about the unknown. And even moreso when you know something is going to happen, you just don't know when.

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  • You all are so sweet. I really appreciate all the kind words. I just really needed to vent. I'm going to head to the hospital in a minute. I'll check out later. You ladies are always a refreshing release Kiss

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  • Aw, that's so terrible. And even worse that he just has to wait for it to happen. That would kill me. Poor little brother, I'll be thinking of him. 

    If you do end up have to postpone, you could be my guest to SIL's wedding aka watch mara see how shitfaced she can get for free.
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    [QUOTE]Aw, that's so terrible. And even worse that he just has to wait for it to happen. That would kill me. Poor little brother, I'll be thinking of him.  <strong>If you do end up have to postpone, you could be my guest to SIL's wedding aka watch mara see how shitfaced she can get for free.
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  • Wow, I'm so sorry you're (and your brother!) are going through this. I've said a prayer will say many more! By the way, you're a good sis :)

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  • Oh MILF I'm so sorry for your brother. I cant even imagine how scary that would be. Your brother is in my thoughts and prayers. Please keep us updated,ok?
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  • :( MIAF. I am so so sorry to hear this! all my thoughts and prayers are with you guys!

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  • MIAF, I'm so sorry about your brother! I can't imagine how horrible that must be!

    Thoughts, prayers, and hugs to you and your family!
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