A couple weeks ago, it looked as if I was going to have more people than I wanted at my wedding, so we had to call some people some people who somewhat rudely put plus-ones or plus-severals on their RSVPs to tell them they couldn't bring extra people. We wanted to keep it under 100 people for cost reasons. Well, now it turns out we are substantially below that number and so some people who aren't coming and so we are OK with having the plus-ones come to the wedding now. My plan is to have my mom and bridesmaids go back to those we denied and let them know - surprise! - you can come. Is this wrong of me? I am somewhat embarassed, but I now really want them there instead of not having a more people to enjoy my day. What do you think?