Sayings that annoy/ infuriate/ frustrate you

katiewhompus

What are some seemingly innocent sayings that get the best of your temper?

- When someone asks if my husband is an ex-Marine. No, once a Marine always a Marine, there is no "ex" about it.

- When people ask how many pets I have and when I say 3 go "OMG that's insane! How do you cope with so many?"

- The phrase "My parents did X and I turned out fine" being used during talks about parenting styles.

undyingmizery

When seeing me and my boys in a store or something "Wow you must be busy".. Or "Wow looks like you have been busy"

undyingmizery

We have 16 lines at work and not a day goes by without fail I hear this.. "Someone just called me from this number?" I have NO way of knowing who called who. It gets frustrating lol

AtoZtoB

"Just wait......" HATE that!

anna.oskar

When dispensing child advice: "How can you know? You don' t have kids."

Regarding preferences during pregnancy/labor: "You'll change your mind.  Modesty won't matter anymore."

undyingmizery

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[QUOTE]I was a 911 dispatcher in college and I would answer "911 ___ County. Recorded Line. What is your emergency?" and without fail I would get "Oh, is this 911?"  I just said that!   The people who needed to ask were always the ones calling 911 for non-emergencies, to boot. (Dunkin Donuts served them cold coffee, reporting an illegal chinchilla pet owned by a neighbor, can't find their car at the mall, etc.) I also hate "It is what it is." Such a meaningless phrase that accomplishes nothing. My biggest pet peeve: <strong>"Well if you don't like it, don't read/listen/look at it." </strong> As an excuse for people being rude and inappropriate in public. Grr... if you're putting it somewhere where everyone HAS to deal with it because its in everyone's face, that is not an excuse!
Posted by katelynbrian[/QUOTE]

Can.NOT.Stand.This

Steph0871

Not really a saying, but I can't stand it when people say "eggsactly" instead of exactly. There is no s.

also, "mise well"... no, "it's might as well."  

Same with "should of" or "could of"... no... "could've" stands for "could HAVE"

katiewhompus

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[QUOTE]When dispensing child advice: "How can you know? You don' t have kids." Regarding preferences during pregnancy/labor: "You'll change your mind.  Modesty won't matter anymore."
Posted by anna.oskar[/QUOTE]

Ditto both of these. Did my modesty go out the window with H when it needed to? Sure it did. But I still don't want an audience staring at my vag when Berry comes.

Now I'm curious about the illegal chinchilla...

K Byte

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[QUOTE]When dispensing child advice: "How can you know? You don' t have kids." <strong>Regarding preferences during pregnancy/labor: "You'll change your mind.  Modesty won't matter anymore."</strong>
Posted by anna.oskar[/QUOTE]
Ew yeah, that bothers me too. Not that I've ever been pregnant or given birth but real talk, I'm kind of uptight and high-maintenance in real life, and I highly doubt I'll become a different person once I'm in the delivery room. :p

whifflegirl

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[QUOTE]I was a 911 dispatcher in college and I would answer "911 ___ County. Recorded Line. What is your emergency?" and without fail I would get "Oh, is this 911?"  I just said that!   The people who needed to ask were always the ones calling 911 for non-emergencies, to boot. (Dunkin Donuts served them cold coffee, reporting an illegal chinchilla pet owned by a neighbor, can't find their car at the mall, etc.)<strong> I also hate "It is what it is." Such a meaningless phrase that accomplishes nothing.</strong> My biggest pet peeve: "Well if you don't like it, don't read/listen/look at it."  As an excuse for people being rude and inappropriate in public. Grr... if you're putting it somewhere where everyone HAS to deal with it because its in everyone's face, that is not an excuse!
Posted by katelynbrian[/QUOTE]

I can't stand this.  It's a way of saying that you know it's wrong, but you're refusing to do anything about it.

avsfan33

"No offense but..." Oh no, no offense taken you just purposely said something that would offend me BUT you said "no offense" first so it's all good.

K Byte

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[QUOTE]"No offense but..." Oh no, no offense taken you just purposely said something that would offend me BUT you said "no offense" first so it's all good.
Posted by avsfan33[/QUOTE]
Co-signed!

This reminds me of another Internet forums pet peeve, when people start a post with "Umm," and it just makes the rest of their post sound all snotty. Like "Umm, I shouldn't have to explain this to you, you're clearly an idiot." In fact, another forum I go to has gone so far as to make it a moddable offense to start a post that way! <a href="http://forums.televisionwithoutpity.com/index.php?showtopic=3150213" rel='nofollow'>http://forums.televisionwithoutpity.com/index.php?showtopic=3150213</a> (not that I agree with all their crazy rules and they do ban people at the drop of a hat for silly reasons, but that rule I definitely agree with.)

Knottie1457761448

-When people find out I work in psych and they say, "Oh I guess it takes one to know one," or "Aren't you scared?!" as if only a psychiatric patient could lose it.

-When people look at my license and then go, "Oh, sorry - you look like you're 16!" Thanks. Can I have my wine now?

TheCranberry

Anna, I hate that pregnancy one too. 

I don't like when people on here say "so there's that".  There's usually no reason to add it.  It just makes me think "okay, and?"

Kate C

 I can not stand when people make up words, and the words are used so often they make it to the Webster dictionary..... Problematic is the number one pet peeve word... irregardless is the other..... stop adding syllables to sound smart.

jasmineh7777

"You'll change your mind when you're older."
 Thanks, random person! I'm sure our brief interaction completely qualifies you to comment on my deeply personal decisions. Here's a thought, stop asking invasive questions and then avering you know more about me than I do. 

 I'm gonna pull a Celles here, but I hate when the baby question comes up and I get this look -- />   O.o

katiewhompus

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[QUOTE]Katiewhompus, I could seriously write a book about all the dumb crap that make people call 911.  Seriously, this dude got into a fight with his neighbor over lawn tools, so he decided to rat out the neighbor's illegal chinchilla to the cops because it, "certainly doesn't have all its shots!"  Asinine.
Posted by katelynbrian[/QUOTE]

That's awesome. We had an "illegal" chinchilla in our last apt. She wasn't on the approved list of animals because chinchillas are "exotic" and "not normal". Rats, guinea pigs, bunnies, etc. all perfectly fine but not chinchillas. Our landlord didn't care though and told us to just cover her cage if maintenance ever came over, which we did anyway along with shut her door.

Ciaram22

I hate when people tell me what I'm going to want in the delivery room period. I do not want an epidural, I do not want a c-section. Don't tell me that oh just you wait until it starts hurting and then you are going to scream for the epidural. You do not know this so get off your high horse and let me have the birth that I want.

mejane123

I can't stand any of those "been there, done that," sayings that people throw out.  For example, when I mentioned to my mom that FI and I would like to have 3 kids, she said "You'll change your mind after one, trust me."  Sure, she may be right.  But she could also be completely wrong.  "How can you know?  You don't have kids" is right there with that.  

And I can't stand "Because I said so" as a reason for doing things.  I think it's very important for kids to understand WHY what they're doing is wrong or WHY they're being told to do something.  "Because I said so" is not a reason, it's just saying "It really doesn't make a difference why you're being told to do something, I just want you to do it. So do it."  

"If you don't like it then don't look/listen, whatever" makes me so angry.  Don't do whatever obnoxious thing you're doing in front of me and I won't bleeping be annoyed by it!!!!!!  Also, using "I'm a paying customer" as a reason to be a d-bag drives me up a wall.  

mejane123

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[QUOTE]Not really a saying, but I can't stand it when people say "eggsactly" instead of exactly. There is no s. also, "mise well"... no, "it's might as well."   Same with "should of" or "could of"... no... "could've" stands for "could HAVE"
Posted by Steph0871[/QUOTE]

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</div><div>YES, these are so annoying!  Add "for all intensive purposes" to that, and "aks-id" instead of "ask."  </div>

Milsey32

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[QUOTE]<strong>When dispensing child advice: "How can you know? You don' t have kids."</strong> Regarding preferences during pregnancy/labor: "You'll change your mind.  Modesty won't matter anymore."
Posted by anna.oskar[/QUOTE]

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</div><div>Ughhhhhhh -- I'm a nanny, a summer camp counselor, and a swim instructor. I know kids. Heck, some kids I see more than their own parents do... It aggravates me when someone tells me I do not know anything about children or how to raise them or whatever. Grrr!!</div><div>
</div><div>& I also agree with whomever said the "Could of" "should of" for could've/should've.</div><div>& the childbirth nonsense, as well as anytime someone says "You're going to want/like/need" (That's why you start a sentence with "I think you may enjoy/want.." because that's clarifying it is your opinion and not a fact.) </div><div>
</div><div>Daaaang. after answering this I became somewhat cranky with society. </div>

katiewhompus

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[QUOTE]IAlso, using "I'm a paying customer" as a reason to be a d-bag drives me up a wall.  
Posted by mejane123[/QUOTE]

This, added with "the customer is always right" policies with retail. I'm sorry, but when animals are involved the customer is usually wrong, and I'm not going to kiss their ass if it means putting an animal in jeopardy.

mejane123

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Sayings that annoy/ infuriate/ frustrate you : This, added with "the customer is always right" policies with retail. I'm sorry, but when animals are involved the customer is usually wrong, and I'm not going to kiss their ass if it means putting an animal in jeopardy.
Posted by katiewhompus[/QUOTE]

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</div><div>Haha, whenever I hear someone say this I always think of that scene in Mallrats where Ben Affleck's character yells "The customer is always an A$$HOLE!" to Brody.  Not that I would ever in a milion years say that to a customer, but it's still funny.</div><div>
</div><div>I think the "customer is always right" thing goes out the window when living creatures become involved.  I also hate when people say "They're dogs, they belong outside."  I have neighbors who leave their poor little Westie outside for hours on end in the freezing cold barking and crying to get in.  He was out there until 11:30 last night and it SNOWED yesterday.  WTF?!?!</div><div>
</div><div>Oh, andplusalso, "I've always done it that way!"  Just because it's always been done that way does NOT make it right and it's certainly not an excuse to be a FVck up.</div><div>
</div><div>This post has be cranky with society, too.</div>

LeslieMPC

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[QUOTE]Not really a saying, but I can't stand it when people say "eggsactly" instead of exactly. <strong>There is no s. also, "mise well"... no, "it's might as well."   Same with "should of" or "could of"... no... "could've" stands for "could HAVE"</strong>
Posted by Steph0871[/QUOTE]


Im guilty of these. Except might as well comes out in one word. 
The could've, should've..totally guilty.  But I'm from Southern Lousiana and it's what I grew up with, that lazy southern drawl. We compress several words into one or two and drop our ER's.

But I promise not to use/do it on here. :)

jenajjthr

Although I do get annoyed with people saying "Oh just wait, you'll change your mind" I don't get all in a tizzy about it as long as they are older than me and have faced that situation themselves.   I see it as they have more experience in that matter than I and will ask them to explain why they think I will change my mind.  Sometimes their reasons are ones I had never considered and it does make me reevaluate myself.  Do I always change my mind, no, but I have a better understanding of issues I hadn't thought of. 

Nina0528

"Fi & I are wanting to blah blah blah"

"Want to" works just fine doesn't it? The bolded part can't be correct, can it? I like to think I have my grammar skills down, but I see that phrase so often that I'm beginning to question myself. "Are wanting to" just sounds so grating!

Denise91980

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[QUOTE] - The phrase "My parents did X and I turned out fine" being used during talks about parenting styles.
Posted by katiewhompus[/QUOTE]

<div>Ummm YES! Our parents back in the day did some crazy sh!t! Who says we are all fine?? LOL</div><div>My mom drank and smoked while pregnant, as did so many women at that time. It drives me insane!</div>

perkins81

When people treat me like I need to be told or reminded to do certain things, like lock the door on my way out. Hello! I've never NOT locked the door behind me, so why do you think I need to be told every time? I'm 29. I'm an adult, not a child. I've been locking doors behind me since before I can remember. I don't need to be reminded every time I leave the house! (note: this comes from FMIL whom I'm temporarily staying with until I move into my apt. this summer, which makes things all the more interesting b/c I have to keep quiet and keep the peace - grrrr)

When the issue of having kids comes up and I tell people we only want 2-3 kids and then they tell me we'd better hurry up cause time is tickin! Yes, I know. Do you have to remind me that we're not married yet? I know how old I am. Sheesh. I'm almost 30, which is still quite young enough to have a few kids, people! Yes it's true that we shouldn't wait too long - I know this so stop telling me. But we're not going to rush into marriage just so we can start popping out children.

Ok, that felt good to get it out - I like this topic -

mejane123

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[QUOTE]<strong>When people treat me like I need to be told or reminded to do certain things, like lock the door on my way out.</strong> Hello! I've never NOT locked the door behind me, so why do you think I need to be told every time? I'm 29. I'm an adult, not a child. I've been locking doors behind me since before I can remember. I don't need to be reminded every time I leave the house! (note: this comes from FMIL whom I'm temporarily staying with until I move into my apt. this summer, which makes things all the more interesting b/c I have to keep quiet and keep the peace - grrrr) When the issue of having kids comes up and I tell people we only want 2-3 kids and then they tell me we'd better hurry up cause time is tickin! Yes, I know. Do you have to remind me that we're not married yet? I know how old I am. Sheesh. I'm almost 30, which is still quite young enough to have a few kids, people! Yes it's true that we shouldn't wait too long - I know this so stop telling me. But we're not going to rush into marriage just so we can start popping out children. Ok, that felt good to get it out - I like this topic :)-
Posted by perkins81[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>Oooo, when they remind you to do this is that "Let me explain the importance of this to you in words your tiny brain will understand" tone of voice I get SO MAD.  I can understand just verbally confirming with whever you're leaving with that the door is locked with just a simple "Door's locked?  K, let's go."  But it's that "Did you remember to lock the door?  Because sometimes you forget to do things and I just want to MAKE SURE that you remembered."  

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BunnyChii

"It is what it is." Every time I've heard someone say that, they're telling me that they can't do anything about their situation. It's basically a "I could fix this, but I'm too lazy to" line. UGH. It's YOUR life, take some responsibility!

JoshCourtStanley

"I'm just sayin...."

Obviously we know you are saying something....you don't have to remind us. It's like they want us to think its funny or something. Soooooo annoying